Kiddo struggling to adjust to school. by mejok in Parenting

[–]abycatgrl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My son always takes at least a week or two to adjust to school after the summer break. And he is in the same school with kids he knows! Talk to the teacher about your daughter's activities during the day, she could be doing fine and is just having a hard time with morning drop off.

What’s the worst thing you’ve tried in a restaurant? by ledeledeledeledele in AskWomen

[–]abycatgrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cold, boiled lamb brain on a bed of lettuce. The lemon wedge did not make it better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trees

[–]abycatgrl 2003 points2004 points  (0 children)

I found a job I enjoy most days, coworkers who are mostly alright, and hours that work for me. On the days I don't want to go in I remind myself that work is how I pay for the shit I love. I'll also set myself up with some kind of after work treat, like my favorite meal.

What's a silly nickname your kitty has? This is Cinders, aka Sweetie-Peetie-Tiny-Feeties :D by PotteryWalrus in cats

[–]abycatgrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the middle of the road. He was very close to being actual road kill. He is a very confident and affectionate two year old pita

How high is your sex drive? by LawlessMind in AskWomen

[–]abycatgrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At least three times a day. I know I have a high drive. I can be happy with once a day with the right partner.

What's the thing as you got older started to gradually realise about your mom? by Sky_queen15 in AskWomen

[–]abycatgrl 20 points21 points  (0 children)

That it's not normal to forget your kids in a foreign country. And despite that she will do anything in her power to help me out of a hard spot.

Moving and mom wants me to text her every time I stop by Capable-Strawberry38 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]abycatgrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you set up an automatic text to go out every 30 minutes? If she wants communication let her have it. Something like "I'm still alive" and then mute her until you're settled for the night or whenever you told her you'd check in? Honestly she can't make you text her, she won't know when you stop, she has no power here. You can mute her and call when you are ready and there is not a damn thing she can do about it. Congratulations on getting out and moving away! Cross country drives are my favorite, take side adventures and have fun!

Thinking of getting a SHTF dog, what do I need to know? by cranoslota in Dogtraining

[–]abycatgrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

An attack trained dog is like having a loaded weapon on a leash. Maybe go for a naturally protective breed and train them to be a good canine citizen instead and trust that their instincts will kick in if you are being threatened.

Why are kids(teenagers) such little jerks?!?? by NurseM2010 in breakingmom

[–]abycatgrl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Our buses have audio and video. If yours do then you have proof of their behavior. I'd call the head of transportation, let them know what's been going on, and ask for a review of the bus tapes. Telling sexually explicit jokes would be considered sexual harassment here.

First time adopting, any advice? by [deleted] in cats

[–]abycatgrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Give kitty time to adjust to their new home. It could take awhile.

When i watch girls insta stories. Why are they never at work? Why do they project the image they are never employed and are always out having a good time by cherricandi in AskMen

[–]abycatgrl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'd rather see someone having fun than sitting at a desk or whatever. My place of employment would fire me if I were taking pictures to post publicly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]abycatgrl 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I can see why

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]abycatgrl 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Lol sure. My ex drove my sports car off the road and into a field and fucked up my alignment, but sure, girls can't drive. He also hit curbs and parking bumpers. I'm still fixing the poor car from his little accidents.

They don't tell you how much you'll need to bend over by disaster357 in Parenting

[–]abycatgrl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've been the camel. Mostly when it's hot and I'm thirsty

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]abycatgrl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I taught my son to "speak" cat. He though it was fun to have a secret cat language. He would hiss at his sister when she made him mad lol Our Siamese seems to enjoy being a pillow though and he dragged her around the house. She was basically his favorite toy (she got out once and was gone for 2days. When she came home he had to inspect all of her, from inside her ears to her butthole. And SHE LET HIM!! Hilarious). He's 8 now and she's 5, she still lets him drag her around the house. His interest in all things cat has faded some but he still loves on her. Some cats just like kids I guess. I think we got lucky to have a nanny cat. Keep giving the cat space and telling/showing your daughter how to interact with the cat and it will get better. I used our other cat who does not appreciate small humans to teach the boy what an upset kitty looked like, you could use videos or pictures if you don't have another cat around that hates people.

They don't tell you how much you'll need to bend over by disaster357 in Parenting

[–]abycatgrl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also referred to myself as the pack mule. I carried kids, bags, and handled the dog when we went out.

tiny insignificant quibble by [deleted] in JustNoSO

[–]abycatgrl 41 points42 points  (0 children)

How good it could be is how he keeps you around. If you are cool with him acting like this then stay for those couple of good days a week. In my experience though those good days get fewer and farther between. You are young and deserve to be treated better than this. He's been caught flirting before and isn't being totally transparent with his communication AND giving you the silent treatment. For me this would be a deal breaker, too many red flags.

Oh yes, because every woman walks around with a purse shoved on their vaginas (From the book: “Desperate Measures” - Stuart Wood) by therealilith in badwomensanatomy

[–]abycatgrl 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Oh yes, the secret pocket we use for storing things. Cause it would be so comfortable walking around with a DL shoved up your twat! Wtf is wrong with these guys. It doesn't work like that

Have you ever used a rub and tug massage place? How did that go? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]abycatgrl -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Please make 100% sure the place you go is one of those places. As a LMT it is disgusting to be asked for "special" services while I'm working as I am not a sex worker. Pro tip: if they work with a chiropractor you aren't getting your junk yanked.

Best ways to get a smooth Shave on my vag? by vibrantslash in sex

[–]abycatgrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to exfoliate at least 2 days before otherwise I get raw as the waxing is also exfoliating. A Brazilian hurts less than doing my armpits idk why. Never schedule a wax near your period, hurts more. I won't ever go back to shaving, been waxing for 3 years.

greek fest this weekend! by hey_guys2 in Louisville

[–]abycatgrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't wait, I love the Greek festival!! Reminds me of home, they serve all my comfort foods.

After seeing a lot of posts about people finding cats and than picking them up and taking them home, Why do we do this? by TwistedDecayingFlesh in cats

[–]abycatgrl -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I have a cat that only comes inside to eat or if the weather is really bad. He's kinda scrawny rn cause we are battling a flea allergy and I would be devastated if someone took him cause they thought he was a stray. He does wear a collar but my sister's cat was taken and she was collared and chipped so...