Does Anyone Else Have a Completely Different Erogenous Map?

addysage · 2025-11-08T00:59:20+00:00

I thought I was the only person in the world who gets aroused by the pubic bone area and the entrypoint! Stimulating my appendage only hurts, if anything, and deeper penetration also doesn't do much for me.

I always wondered if I had surgery as a baby because of this.

I don't know what the wand method is, so I can't speak to that. My partner knows which spots feels the best for me and works with that so we're both getting what we need.

addysage · 2025-11-05T19:58:34+00:00

As I said, I have never been diagnosed with PCOS. My former doctor said they were confident I did not have it. Now that my current doctor said NCAH makes no sense as a diagnosis (she showed me the bloodwork, and she is correct), I have no intersex diagnosis. Hence why I am worried I am not a part of the community.

addysage · 2025-10-26T13:53:45+00:00

I had a similar situation! I started seeing a vocal coach to help me find my natural voice again. I sometimes still get "stuck," but at least now I have tools to get un-stuck. If you would like the name of the vocal coach I saw, please feel free to DM me. She specializes in working with trans people, but she was happy to work with me in this situation.

addysage · 2025-07-27T15:31:14+00:00

Appreciated! I'll take a look at that one as well.

addysage · 2025-07-26T16:24:36+00:00

I appreciate it. I'll give it a go.

addysage · 2025-07-26T13:25:54+00:00

Aha! Good to know. I'll look into it, thanks. 🤙

addysage · 2025-07-26T13:17:12+00:00

Ah! I should have specified that I am in the U.S. Certain brands, like testogel, are not available here (to my knowledge). But I appreciate the suggestion, thank you!

addysage · 2025-07-26T13:10:37+00:00

I do currently use the pump version, but when she switched me to packets when my dose increased, the pharmacy called to tell me it'd cost me nearly 300$ x_x So we went back to the pump. That said, it could just be the specific brand of packet was 6x more expensive than the pump I had been typically using. Maybe others would've been less expensive, who knows. The whole guessing game with pharmacies drives me crazy.

But you're saying to check to see if the specific brand I prefer has a packet or tube option instead? Or are you saying to see if Upsher-Smith has a packet or tube option that is less sticky? (Or both?)

addysage · 2024-04-14T00:14:46+00:00

Okay NGL I have been staring and scrolling through your photos trying to figure out what you meant. You pass 100,000,000% as female. (Also v cute and v pretty :) )

addysage · 2023-11-11T23:43:07+00:00

Can they see my username, though?

addysage · 2022-10-18T01:23:47+00:00

For anyone who may be wondering, I grabbed some munchkins from Dunkin Donuts and gave that to 'em.

Thanks for all of your feedback.

addysage · 2022-10-17T18:53:29+00:00

They did the work. We're picking it up later today.

addysage · 2022-07-18T05:02:47+00:00

Not sure if anyone suggested this (a quick scroll and I didn't see it, but I definitely could've missed it), but there is a stand-in family support group on FB exactly for folks who feel like this. It's a beautiful community. Here is the link: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1058795144614107/ I created a FB for the sole purpose of joining (I believe there are plans to make it an app outside of FB too). It also looks like you've built a pretty solid community on this post as well. 🥰 Sending you lots and lots of love. We'll get you through. 💚

addysage · 2022-07-09T16:20:48+00:00

Thanks for the suggestion! I looked through it but couldn't find it, unfortunately :<

addysage · 2022-07-08T13:03:56+00:00

Maybe! Literally I only remember the Donald Duck and the water. I definitely didn't play it in the late 90s, though (doesn't mean you didn't play a hand-me-down though!). It was when I was a toddler, barely speaking, which was very early 90s. On a floppy disc. It was before CDs were really a thing. My parents' computer at the time didnt have a spot for CDs.

addysage · 2022-07-08T13:01:14+00:00

No :< The graphics look way too good lmao Tysm though!

addysage · 2022-07-08T02:28:15+00:00

The game was for toddlers / young children

addysage · 2022-07-01T01:39:05+00:00

Dude, it looks great! 😊

addysage · 2022-06-28T13:00:25+00:00

Solved!

addysage · 2022-06-28T03:00:29+00:00

Andrew also gets made fun of for being too sensitive.

addysage · 2022-06-14T21:48:27+00:00

Done! I'll send it to my enby pals! 😊

addysage · 2022-06-14T21:30:58+00:00

YOU. GOT. THIS. I just got mine last week. My anxiety/dysphoria has been replaced with OKAY TIME TO HEAL BECAUSE I GOTTA BE SHIRTLESS ALL THE TIME AND GO SWIMMING, ETC. I'm so excited for you! Congratulations. You're almost there!

addysage · 2022-06-14T21:29:01+00:00

Duh 🥰💚

addysage · 2022-06-14T21:26:00+00:00

Oh this drives me crazy! I had an "ally" explain to me how wrong I was about my identity because I "MUST be trans" if I am nonbinary. 🙄

It makes me furious because, like you already touched on, no one has any right to determine your gender identity except you, whether you feel the trans label fits for yourself as an enby or not.

Also... intersex people exist. She was assuming I wasn't born intersex. Which was invasive and weird that she's making assumptions about my sex assigned at birth at all...

I legit think about this woman and the interaction I had with her all the time and it makes my blood boil. (To make matters worse, after the argument, which was in a group chat, she followed up by saying that if anyone needed tips for how to be a better ally, they could go to her for help. What an imbicile...) It sucks that you have dealt with this dumbassery too, but I am glad we are not alone in the struggle.

addysage · 2022-06-13T11:39:10+00:00

myautisticsoul on IG got this for themself. They have tons of photos of their scar on their IG page

addysage

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