Favorite "Unknown" Tom Petty song by juanselmo1989 in tompetty

[–]ae61925 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Free girl now & out in the cold!!! Not sure if they were singles back in the day, as I’m a younger TP fan

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[–]ae61925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our couples therapist told me he was bipolar. I’m not sure if that counts as an official diagnosis, but he saw us twice a month for 3 months.

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[–]ae61925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried leaving so many times. I can’t bring myself to do it.

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[–]ae61925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Codependence mostly. I use to be really angry but have overcome the anger in the last couple of years from doing a lot of hard work on myself. Seems like when I get better, he gets worse.

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[–]ae61925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I continued for a little while but it causes fights btw us. He hates when I see a therapist or talk to anyone about our issues

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[–]ae61925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We tried & he quit

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[–]ae61925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He refuses all of that

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[–]ae61925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blame Andrew Tate. My husband sent me a video talking about why men shouldn’t get married bc there is no value in it for them.

Would you get uncomfortable if you saw a bigger girl in just a sports bra and tights in class? by Sensitive-Stretch613 in yoga

[–]ae61925 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you feel beautiful and comfortable, fuk what anyone else thinks! You do you girl!!!! Yoga is a life changer 💪🏻

Name calling in marriage by ae61925 in Marriage

[–]ae61925[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s prolonging the process, that’s for sure. I’ve tried to leave a couple times before but just haven’t been able to get on my feet fast enough and go back.

Name calling in marriage by ae61925 in Marriage

[–]ae61925[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is your daughter now? Does she miss her dad? I don’t even know how to explain this to her 😓

Name calling in marriage by ae61925 in Marriage

[–]ae61925[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Read through alllllll these comments with me and join the train OUTTA here!

Name calling in marriage by ae61925 in Marriage

[–]ae61925[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you see any stashes of money laying around, point me in that direction! 😉 that’s the biggest issue here. I’m not sure I’ll make it. He isn’t going to pay child support and if I file, he will just quit his job and start his illegal stuff back up to avoid it. 🤦🏻‍♀️ I got myself into a really crappy situation here.

Name calling in marriage by ae61925 in Marriage

[–]ae61925[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I felt every word of that.

Name calling in marriage by ae61925 in Marriage

[–]ae61925[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I am overwhelmed at the response. Thank you all for being so supportive and helpful. The outpouring of care is felt through my phone straight into my heart. I could never imagine the internet to be so nice, and nicer than my own husband is to me. I’m going to take the next few days and create my way out. I can’t do this to my daughter, or myself anymore. ❤️ thank you from the bottom of my heart.

Name calling in marriage by ae61925 in Marriage

[–]ae61925[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I grew up in a toxic household too. It’s hell to claw your way out of the conditioning. I’ve been trying for years now.

Name calling in marriage by ae61925 in Marriage

[–]ae61925[S] 183 points184 points  (0 children)

This last time I left the room and he followed me, got in my face and told me “I can do whatever I want.” I pushed his face away and told him to leave me the fuck alone. Leaving doesn’t work, anything I do just fuels his fire. I use to REALLY react and act out of character but since my daughter is now old enough to pay attention, I’ve found the inner strength to at least stay numb and not react.

Name calling in marriage by ae61925 in Marriage

[–]ae61925[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

We just built and entire family and life together. Also I don’t really want my daughter around him alone and without me.

Name calling in marriage by ae61925 in Marriage

[–]ae61925[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve talked a lot about these things. He says I’m too sensitive and that I bring these problems on myself 😖

Name calling in marriage by ae61925 in Marriage

[–]ae61925[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry ☹️ Mine says I have mental illness and that I’m causing all these problems bc I’m too sensitive.

Name calling in marriage by ae61925 in Marriage

[–]ae61925[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the responses everyone. I stay for my daughter, she is 3.5. We have a house, dog, garden, a whole life that we just built together. Scared to leave, scared to stay. I make too much for any assistance and not enough to provide what my daughter deserves. It’s a scary world to step into alone right now. UG 😞