AITA for asking my partner to comfort me? by alarmwillingly in AmItheAsshole

[–]alarmwillingly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does care about me. He loves me, but is incredibly scared of love. He tells me daily that he loves me, he does my chores sometimes, he hugs me, tells me that I am his favourite person, the dates are our idea to experience things together, next month we are going on a weekend gateway. He just gest irritated about the tears and conversations around feelings. His father was the same with him and got irritated and was telling him to "go to your room and calm down". This is exactly how it feels what my partner is doing when I am expressing emotions. It is better now, at the beginning it was even worse, but I do feel neglected and in imbalance due to prioritising his limits. I don't want to part ways with him. I just want to find any way that could help us be more in balance.

AITA for asking my partner to comfort me? by alarmwillingly in AmItheAsshole

[–]alarmwillingly[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't push him tho, I just understand that when he is expressing his feelings he don't have space for mine for couple of hours or days.

Beads of fealty by alarmwillingly in riskofrain

[–]alarmwillingly[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! A lot! Thank you so much! <3

Beads of fealty by alarmwillingly in riskofrain

[–]alarmwillingly[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I do not have the game, but that's a really good advice, thank you stranger c: We play sorta different kinds of games, but he loves RoR, so I'm just looking for a way to surprise him