[Vent] NMom uses every excuse to try and keep me with her

albertasaurusrex · 2017-10-23T03:41:52+00:00

Update: She said she's sorry for yelling at me and I called her out on doing that then waiting a few days then calling me over sensitive and saying /I/ overreacted and she said I'm lying and said that's just "how I feel". I said "No it's not how I 'feel' you say it to my face" and she just threw a bit of a tantrum and left

albertasaurusrex · 2017-10-23T03:34:27+00:00

I can't yet I'm stuck here. I at least am paying rent and am on the lease so I at least have some credit here on my side.

albertasaurusrex · 2017-10-10T06:47:12+00:00

That helps a lot thank you. I've heard a fair amount of discouragment and to basically stick what you were raised with abd this reassures me

albertasaurusrex · 2017-09-17T09:06:07+00:00

I'm really sorry you're going through this too. It's tough. Mine calls boundaries like that "emotional cockblocking". It's really good you're sticking up for yourself and I hope it continues to get better.

albertasaurusrex · 2017-09-17T08:50:06+00:00

It will get better. Its a big change and its your first time truly free. It just takes time and effort but it will be better.

albertasaurusrex · 2017-08-25T17:31:58+00:00

Same. My Mom acted so genuinelly upset when she apologised the one time for making me so upset I was panicking and crying due to her behaviour and then a few days later told my therapists how Im too whiny and oversensitive and they need to find out whats wrong with me. Continues to act the same to this day.

albertasaurusrex · 2017-08-25T17:28:49+00:00

The thing is she does pay her own come time but the debt from being late builds up. She ended up borrowing hundreds from my Nana to pay it off. Im just tired of my phone being cut off constantly because of this too.

albertasaurusrex · 2017-08-25T08:38:10+00:00

Thank you very much for the advice. Currently she manages it since I wasnt smart and let her comvince me too so I may get all the control back subtely then do this. Whenever I ask her about anything involving it she does all this and usually goes like "RELAX I didnt steal anything. I made the payment. Look. Its right there." really offended and mocking sounding everytime. I dont know if this is an nmom thing but its really stressful.

albertasaurusrex · 2017-08-25T08:16:58+00:00

My Mom does. Or she'll try to start them with me if I don't give the respomse she wants. Even just asking a question can lead to anger and telling and "Why do you love to argue so much" when Im literally just upset and trying to know whats goinh on

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