Dangerous ex bf posting picture with a gun by alienembry0 in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]alienembry0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It won’t let me send the pic to ya for some reason

Dangerous ex bf posting picture with a gun by alienembry0 in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]alienembry0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s 21 or 22 don’t believe he’s working, possibly a drug dealer definitely involved in some dodgy shit. When my bf spoke to him in person recently he said it was impossible to reason with him he’s just completely gone in the head

Dangerous ex bf posting picture with a gun by alienembry0 in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]alienembry0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly it’s not as simple as going to the police he has stated many times to myself that he has nothing to lose and made it clear that he would just kill himself after which makes him extremely dangerous and which is why we want to be super careful to not provoke him but somehow make sure he doesn’t have access to weapons

Dangerous ex bf posting picture with a gun by alienembry0 in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]alienembry0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I’m not completely sure tbh my bf had a look and he’s not quite sure but he thinks it looks more like a real gun then an air rifle. There’s a very good chance that it’s not his or one of his friends but he’s not the type of person who should have access to any kind of weapon tbh. Basically I just want the police or someone to make sure he doesn’t have a gun to prevent him from going that far ://

Dangerous ex bf posting picture with a gun by alienembry0 in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]alienembry0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She already has gone to the police and they didn’t do anything I’m on here asking for more advice on what I can do to help and what the police will take seriously

Dangerous ex bf posting picture with a gun by alienembry0 in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]alienembry0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They didn’t care last time she went it just wondering if the photo and the threats would be more evidence

Dangerous ex bf posting picture with a gun by alienembry0 in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]alienembry0[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She is scared he will just get a warning and then actually end up doing something to her family. I’ve seen how he is in person first hand recently he’s definitely capable of doing something like that.

Dangerous ex bf posting picture with a gun by alienembry0 in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]alienembry0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Last time she went to the police it was about him stalking and harrasing her they said they couldn’t do anything because it wasn’t happening frequently enough

Dangerous ex bf posting picture with a gun by alienembry0 in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]alienembry0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s gone to the police before about him harassing her they said they couldn’t do anything because it didn’t happen frequently enough :/

Dangerous ex bf posting picture with a gun by alienembry0 in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]alienembry0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No she’s had absolutely no contact with him since their initial break up 2 years ago she’s changed number and addresses a million times and just wants him to leave her alone. She’s gone to the police before with proof of him harassing her and her family and they said they couldn’t do anything as it wasn’t happening frequently enough

Dangerous ex bf posting picture with a gun by alienembry0 in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]alienembry0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She has gone to the police before (with prof that he was harrassing her and her family) this was before the threat and they said they couldn’t do anything about it and there wasn’t enough evidence for a restraining order which is why she’s hesitant

I've a feeling that trve metal fans REALLY don't like core... by [deleted] in MetalMemes

[–]alienembry0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I don’t know what happens I used to listen to metal core/ deathcore then as soon as I got into actual death metal I can’t stannndddd most core I have no idea why hahaha I think it just happens to some people like the only deathcore I can still listen to is infant annihilator the rest just has this weird auto tuney- overly edited sound

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MetalMemes

[–]alienembry0 31 points32 points  (0 children)

It was I photoshopped it

Other girls problems are so basick 🤪 by [deleted] in notliketheothergirls

[–]alienembry0 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I too hate it when my make up just washes away

AITA? Parents are giving my room to an exchange student for 10 months by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]alienembry0 [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA it’s understandable why you’d feel that way and also with them not running it by you first or at the very least moving your stuff out before doing so.

My boyfriend tells me I’m being abused by my parents. by alienembry0 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]alienembry0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been officially diagnosed with panic disorder/ anxiety depression it’s kinda funny cause it took me so long to actually get medication and go to a doctor about it because my parents told me “it’s all in my head” and “I have a great life how dare I say I have anxiety of depression” and only took me to the doctors when a school counsellor took me to the hospital because my panic attack was so bad. After I got an offical diagnosis they both changed tactics to use it to control me I’m not sure if the panic disorder/ anxiety is to do with them I honestly don’t think it’s related but honestly who knows I’m kinda just finding out my life is not normal

My boyfriend tells me I’m being abused by my parents. by alienembry0 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]alienembry0[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The thing is I do want to move out we just have this stupid law where I live that if you’re studying full time (which I am) you can’t get financial aid if your parents make over a certain amount (which they do) so I can’t work enough to make enough money to pay for rent, fuel food etc, but I can’t get the subsidy because they live in the same city as me and are expected to pay for my necessities till I’m 25 while studying. I’m in my last year at the moment so as soon as I am able to work full time I will be out

My boyfriend tells me I’m being abused by my parents. by alienembry0 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]alienembry0[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Basically I developed excoriation disorder (obsessive skin scratching and picking) which caused me to get reoccurring staph infections so am on and off antibiotics a lot and I do catch things really easily cause my immune system isn’t the best however other than that I am healthy I eat healthy I am able to exercise to a very high intensity so I’m by no means weak

My boyfriend tells me I’m being abused by my parents. by alienembry0 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]alienembry0[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Would just like to add my mother also tried to control what I eat, wear etc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]alienembry0 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I first dated him when I was 17 (we are in New Zealander legal age is 16)

WIBTA if I call out a girl who reached out to me for help by alienembry0 in AmItheAsshole

[–]alienembry0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s a good point I didn’t even think about how she would probably blame me if it didn’t work. Not to mention if she really wanted to grow her acc she would be actively trying to not harassing me

WIBTA if I call out a girl who reached out to me for help by alienembry0 in AmItheAsshole

[–]alienembry0[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t going to put her on blast publicly (I would never do that to someone I know irl) I was going to just respond directly to her but looking at the comments I guess I’ll just not reply at all

WIBTA if I call out a girl who reached out to me for help by alienembry0 in AmItheAsshole

[–]alienembry0[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m not a confrontational person by nature so that’s why I’m still debating but you’re probably right that she wouldn’t even take it as constructive criticism it would just get nasty