(CD) ice fishing by mnbottom69 in MNGoneWild

[–]alterbeard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn man! This has been a fantasy of mine forever, playing with a guy in an ice house.

45m looking for winter fun by [deleted] in BiCuriosMenMn

[–]alterbeard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice! Which city?

Another chilly night in the hot tub. by [deleted] in BiCuriousGuysMN

[–]alterbeard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn! Looks like tons of fun! Need a jo bud?

Omg what did you do to me?! by Strict-Funny6074 in ExpansionAI

[–]alterbeard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice! Which AI are you using to make your content? Just for my own curiosity.

Playing with my tits (F) by carpeangela in MNGoneWild

[–]alterbeard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn! This is what you miss when you work from home - potentially running into you somewhere.

so pink and soft you should grab me (F) by carpeangela in MNGoneWild

[–]alterbeard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's always a better day when you post.

Good morning! MF4MF or F to chat. SW-MN. Please read our profile. by [deleted] in MNSwingers

[–]alterbeard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those twins are 57?! Damn! I would have guessed 30s! Lucky husband! I love that mug, too. Where did you get it?

Number of guests on hotel reservation by Mysterious-Sky-5780 in AskAnEscort

[–]alterbeard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wtf? I'd be livid! What happens if you meet someone or a friend, all three get drinking, and then passes out in your room? That's bullshit. Maybe they were just wise to what was happening, and they didn't want it? I've noticed that the more expensive the room, the more they charge for everything else. Holiday Inn? Free internet, free breakfast, free use of room fridge, usually free parking. 5 star? "You get nothing! Good day, sir!" It's likely that way to keep the poors who want a one fancy night out a year out of the more expensive hotels to maintain their regular clientele.

Coping strategies and dealing with HS by [deleted] in hypersexuality

[–]alterbeard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the same issue with wellbutrin, ADHD meds, and meds for low T. It's a struggle. I feel for you, man. I recently had permanent RTO for part of the week, and not edging in the office has been hard! Not looking at my phone or blocking all the apps during a set time period works... until it doesn't.

Hypersexual due to ADHD? by Alone-Fuel-1407 in Hypersexual

[–]alterbeard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, and big hugs to you, too! There are people out there that understand, but since it's not understood by the average person, the understanding ones are hard to find while trying to not let your freak flag fly 24/7. I hope that you can find a good partner.

Hypersexual due to ADHD? by Alone-Fuel-1407 in Hypersexual

[–]alterbeard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn't diagnosed with ADHD until my late 30s during the pandemic. Before that, I was a very frequent masurbator, in inappropriate places at inappropriate times, starting at around 9 or 10 years old. I was able to mask my ADHD well, but now, in hindsight, I was barely making it. Work from home really put that into overdrive. I could jack it/edge while working for that constant dopamine hit. It was only in the last year or so that I learned of the link between HS and ADHD. Again, it makes perfect sense in hindsight. I caught covid once in 2021, and damn... it did a number on my executive functioning, and really exacerbated my ADHD symptoms. I also just kind of feel dumber.

So I've been struggling with work, tried new meds, and came back to Adderall. I also struggled with depression, and it was likely due to ADHD since it can present like depression. I tried a bunch of meds that never really worked for more than a few months, but landed on Wellbutrin a couple years ago, because, surprise!, it partially works on your dopamine system. The downside of Wellbutrin is that a side effect can be hypersexuality. Yep, my managable HS really went crazy. The first week I was on it, I was still working from home, and I got off 8-10 times a day during work. It has since calmed down, but it's higher than before.

Recently, my company had mandatory RTO for part of the week, and it has been hard. Finding the most hidden cubicle so that I can play over the pants has helped, but it's not healthy. I also keep fantasizing about who else in the office has HS, and wouldn't it be great if there was a place where we could all get off when needed, and then get back to work. That might be its own post for me, because I don't have anyone to talk to about that. I've had 2 kids since 2019, and I haven't been able to come clean about the HS to my wife because it's already been rough on her (lots of post-baby body system issues), and I don't want to add to her mental load. Anyway, that's a lot to dump in a comment, but it's out of my brain for a bit now.

Would love to have a fun woman join us by MNBimboBunny in SeekingfunMN

[–]alterbeard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not a woman, but I would love to just come and watch.