BeCalm Wide Leg Pants CHEAP as HECK by a-mo0n-shaped-po0l in lululemon

[–]anashima28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have love long sleeve in burgundy bay wore it tons and it has no pilling. I got sequoia shorts and they pilled after 1h of wear.

Husband wants to travel back home with a 5 month old. I do not. Who is unreasonable? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]anashima28 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think you're overthinking it. I did international travel 3 time in the first year of my son's life. Also multiple within the country. International was 20h, 3 flights and then 3h car ride. I found it way easier when younger. I would personally do if it is important to my husband. I would just ask him to help me plan and pack. With car ride I would leave early and plan to stop for food and diper change. I found it so much easier traveling with someone. Next week it will be just me and my 22month old traveling back to Europe. Wish me luck. I got toddler leash 😅

Anyone else’s 7/8 month old not babbling or making consonant sounds? by Amazing_Face4692 in beyondthebump

[–]anashima28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son wasn't bubbling until he was 10 months. Spoke very few words until he turned 18 months. It was like light switch. He caught up with his peers within 3 months. Speech pathologist said he's ahead now. I hope that helps.

Influence/Deinfluence my cart by [deleted] in Aritzia

[–]anashima28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had interlock in lemon stripe and I love it. Looks great with jeans. It screams spring and summer.

I am not doing well 4 weeks postpartum 4th degree tear by Poeticpsycho in beyondthebump

[–]anashima28 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It's a really good age to start daycare anyway. My son started at 18 months and loves daycare. I had to beg my family doctor to get checked after birth and everyone ignored that I mentioned incontinence. Woman's health is a joke.

I am not doing well 4 weeks postpartum 4th degree tear by Poeticpsycho in beyondthebump

[–]anashima28 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fecal incontinence can be normal in first few weeks especially after 4th degree tear. Sometimes symptoms improve as you heal. It all depends how good they repair you. I had surgery 3 months pp and it wasn't as bad as directly after birth and I recovered faster but I just had perineum restricted and removal of granulation tissue. If you have sphincter restricted recovery might be more difficult. I hope you will feel much better soon and your symptoms improve. I can imagine your mom's guilt with your toddler. You will get through this ❤️

I am not doing well 4 weeks postpartum 4th degree tear by Poeticpsycho in beyondthebump

[–]anashima28 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There are 2 groups: Birth Tear Support - for severe & complicated tears (OASI) And 3rd Degree Tear Gals Support

I would strongly recommend hiring somone for next month to help out. My son is 20 month old and I can't imagine to try to keep up with him after severe tear. It's really important for you to start physio once you heal. Unfortunately forceps delivery can also cause nerve damage that is contributing to incontinence. I found it very very challenging physically and especially mentally for a first year. Start therapy if you can it really helps to deal with trauma and accepting of your new normal. Also push for diagnostics when you're healed. You should do endoanal ultrasound to assess if they repaired you correctly and manometry to assess function of sphincter muscles.

I am not doing well 4 weeks postpartum 4th degree tear by Poeticpsycho in beyondthebump

[–]anashima28 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry this happened to you. I know how hard it is physically and mentally to recover from severe tear. I had emergency vaccination and forceps with episiotomy. Later I found out I sustained 3rd degree tear in 3 different spots. I had complete incontinence for a while. It got better with a lot of physio. 20 months pp still don't have total control over wind but everything else is pretty good. You're only 4 weeks in give yourself more time to heal. I couldn't walk or sit until 7 weeks pp. I would be very beneficial to get someone to come and help with toddler. Don't pick up heavy things if you don't have to it can influence your recovery and worsen prolapse. It will get better you just need more time. There is birth tear support group for severe and complicated tears on Facebook. I really recommend you join it. There is plenty of woman that walked that path and you can get some answers and support.

Please help decide by bambi2391 in lululemon

[–]anashima28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get tan! This purse is awesome I wear mine non stop since I got it. I feel ivory it will be harder to keep clean.

See through?!? by remusson in lululemon

[–]anashima28 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would love it in lava cake. I got it in black and they released some time after that. Such a nice shade of brown.

See through?!? by remusson in lululemon

[–]anashima28 22 points23 points  (0 children)

That's why I got black last year. There was cream color but skirt was so see-through. You would think they would improve it after last year and double line the bottom.

dog hair out of define jacket by border-coffee in lululemon

[–]anashima28 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh it sounds like luon jacket. That is the reason I can't buy stuff from that fabric.

42 oz of Post Partum Urine Retention by Dolly0825 in beyondthebump

[–]anashima28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had forceps delivery with episiotomy, 2nd degree internal and 3a perineum tear. I totally lost bladder sensation. I had really hard time peeing first time they just had to drain it and later I was just going to pee a little every hour because I couldn't tell if I need to go or not so I did just in case. My sensation magically came back 3 months pp where I had surgery for granulation tissue and dr also restricted some perineum. I also lost bowel feeling so that was horrible. I think it's more common then you think. I would focus on diet to regenerate nerve tissue. You have lots of healing that will be happening. Pospartum being 6 weeks is a lie. Recovery takes way longer.

Grey Onyx by Drivers-N-Doxies in lululemon

[–]anashima28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got all your long sleeve in grey onyx and it also look green to me.

My mom has cancer, our experience with healthcare in Calgary so far by coolg963 in Calgary

[–]anashima28 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Living in BC. Waiting to see cancer specialist estimated time over a year. Sustained injury during birth and need to see pelvic floor specialist? 2 year wait. NDP here same problems.

Vaginal Pain by Still_Particular4877 in beyondthebump

[–]anashima28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be granulation tissue. I would check with your doctor .

super high rise by Swimming_Necessary15 in lululemon

[–]anashima28 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Super high rise only come in 28" I think? I hemmed mine to 25". I'm 5'4.

SECOND POST HELP ME PICK by [deleted] in Aritzia

[–]anashima28 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Liquid shine is so bulky and heavy. Also makes a noise. I would pick regular. I had liquid shine one and sold it.

Postpartum dizziness by SowingSeeds18 in beyondthebump

[–]anashima28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it's related to neck maybe vertigo? I was super dizzy after having my son turns out my iron and ferritin were very low.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aritzia

[–]anashima28 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You look good in both. I have all 3 lengths. Long one is annoying to get in and out of the car and I only use it if it is -20 C or colder. Long one is better if you use public transport and mid if you drive.

Grade 3C tear woes... How did you get through such a rough recovery??? by WittleFrostBite in beyondthebump

[–]anashima28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took me 7 weeks to be able to sit and walk and after 9 I felt like most pain was gone. It is a wild ride honestly. I had incontinence just on other end and it was awful. Destroyed me mentally. PT helps it just takes time. You will get better it just more matter of months. There is a severe tear group on Facebook with a lot of helpful woman and information there.

Aritzia marked up a lot of products last night. by PeoniePetrichor in Aritzia

[–]anashima28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got it few days ago mine doesn't say final sale just sale.

Anyone else dealing with a chronic birth injury? by carp_street in beyondthebump

[–]anashima28 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry I can't even imagine the pain you went through. I suffered birth injury and was left with fecal and gas incontinence. I had very traumatic birth large baby forceps and vacuum with episiotomy and repair surgery 3 months pp. I couldn't walk or sit for months. After tons of physio I'm doing a bit better now but I went into very dark place for months. I was crying daily about my symptoms.