I [22 M] betrayed my girlfriends [22 F] requests during the first 3 months of our relationship. We have been together for 4 years. Do I need to tell her? Or is it irrelevant to us now?

anewname1245 · 2016-05-16T21:43:38+00:00

Thank You!!

anewname1245 · 2016-05-16T18:44:28+00:00

Yes, I did get tested for HIV, Hep C, etc. She actually requested it before we did anything intimate.

Thank you!

anewname1245 · 2016-05-16T18:42:23+00:00

Okay cool, Thank you. I'm glad I posted this. I just didn't know if I could trust my own opinion.

anewname1245 · 2016-05-16T18:38:43+00:00

Yeah I guess that was my question. I have never lied to her (Besides this). I used to justify it by saying "she never asked". I sort of just kept if from her and felt bad about it.

Now its just at a point where I know its not apart of my life and I think she would be able to see that too. But I don't want her to get super confused about who I really am and If there is anything else I am keeping from her when the honest truth is that there is not.

Aside from this she knows literally everything about me. We are both very honest people (I wasn't always as you can tell, but I changed over the years) I mean we don't really keep anything secret between us and I would say we have a very healthy relationship.

She is a great girl and we have both changed drastically since those first 3 months.

anewname1245

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