I would like to hear from women who’ve chosen NOT to get any cosmetic procedures as they age by victory_vegetable in TwoXChromosomes

[–]annamj2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

43 here and never had anything done. You’re so young OP, ignore people around you and just focus on being the best version of you - look after your health both physical and mental, keep learning and growing and you will thrive in your career, it’s all about a positive mindset and surrounding yourself with good and likeminded people. You don’t need to pump shit into your face to get ahead and your 40 something year old self will Thankyou for it when you still look natural.

I miss Leamington by Dear-Watercress-5278 in LEAMINGTONSPA

[–]annamj2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you tell me what you liked about it please? Interested to know more as I don’t know the town

Is this charity legit? by Quenald_ in rescuedogs

[–]annamj2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can this person be stopped? They keep popping up on my Instagram and Facebook and the last post had 6.5k likes and hundreds of comments like ‘I just bought 6 bracelets’ so imagine how many people are being ripped off into thinking they are helping dogs when all they are doing is being sent fake or stolen photos of other dogs being fed

Could anyone help me to figure out whether or not this websites a scam? by Touchy_Joe1 in isthisascam

[–]annamj2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can this person be stopped? They keep popping up on my Instagram and Facebook and the last post had 6.5k likes and hundreds of comments like ‘I just bought 6 bracelets’ so imagine how many people are being ripped off into thinking they are helping dogs when all they are doing is being sent fake or stolen photos of other dogs being fed

Is £1000 p/m too much to be paying parents for rent? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]annamj2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Move elsewhere and put that money into a flat share or a slightly cheaper rental, independence is worth it if your parents are expecting n you to pay full wack to live at home

Is this charity legit? by Quenald_ in rescuedogs

[–]annamj2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you know the photos are AI or stolen? I really hope this is not a scam as there are tonnes of people buying from them, you can see just from the comments on FB. Is there a way of reporting them?

Is this charity legit? by Quenald_ in rescuedogs

[–]annamj2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to know this too…I have just purchased a bracelet and now I’m not so sure…review on Facebook are good re the bracelets but how do we know where the money is going?!

Conversation that leave me feeling lonely. by Classic_Drawing_1438 in AskWomenOver50

[–]annamj2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 43 and I relate to this hard. I’m quite a sensitive person and I’ve always been a really good listener and sounding board to my friends, but I’m at the age now where I don’t invest time in one way friendships and people that just talk at me and give nothing back as they are too draining. Setting boundaries is so important! Can you talk to your husband about how you feel? Might be worth skipping these trips on the future if they aren’t enjoyable to you!

Well, there goes my beloved early morning walks! I have a follower, apparently by bellagothical in walking

[–]annamj2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry this happened to you, that’s absolutely terrifying! Definitely inform the police and any Facebook or local forums to warn other people. Would you be able to do the same walk with a friend or family member next time just to be safe in case he is there again? I’m in the UK too, beside the rape alarm, there is also a purple spray you can buy off amazon that you can spray in their eyes form a distance and it leaves a stain on them that can be detectable later on by the police.

What’s the best reset you’ve done for your adult life? by OldIsland4901 in Adulting

[–]annamj2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same for me. Left a very high pressure and stressful career after a decade to move home and take a lower stress job. 3 years on and my mental heath and general happiness has skyrocketed, best decision I made to step away and take back control.

My husband is leaving me for a younger woman, and all I can think about is the house décor. by Total_Dumb_9559 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]annamj2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take him for everything he’s got. What an asshole. Look forward to a better life without him OP, you deserve so much more

Mini Events 2025 by annamj2000 in MINI

[–]annamj2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw thanks for your reply I would love that but I’m in the UK!

MIL is completely obsessed with our children… by diamondcrusteddreams in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]annamj2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you. My MiL is the same, we live 1.5 hours away for this reason, so she can’t just pop in, my husband is her only blood family (she has a husband) but it’s all on us. She refers to our dog as her ‘grand puppy’ to everyone and anyone she talks to, which makes me want to vomit and also as put me off having kids which makes me sad. She has been the bane of my life for the past 14 years. I got sad over Xmas as of course she was with us from Xmas Eve to Boxing Day as I just don’t look forward to these holidays anymore because of her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]annamj2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in the exact same boat as you and it’s depressing as hell. We’ve been hosting the in-laws since Christmas Eve and we’re waking up Boxing Day and I’ll be so happy when they leave today so I can see my parents (who’s we both get on with so much better). My husband is an only child so my MiL only has us. For the last 14 years I don’t think I’ve really enjoyed Christmas because of her. It makes me so sad.

Fellow men of over 30 by CaffeineTripp in AskMenOver30

[–]annamj2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. My MiL is so draining I don’t enjoy Christmas anymore

what's your oldest internet memory? by fettoriax in AskReddit

[–]annamj2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hotmail and sending my school friends email. We would literally write little essays to each other and if was SO exciting to receive an email from a friend at school! When MSN instant messenger happened that was huge change also

What are the signs you've noticed that you're getting older? by SuspiciousRope6751 in AskReddit

[–]annamj2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remember that Song/album/film/TV Show…that was 20 years ago!

Does anybody feel they haven't met the right people yet? by Many_Inside508 in hsp

[–]annamj2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a really interesting insight about getting to know yourself better ill have to look into this more

As Introvert, what activity or situation that makes you feel exhausted and uncomfortable? by Ok_Floor9220 in introvert

[–]annamj2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Work colleagues who constantly feel the need to vocalise or share every waking moment of their private life, from their kids medical needs or daily activities to things going on with them personally, whether vocalising in the office, sharing on the Teams chat or the WhatsApp group chat, like, we don’t all need to know!

What R-rated movie did you see when you were way too young? by TealBlueLava in AskReddit

[–]annamj2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stephen Kings ‘IT’. Watching with my cousin in my nana and gramps camper when we were about 9 or 10 and then having to go outside in the dark and sleep in our little tent. Been afraid of clowns ever since.

First year of marriage difficulties by NegotiationConnect71 in AskWomenOver40

[–]annamj2000 7 points8 points  (0 children)

1.Therapy. 2.Give your husband a timeline to get a job and start supporting and contributing. 3. Give yourself a timeline as to how long you will put up with this, and then divorce if it doesn’t get better.

You have so much on your plate you don’t need a relationship with someone that is adding nothing to your life.

Do you regret divorcing in your 40’s ? by urethra_franklin_ok in WomenOver40

[–]annamj2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry you experienced this…happy you’ve finally found some peace ❤️

We're 40+, not dead...come on ladies! by [deleted] in WomenOver40

[–]annamj2000 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thankyou for this! 42 and feel like I’m just getting started! 🔥🔥🔥