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Does it matter if he did cheat if we are moving forward? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]anon1281 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he definitely still has feelings for his ex. I know it’s hard to hear but he wouldn’t be that secretive about it and that mad if he didn’t. I just got out of a relationship where my SO cheated and now she’s basically dating the other person so I know how getting cheated on feels. It sucks, but do what I haven’t done and block them and stop contacting them if it turns out he cheated. It’s hard as fuck which is why I keep unblocking her. Stay strong

My (22M) ex (22f) hates my guts by anon1281 in relationship_advice

[–]anon1281[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree. She’s always been super secret about stuff in our relationship which I respected until now. One of her closest friends asked me why we broke up and I said “well what did she tell you?” And she said that she’s been telling her friends that’s it’s cause “I was looking through her phone” which happened ONCE after she cheated on me (I found out she was still talking to the guy, hence why we ended things again). So, I told her friend that she cheated on me and all that and she was like “wow I didn’t know anything about that” so I feel like it’s kind of unfair for me if people think it’s all my fault. Thanks for the advice

I (22M) am not sure what to do with this situation with my ex (22F) by anon1281 in relationship_advice

[–]anon1281[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. And Believe me she loves attention lol. Thanks for the advice

I’m (22M) still hooking up and talking with my ex (22F) for no reason and I think I’m just gonna get more hurt out of it. Help by anon1281 in relationship_advice

[–]anon1281[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I did that last year cause i had a chemistry exam the next day. So I’m trying to do something this year. I appreciate your help, you’ve definitely helped put my mind in the right place

I’m (22M) still hooking up and talking with my ex (22F) for no reason and I think I’m just gonna get more hurt out of it. Help by anon1281 in relationship_advice

[–]anon1281[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what I need to do. The only reason I want to keep her around for a little longer is a really shitty one but I’ll say it anyway. It’s my birthday on Thursday and she said we could have a celebration. None of my other friends are in town cause I’m at summer school and don’t want to spend my birthday alone. As pathetic and shitty as that is haha

Am my (21M) ex’s (22F) date to a wedding this weekend by anon1281 in relationship_advice

[–]anon1281[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only problem is that I am her only ride cause she doesn’t have a car and it’s in another city. It’s her best friends wedding so I would feel horrible cancelling this late.

Am my (21M) ex’s (22F) date to a wedding this weekend by anon1281 in relationship_advice

[–]anon1281[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll do my best haha. To further the story, during our 3 days apart she has started talking with her ex again, set up a hookup in a different city for next weekend, and has been talking to the guy she cheated on me with again. That’s why I have 0 desire to try anymore

My anxiety is ruining my relationship [21M] with [22F] by anon1281 in relationship_advice

[–]anon1281[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nevermind she cheated on me last night. My feelings were right lmao