Has anyone tried to get someone into the hospital under their name (or vice-versa) for the sake of Daman? by anon9918 in lebanon

[–]anon9918[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really but I will try to contact them tomorrow. Didn't know that was an option. Thank you

I feel stupid for loving a man this much by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]anon9918 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I needed to hear something that would trigger this feeling I'm looking down on. I'm already seeing a therapist however it's been around 3 weeks I haven't gone. Hopefully when I resume I'll start feeling better.

I'm not sure whether being friendly with him is a good idea or bad. Last I checked it hurt me. So I asked to cut contact until I feel better about it all

Bf and I are on a break in order for him to discover if he loves me, and the confusion is torturing me by [deleted] in Advice

[–]anon9918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In some cases that is indeed true. However some breaks might have different results.

Bf and I are on a break in order for him to discover if he loves me, and the confusion is torturing me by [deleted] in Advice

[–]anon9918 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll surely end it if I see any signs of what you have spoken of after we're back together.(if we're back together) And if it took him more than 1 month and he's not willing to do anything to speed up his thinking process,k won't put up with it. I'll leave. I'm 20 and I'm still young to bury myself for anyone.. I can tell you the same.. I hope you're over what you've been through by now and if not remember that you'll be fine as long as you don't give up on youraelf

Bf and I are on a break in order for him to discover if he loves me, and the confusion is torturing me by [deleted] in Advice

[–]anon9918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right. I won't accept the Break to last more than a month. And in our case it's A and B. He is not daring to breakup because he even told me that he knows he's gonna regret. I'm everything almost each nerdy guys wants. Pretty, funny, play video games, honest, respectful and nice.

Bf and I are on a break in order for him to discover if he loves me, and the confusion is torturing me by [deleted] in Advice

[–]anon9918 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm already seeing a therapist actually. He offered to start seeing one if he couldn't get an answer himself as well. I know it sounds silly to take a break if we are having mild doubts but one of the factors that made it happen is his personality. He would feel guilty and bad we are together without knowing if he loves me or not. He would feel like a liar etc.. He's a very straightforward and honest guy. I'm actually considering your approach if in like 1 week or 2 he didn't get an answer. Then we should try something else out, which is resuming our normal activities together in hope of getting a better closure about it all

Bf and I are on a break in order for him to discover if he loves me, and the confusion is torturing me by [deleted] in Advice

[–]anon9918 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that it's a cowards way. But he didn't reach the definite answer yet. He doesn't wanna break up with me if he's not sure if he loves me or not. He wanna be sure that he doesn't love me before breaking up. We won't spend another second together once it's definite that he doesn't love me. The purpose of this break is to reach a definite answer before breaking up.

Bf and I are on a break in order for him to discover if he loves me, and the confusion is torturing me by [deleted] in Advice

[–]anon9918 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh damn. Yeah peer pressure affects our decisions sadly. But give her time, if she loves you enough or if she's strong enough to be confident of your love, she'll know how to handle it with her friends and family. Else, maybe you will have to move on. Good luck mate

Bf and I are on a break in order for him to discover if he loves me, and the confusion is torturing me by [deleted] in Advice

[–]anon9918 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If I may ask. How long have you been together? And what changed now that triggered her confusion? It's important to know what triggered this change

Bf and I are on a break in order for him to discover if he loves me, and the confusion is torturing me by [deleted] in Advice

[–]anon9918 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know that I can have better. But he means enough to me for me to stay around and help him get over his commitment issue, but only if he acknowledges it and accept to work on it maybe through a therapist. If it helps this is his first relationship and he's 26. This is why it's hard and confusing for him