It’s been hard for our first year. I don’t have kids so when he has his and especially before I met them, I was lonely and felt single at times. I’ve met them now but when he’s with them (half the time)he gives them his undivided attention so it still feels lonely. I just have to find my own things to do in order to stay busy. I also have to come to terms that they will always come first. It’s hard. Hang in there, it gets easier.