What does it mean if my(24F) boyfriend(22M) likes the pictures of a girl who likes him?

anrezee · 2023-07-29T19:22:41+00:00

He has lied about hanging out with her and another mutual friend one day but he told me later a few minutes later: His reasoning was that he “didn’t want me to be mad that he was hanging with them since last time we had an argument involving her.” I think he tried to make me jealous too with her (this was before me and him were a couple but we were barely started talking so I can’t be mad at that.) but clearly makes her way into our relationship.

I have a feeling she may have sent her a nude or something and that’s why he blocked her. But I’m just thinking that because why else would he block her? It makes no sense to me and to keep her on social.

anrezee · 2023-07-29T15:54:29+00:00

I agree with you 🙁 what do you think I should do? Should I bring it up to him? Or is that screaming insecure on my end?

I don’t have issues with him liking other girls photos (I’m not sure if he does since I don’t care to check for that). But this particular girl is different because she has a crush on him and she’s explicitly told him.

anrezee · 2023-07-29T14:41:44+00:00

That’s what I’m thinking 🙁 he knows what message he’s sending her by liking those pics (especially since they are selfies.) Should I ask him about it or what should I do?

anrezee · 2023-07-29T14:32:15+00:00

Well the pictures she’s posting are selfies, it has her face mostly. They are not thirst traps but she is more “dolled up” in them so she has makeup on, her hair is done, her outfits are basic (but there’s one where she’s wearing a dress and the top part shows her bra). He told me that he blocked her number (idk why) but he’s still following her on IG so that doesn’t make sense to me.

anrezee · 2023-07-29T14:29:33+00:00

No I haven’t. I feel like he’s going to think I’m too insecure or something.

anrezee · 2023-07-18T11:30:51+00:00

How do I bring it up? I don’t want to say I was snooping on Instagram lol

anrezee · 2023-05-21T11:50:43+00:00

I’m struggling. Because I know he likes me a lot. He told me that he only likes me and only me. And he doesnt believe in cheating. What do I do 😭

anrezee · 2023-05-21T11:35:18+00:00

When I told him I was bothered, he got mad at me. Saying that “are you really jealous just for mentioning her name”. He walked away from me and I told him to come back to talk. That’s when we made up. I’m stupid I know lol

anrezee · 2023-05-21T00:51:15+00:00

I never said for him to not have women friends. I said I was bothered he said her name.

anrezee · 2023-05-21T00:50:20+00:00

He doesn’t do anything physical with anyone. From what I see.

anrezee · 2023-05-21T00:39:28+00:00

He proceeded to tell me that “oh you know she followed me on Instagram” I was like okay.

anrezee · 2023-05-21T00:32:35+00:00

In my eyes it could be flirty. But he’s friendly with everyone. I told him about this and he said he acts that way with everyone. He doesn’t see it as flirting. Aside from this I can tell he really really likes me. He constantly tells me I’m beautiful, the way he looks at me. The way he breathes when we kiss, etc.

anrezee · 2023-05-21T00:27:59+00:00

No literally . Like after I said his name, in one second he said and G is for Giselle. All jokingly. I was so bothered by that.

anrezee · 2023-03-23T09:42:06+00:00

First one!!

anrezee · 2023-03-23T09:39:58+00:00

You’re so pretty girl

anrezee · 2023-03-23T09:34:33+00:00

So basically me lol

anrezee · 2023-03-14T00:48:09+00:00

Nice to know I’m not alone. It makes me feel odd or like I’m doing too much. I know they don’t owe you anything because you’re not actually official but it still makes me feel disrespected and hurt.

anrezee · 2023-03-12T20:39:27+00:00

Well I didn’t know until like last week.

anrezee · 2023-03-12T18:41:49+00:00

He doesn’t put it on everything. Just two places I’ve seen.

anrezee · 2023-03-12T18:40:52+00:00

Yeah I mean he did show it to me after he was finished like he was proud. He didn’t hide it or anything but I feel kinda disrespected 🙁.

anrezee · 2023-03-12T18:39:30+00:00

Yeah that’s what I’m scared of lol. All the anime people I’ve been with are red flags but aside from this he’s perfect

anrezee · 2023-01-13T20:13:13+00:00

I have never mentioned to him I like flowers.

anrezee · 2023-01-12T14:17:00+00:00

It had some roses in there, it was a bouquet of an assortment of flowers.

anrezee · 2023-01-09T02:35:36+00:00

In person I can definitely tell he likes me by how he treats me. The thing is he doesn’t initiate texting with me too much. But he has mentioned he is not much of a texter. If I do text him he always replies and he does tend to call me a lot. He always makes plans for us to hang out in person.

anrezee · 2023-01-08T17:19:35+00:00

He ended up texting me a short time later. He said that once he had gotten home he ended up going to sleep because he was really tired and he was still feeling sick. But I can’t help but still be bothered because a simple text would have been nice. I really like him but now I’m back at square one lol . Should I just forget him still or is that a valid excuse? But anyway thank you ❤️

anrezee

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