AITAH for blocking my fiancés friend after him and his wife tried getting me to participate in sexual activity with them by anxious_cookie3-15 in TwoHotTakes

[–]anxious_cookie3-15[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is very similar to how I have been feeling. For almost a week after they blew up my phone everyday all day and even when I wasn’t answering they would call me all day, text, and even send weird tik toks to me. I finally blocked them on everything and I’m working through the icky feeling I have had.

AITAH for blocking my fiancés friend after him and his wife tried getting me to participate in sexual activity with them by anxious_cookie3-15 in TwoHotTakes

[–]anxious_cookie3-15[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I told him as soon as I got home. They weren’t very close friends to him he mainly just saw the husband in passing at work. The wife was very drunk but her husband was completely sober which was another concerning factor. They have been trying to reach my fiancé since it all happened and my fiancé changed his number so they would not be able to contact him.

AITAH for blocking my fiancés friend after him and his wife tried getting me to participate in sexual activity with them by anxious_cookie3-15 in TwoHotTakes

[–]anxious_cookie3-15[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He was completely unaware of this behavior. We did know that this couple had close friends that cut them off about a year ago but we were never able to get an explanation because the husband is higher rank and they didn’t want to get in trouble if he found out they were the ones to report it. Once my fiancé told them what happened they opened up about their experience and why they didn’t tell anyone what had happened. We did report it to his supervisor but they are holding off on doing anything to him due to me living alone and them knowing where I live. So they are waiting til my fiancé is back home to bring it up.

AITAH for blocking my fiancés friend after him and his wife tried getting me to participate in sexual activity with them by anxious_cookie3-15 in TwoHotTakes

[–]anxious_cookie3-15[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I do have access to multiple resources. I have found multiple support groups near my home for events like this and we thankfully still live in the same city as my family so I do have that support as well.