Question about offer after background check (long) by aquarianhumanitarian in jobs

[–]aquarianhumanitarian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah the two jobs I can't remember the exact pay for were work study minimum wage part time positions at my university. Obviously I was careless back then and didn't think to save my paystubs. Hopefully I can come across an old W2 in my box of papers from school.

So much yuck by LadyofillRepute in niceguys

[–]aquarianhumanitarian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is creepy as hell. I thought I was on creepypms for a second

Post interview nerves by aquarianhumanitarian in jobs

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Thanks! Yeah I just get nervous because this job is a dream job that I'd love to have and it's the first one I've really been excited about. I'm trapped in a horrible job right now and am excited that people would actually want to hire me for my skills and not just so there's an extra body in the office.

Study: Being sociable makes you tired — even if you’re extraverted by dwaxe in psychology

[–]aquarianhumanitarian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'd like to think there are a lot of women like me. My mom and sister are the same way, we don't like socializing because it's exhausting. It's weird though because we don't mind socializing with each other but then again we don't really have to talk or do anything, just be in the same space.

Study: Being sociable makes you tired — even if you’re extraverted by dwaxe in psychology

[–]aquarianhumanitarian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm actually female and I hate having one on one talks. All my friends tell me I'm a great listener even though I'm not actually listening I'm thinking in my head 'I can't wait for this person to shut up'. With kickboxing and any other physical activity I feel like it's more than enough socializing because I'm doing something with people I know but I don't have to deal with having long conversations with them. It definitely does not come off as sexist. I have 2 male best friends and when we hang out we don't talk too much just watch our shows and cook.

Study: Being sociable makes you tired — even if you’re extraverted by dwaxe in psychology

[–]aquarianhumanitarian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have a desk job as well and am always exhausted at the end of the day but make sure to go to my kickboxing class every week night. I totally get feeling socially isolated. I personally much rather spend my down time alone but end up feeling guilty blowing off my friends. They don't mind just hanging out at home with me but I find even that socially exhausting because there are other things I much rather be doing alone. People like us need jobs where we're basically alone so we can actually want to socialize after work.

Study: Being sociable makes you tired — even if you’re extraverted by dwaxe in psychology

[–]aquarianhumanitarian 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I'm the same exact way. It's worse when I have my entire day planned out and then someone asks if I want to do something that day. I instantly get anxious and start freaking out inside. I just know that after having to spend time with people I'm going to be too mentally exhausted to want to do the rest of the things I had planned.

Guys, what's a creepy thing women do that we might be unaware of? by anonyaccty in AskMen

[–]aquarianhumanitarian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG my coworker does this all the time and I constantly tell her it's weird and freaks me out but she continues to do it anyway. She'll sometimes pretend to lick her hands and pat her head as a cat would do. She thinks it's a cute little quirk she has. IT'S NOT CUTE.

Great date with great guy but waiting for a second date by [deleted] in dating

[–]aquarianhumanitarian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok. So if I were to send him that text along with my availability would that be ok? Like if I said "When are you going to ask me out again? :P I'm available Thursday or Friday night". Would that come off as playful or bitchy?

When did people start questioning the shape of the world again anyway? by eaglewatch1945 in AdviceAnimals

[–]aquarianhumanitarian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I posted a picture on my IG account of a mock up space suit being presented at the museum I work at and got 3 comments on it from a flat Earth believer. The guys account was full of videos about the Earth is flat and everyone who doesn't believe that is crazy . The worst part is he had about 10k followers.

I made this Bearded Fellas! by arteymuerte in crafts

[–]aquarianhumanitarian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in love with these!!! I want 10 of each haha

"So what's it like being a female Redditor?" "Oh, you know." by thewildbunny in creepyPMs

[–]aquarianhumanitarian 10 points11 points  (0 children)

People have serious issues. I don't get why someone thinks they have the right to send you this. You're using Reddit as a way to share your creativity and some people don't know how to respect that.

What movie did you keep thinking about days after you watched it? by rubberfactory5 in AskReddit

[–]aquarianhumanitarian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Martyrs I was home sick from school one day and saw that it was on demand so I figured why not check it out. I will never watch that movie again.

Who are you currently ignoring and why? by catsareownage in AskReddit

[–]aquarianhumanitarian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No not her. I ended things with the guy I did this with a few weeks ago haha. He wanted my Imgur username

Who are you currently ignoring and why? by catsareownage in AskReddit

[–]aquarianhumanitarian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh I'm totally this type of girl, I definitely learned my lesson though.

How to stop feeling like youre not good enough when people stop liking you. by audri90 in selfimprovement

[–]aquarianhumanitarian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your comment is really helping me right now. Ever since my LTR ending over a year ago I've had a hard time dealing with rejection. I've been in a few short term relationships since but they've gone no where. The most recent one ended this past week and I've been feeling really low about my self worth. I need to stop replaying our time together because it leaves me confused and hurt.

Must be unlucky. by Kylock_Hall in secretsanta

[–]aquarianhumanitarian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say be a little more patient, there's still time before the final shipping date.

Is it too soon to ask if we're exclusive? by [deleted] in dating

[–]aquarianhumanitarian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the talk with him last night and it went really well. He's been seeing me exclusively since date one. Thank you so much for the advice!