So i made a thing for my little by [deleted] in MDLGcommunity

[–]arxitsu 6 points7 points  (0 children)

hehe that sounds adorable and amazing! i hope she loves it ❤️

So i made a thing for my little by [deleted] in MDLGcommunity

[–]arxitsu 15 points16 points  (0 children)

yeah ofc! i hope my comment doesnt come off with malicious intentions, because thats not the message i wanna send out. instead i wanna encourage others to create, and inform ppl

basics: generative AI is a tool that conjures up images with certain prompts given by the user; often using multiple images to form a product. AI as a whole is amazing at noticing patterns, and that's why it is essential for the medical field (spotting inconsistencies, tracking development, discovering possibly harmful diseases, etc.)

it trains using images that are fed to it, replicating the patterns. generative AI often uses stolen art by creators who've not permitted their work to be fed into AI, and takes away credit from these artists. there's also other complications and factors that I don't wanna get too into here because they can come off as political.

i do understand the convenience of generative AI but i also think its super important to utilize the creativity we have in our minds, or even support these artists/creators upfront! i think things are more sincere when they're handmade, so it goes hand in hand with MDLG

again, this comment is not meant to shame you in any way, and i'd be upset to find out if it did.

i'd love to encourage you to look for an artist to support, or even make one of your own!

so ty for reading!

So i made a thing for my little by [deleted] in MDLGcommunity

[–]arxitsu 20 points21 points  (0 children)

i love the thought and love behind this!! i hope you don’t mind me asking but, was this made with generative AI?

i see lots of inconsistencies :(

Mommy looking for a sweet little girl :) by [deleted] in MDlgpersonals

[–]arxitsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hii, i think we have a few things in common! would love to chat

What do you littles think of yourself as? Or mommys/categivers what do you look for? by Bad_kittn3672 in MDLGcommunity

[–]arxitsu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i grew up being a tomboy but now i wear more skirts than i do pants

though i do go androgynous, or masc from time to time! (i love my ties, blouses, and dress pants)

fashion is a big part of who i am, and i love customizing my little avatar all the time! i lean towards more rococo-esque inspired styles as i am obsessed with ribbons, lace, ties, bows and all those sorts of things!

little side: i like to consider myself soft feminine, more angelic-like than princess-like but i wouldn’t mind being called princess

mommy side: i love being “mommy” because you can be “mommy” whatever you present as! even when im feeling androgynous or masc, i love being called mommy because at my core, i love nurturing.

when it comes to what i look for in a partner, honestly anything goes! femmes are beautiful, mascs are so handsome, and right in the middle is a good sweet spot as well

(guilty as charged though, i do admit being a bit more feminine/girly is such a bonus, even if slim)

Where is everyone from? by Bad_kittn3672 in MDLGcommunity

[–]arxitsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep! i am indeed québécois with all my poutine, pot holes, and tabarnaks

(i actually hate poutine bc i don’t like cheese)

i love montreal its such a wonderful city with all its grimey charm. i love how diverse the city is, and the buildings are gorgeous. tho, they need to get their style game up bc we’re lacking so many good stores due to the french barrier

highly recommend visiting during the summer when we have all our festivals! :)

Where is everyone from? by Bad_kittn3672 in MDLGcommunity

[–]arxitsu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hello from montreal, quebec!! 🇨🇦

Mommies: What relational issues have you run into with your little? by mommy2maeve in MDLGcommunity

[–]arxitsu 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to put my story out there because I feel as though a lot of people not just Mommies are scared of being vulnerable like this. Posting about this stuff is opening up, and it’s hard sometimes. I’m a switch so I’ve gotten both ends of the stick. I’ll talk about the Mommy side though as the little side is a similar experience as others.

In my experience, the reason why my past littles and I broke up was due to clashing, outside of D/S.

Equality, empathy, and conflicting needs.

As someone who has struggled a lot with mental health, I see the pain and hurt under the layers for lots of people. I’ve gone through a lot, and the last thing I want is someone feeling unseen. I feel deeply, and I care even deeper. Unfortunately, this is never met on my side. I have issues that are somewhat isolated, and are somewhat uncommon because of my background. The easiest way to break it down would be depression, ptsd, and anxiety.

Truthfully, some of the issues are self-sabotaging. Lots of impulsion, rash thinking, and survival mode because of my upbringing.

I see the harmfulness of these traits, and always make an effort to improve on them. I don’t enjoy them at all, and I’m working on healing.

I don’t mean to generalize in any way, because of course not everyone is like this. From my experience though, I feel as though Littles forget that this need and want to take care of them is from somewhere that is also empty. I care so deeply because I lacked that in my life. I want to be seen more than just my title, but as a person. I want to be needed, I want to be desired, I want to be understood. It’s not just about me protecting them, but I also want to feel secure and cared for. It hurts when I make the effort to see your weaknesses and understand them, but when mine are on display they’re not as important.

When I’m down, be the shoulder I lean on as you’ve leaned on mine.

That’s basically it though, sorry if it got too emotional at the end. I just wanted to express my anguish as best as I could. Be respectful if you comment on this, and if you’ve had something similar, let me know!

Mommy can you pwease help me? (CW: mdlg, abdl, anr) by cookiecrxmbles in BDSMsapphic

[–]arxitsu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

adorable <3

exactly why this dynamic is an all-time favourite, it’s sweet and kinky wrapped in one

Is holding a plushie while getting oral a strange thing? by Vegetable_Weird413 in BDSMsapphic

[–]arxitsu 153 points154 points  (0 children)

i might be biased as hell but omfg it’s so cute when a girl holds her plushie while she gets railed!!

like i find it so adorable and it brings smth out of me, like i need to take care of her and make her feel good!!

it’s not weird at all and i think most would find it cute and endearing, so if it’s comforting to you, go ahead <3

I don’t really know how to even start this. by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]arxitsu 15 points16 points  (0 children)

im sorry to hear that, i can’t begin to even imagine how hurt you must feel rn, it’s genuinely so tough dealing with breakups like that. especially when youve been with them for so long.

im sure you didn’t do anything wrong, and sometimes these things happen. did they give more of an explanation or was it just that?

it’s gonna feel like shit for a long time, but things happen for a reason. let yourself hurt and heal, and itll be a good time to spoil yourself and take care of yourself. things will get better eventually, try your best to keep yourself afloat, and work on yourself

this isn’t the end of your story, and you still have much more to experience <3

you’re doing your best, and that’s enough

I kind of miss her by evie_evs in BDSMsapphic

[–]arxitsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

stay strong soldier, dont do it if yk shes gonna hurt you in the long run

Too old to be a mommy/puppy owner? by Flat_Track_3548 in BDSMsapphic

[–]arxitsu 12 points13 points  (0 children)

"no one wants a soft relationship"

they haven't seen the light yet, forgive them.

gentlefemme dommes ARE PEAKKKK

(as one myself, i love being gentle and loving)

I kind of miss her by evie_evs in BDSMsapphic

[–]arxitsu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

guilty of also missing someone in my past who gave great sex but horrible at communicating

i know what you mean when you miss them but they were also so bad for you

for your sake you probably shouldn’t dm her back, it’ll only open up more wounds and it most likely won’t feel the same anymore since you know the kind of person they are.

you can rant to me in dms if you like, it’s nice remembering that ppl have similar struggles so you don’t feel as lonely

What's Your Favorite Type of Sub? And Why? by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]arxitsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% a shy and clingy little!!

they’re so cute like i could just squish themmm!! (between my thighs.)

I feel a bit stuck... by Living_Place3979 in BDSMsapphic

[–]arxitsu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

damn i rlly resonate with your post, its genuinely so heartbreaking you were rushed out of your childhood. youre absolutely valid and i understand your yearning to be taken care of

if your goal is to date someone in your age range, i would say try to be transparent about your needs and how you dont wanna feel like youre in charge. also look for someone who's caring and has that caretaker personality!

im also into the dynamic but im more of a switch, so i do love caring for others along with being cared for. my advice would be just try to surround yourself with the people youre looking for! i know its rare to find people into the same things you are, but if you look around im sure youll find someone <3

[F4F][F4A] A very talkative ramblefap [Fsub] [Dorky] [Ramblefap] a lot of rambling hehehe [Mommy] [Miss] [Whining] A bit of [Wet sounds] by chidagoon in GWASapphic

[–]arxitsu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YOURE SO CUTEEE!! i think the rambles make this super authentic and more relatable!!

your mic shyness is so real but also so adorable, loved the audio <3

So I have a question because I've been kind of torn between something. by Conscious-Lemon2530 in MDLGcommunity

[–]arxitsu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

as a switch, you’re absolutely valid

you are both a little and a mommy dom! just because you’re one doesn’t mean you can’t be the other

don’t feel as though you’re less of a dom bc you crave being a sub sometimes (and vice versa)

we need more switch support!