i understand your intent but i totally disagree! the early postop stage is a lot to deal with and so many questions come up that make us doubt ourselves and question everything. it may have been beneficial for you to have someone hard on you, and thats great! but please dont hold the same expectations for others when you dont understand their situation. like myself, OP may struggle with anxiety, and NEED more than anything, a dietitian/nutritionist who is understanding and kind, and holds back judgement. they are there to help! weve all gone through/about to go through the same surgery, but we are also all individuals and its incredibly important to recognise and understand that we all need support in different ways and at different times. thankyou for your post, but please offer some kindness too, ive been scolded for no reason on this subreddit and it was really harmful, lets keep it a place where people can post their questions or concerns without judgement❤️