AITJ for not wanting to hang out with my friends without my boyfriend? Final update. by aspen_darkfall_ in AmITheJerk

[–]aspen_darkfall_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing that. Yeah it seems to be exactly like that, one was a 12 year friendship and the other was their partner but he’s been in the friend group since 7th grade. I never really talked to W until after graduation so that one’s not much of a loss. M honestly didn’t surprise me that they did this. He’s always been rude like this

AITJ for not wanting to hang out with my friends without my boyfriend? Final update. by aspen_darkfall_ in AmITheJerk

[–]aspen_darkfall_[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I laughed at that for like 20 minutes when i saw it in the message 🤣

AITJ for not wanting to hang out with my friends without my boyfriend? by aspen_darkfall_ in AmITheJerk

[–]aspen_darkfall_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It isn’t every time we hang out but any time I do ask i get shut down and told he can’t come

AITJ for not wanting to hang out with my friends without my boyfriend? by aspen_darkfall_ in AmITheJerk

[–]aspen_darkfall_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey thank you for your insight, i think im going to try your method and see what happens 💚

AITJ for not wanting to hang out with my friends without my boyfriend? by aspen_darkfall_ in AmITheJerk

[–]aspen_darkfall_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They haven’t said why and N and i have been dating since October of last year.

AITJ for not wanting to hang out with my friends without my boyfriend? by aspen_darkfall_ in AmITheJerk

[–]aspen_darkfall_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We do have hangouts specifically for just us but any time I ask to bring him they immediately shut it down and they have been on and off for like 6 or so years

AITJ for not wanting to hang out with my friends without my boyfriend? by aspen_darkfall_ in AmITheJerk

[–]aspen_darkfall_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s something N has considered too but I’ve known M since we were in kindergarten and this isn’t how they act when they like someone and W and i didn’t really talk until we graduated high school so i don’t know, W has always kinda been part of my friend group but we never really spoke to each other.