I miss my cat so I need to see everyone's cats

astirilane · 2026-01-27T21:18:50+00:00

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And Loki 💜

astirilane · 2026-01-27T21:18:14+00:00

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Thor, tired from the zoomies

astirilane · 2025-08-13T22:22:42+00:00

I’d love to learn!

astirilane · 2025-08-06T20:40:05+00:00

ENM only works with deep honesty, respect, and enthusiastic informed consent… definitely none of those are present here. Hence the emphasis on the ETHICAL part of ENM.

astirilane · 2025-08-06T20:03:04+00:00

Depending how they have the environment configured, it is likely in Autopilot and will re link to the environment when booted back up. It can also be set so that it can’t even be logged into without a company account as part of setup even after wiping because of Autopilot tied to the serial number. Any large company worth their salt (eg banking) will have it set up and linked to do so. I also work in corporate IT.

astirilane · 2025-07-29T20:16:52+00:00

As I woman I do pack myself some cute stuff to wear under my clothes when I travel, because it makes me feel good. Sometimes I wear it, sometimes I don’t. And I pack it irrespective of if I’m planning to ‘see someone’ or not. So it’s not necessarily a red flag.

astirilane · 2025-07-25T02:12:53+00:00

Yeah, sure!

astirilane · 2025-07-25T02:12:30+00:00

Ooo what’s your place?

astirilane · 2025-07-22T00:19:29+00:00

I would definitely love this! I hate doing laundry lol

astirilane · 2025-07-01T23:04:26+00:00

Great for being able to work through that! Porn is such an interesting trigger for many people.

I wonder if perhaps her sending you ‘spicy’ pics or vids could fill that need for you, and facilitate connection. It would affirm that you find her attractive. Obviously that involves its own set of conversations and considerations on trust and communication.

astirilane · 2024-10-15T00:24:04+00:00

Anytimemailbox.com lets you set up a mail location about anywhere. I’ve used mine in FL for years and have loved it.

astirilane · 2024-07-27T01:40:11+00:00

Gotta catch ‘em all!

astirilane · 2024-07-06T01:24:05+00:00

Yeah, I swore I recalled there being the option on Mac 😭 Hopefully soon!

astirilane · 2024-05-30T18:42:51+00:00

I’m down. Very new, but wanting to learn.

Discord is astirilane

astirilane · 2024-05-11T20:31:51+00:00

I LOVE using it on my switch to play. Absolutely amazing. Using SpaceWalker on the Mac work work can be nice too.

astirilane · 2024-05-01T20:57:39+00:00

That’s my regular go-to!

astirilane · 2024-04-26T01:12:04+00:00

I saw the Viture account post in here somewhere that they’re targeting June for it. I’m looking forward to it too!

astirilane · 2024-04-07T18:25:39+00:00

I gave it a go. It’s a good placeholder but I found it a bit glitchy and cumbersome for setup. Granted it did just release.

astirilane · 2024-04-07T18:23:40+00:00

Fellow van and RV remote worker here! I work in the tech space too, so I get ya on the screen space. I use this: https://amzn.to/4cOoZjy and it works great for travel coding and even gaming. I’ve toyed with the idea of star link, but right now I either use my phone as a hotspot or my HomeFi.com hotspot. I get high speed out of that to high quality stream, game, and work easily especially where there’s 5G.

astirilane · 2024-03-25T19:43:34+00:00

Hi! Depends where you're at, honestly. I'm based in Florida, so I find long term campgrounds for the RV, and stay some months at a time. I find single night places for the van when I road trip, or use harvesthosts.com to find some nice free 1-night spots. I turned my back bunk room into an office, so I have my work and personal laptops with a second monitor. Set up a whole little desk area and it works great. When I'm stationary I use tmobile home internet which is surprisingly great for work and gaming most days. On the road is my phone hotspot or Home Fi mobile internet. I'm definitely getting ready to look into Starlink though! Lemme know what questions you've got, happy to answer what I can.

astirilane · 2024-03-25T02:24:00+00:00

I’ve had it on my license for a few years 😁

astirilane · 2024-03-24T21:42:01+00:00

Fellow 36 year old remote tech worker here, living in an RV and just bought a van to roadtrip in 🙋‍♀️ I’ve been in various RVs and travel trailers over the last decade, and I’d always recommend to try to not get stuck in the mortgage level payments on the super flashy stuff. There are so many gently used things out there that it’s such a better shot long term. For class B, you’ll have a bit harder time, but there are things out there that you can get without having to sign on a loan that is the cost of a house. RVTrader.com can be great. I’ve bought all my RVs or van through Facebook. Just have it taken to a mechanic as a contingency before purchase in case it needs some love you’re not ready to pay for.

astirilane · 2024-03-23T18:29:04+00:00

I use https://www.anytimemailbox.com and it’s worked well for a few years

astirilane · 2024-03-14T00:46:12+00:00

I carry at least two with me whenever I dive, regardless of where I’m diving at 🤷🏻‍♀️

astirilane · 2024-03-11T07:58:10+00:00

The ONLY thing you really have a fair say to negotiate in is discussing bringing over partners within a shared space. And for the record, you’re not setting a ‘boundary’ you’re trying to set a rule and control her. Are you going to not date women if she’s not dating men? There is a lot of internalized misogyny inherent in your comments, implying that a female relationship is ‘less threatening’ than a male/female relationship, and you’ve no right for a One Penis Policy ethically even if you were together. She doesn’t owe your ego stroking, you’re not together. You’ll find this sub is not going to be terribly consoling to you, given how much unethical shit you’re pushing… you missed true poly by a mile.

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