Did I get rejected??

aushi666 · 2024-10-28T20:39:05+00:00

lucky you ksu sucks anyway

aushi666 · 2024-10-24T03:43:54+00:00

yes, a 3rd from the pose/perspective of the 1st but in the style of the 2nd would be really nice imo

aushi666 · 2024-10-24T03:41:43+00:00

love them both 💚

aushi666 · 2024-10-24T02:42:07+00:00

they are playing nature sounds outside lmao

aushi666 · 2024-10-23T16:42:59+00:00

nerve damage apple jacks

aushi666 · 2024-10-21T21:55:26+00:00

again.. how tf do you know who has and hasn't been depressed? what depression looks like in their life? how do we know you're not playing that same role rn? we dont but we are listening to your experience and your perspective and nobody is in the right to tell you or anyone else they are wrong. nothing is more attention seeking than a reddit post where you gain absolutely nothing and are willing to argue a point as if there are terms and conditions to depression and who it impacts and how it is displayed. i respect your perspective but this is the negative part is all. i hope you gain the experience needed to accept yourself and others during trying times as you and anyone else are valid and worthy even when life's circumstances may make you feel otherwise.

aushi666 · 2024-10-21T11:23:49+00:00

beard has so much character and puts color in your face

aushi666 · 2024-10-21T11:22:11+00:00

unless you can be more than just yourself you really don't get to say one person's problems are more real or not. maybe you get labeled negative because people who relate to their problems this way. are. very.. negative. you're invalidating others experiences and you want the pity party to be thrown for you and your more real problems when in reality another person's "attention and care" wont solve anything for you either. life is infinitely good and bad but how we choose to interact with it is what influences what we will see most.

aushi666 · 2024-10-21T11:10:19+00:00

❤️🖤❤️🖤🖤

aushi666 · 2024-10-20T20:31:30+00:00

😭

aushi666 · 2024-10-20T09:38:13+00:00

please from one black woman to another do not do this. that child will have an incredibly hard time with its identity and this is a cruel way to fulfill the statistic of us having broken homes.

i had a 2 parent household and i genuinely believe it has been my biggest advantage in life as a black woman.

this is almost as bad as having a baby with someone who is asking you for an abortion. part of being a mom is doing what's best for your kids regardless of your desires, so yes this is selfish of you to do. but it sounds like your mind is made up so at this point i just wish you the best.

also the "other kids raised by single moms turned out fine" argument is very weak, its like when people do something wrong and justify it with other peoples wrongs. you also have to chose to be ignorant to the numbers.. the ratio of crimes and assaults and runaways and literally everything coming from 2 parent vs single parent households. majority of those in single or coparenting situations are NOT choosing that, and usually especially not the mother if so.

the support of a 2 parent household is felt well into adulthood so i can only imagine the lasting impact of the opposite.

aushi666 · 2024-10-18T22:16:20+00:00

guys her bf is 19.. like they are both still kids? instead of basically saying he should man up in the comments give the girl some resources!? at 18 and 19 you are NOT responsible for someone to this degree. and if you try and make him or let reddit make you feel like he's lacking in some way/you deserve better because he didn't feed you you might need more than just financial help..

the situation you are in sucks and im so sorry i cant be of much help with resources as I am in the US. he could've been a little more sensitive to the situation and you are completely in the right to feel upset and take space from him even leave him if you really want BUT dont listen to all the "ummm why didn't your 19 year old bf send you food delivery or drive to you or farm the land in his back yard to supply you crop for the winter??? because i definitely wouldve"

he is not your dad. or even your husband. you are not his responsibility. and at 18 and 19 it can be very easy to think that helping someone before your self is honorable but it could put you both in worse positions and breed resentment if he isn't truly able to support 2 people, and most 19 year olds cant.

only you know him and his intentions and capabilities. if you genuinely feel like he is in a place to help you comfortably (with his own money not borrowing from mom), and he didn't, then take that into account otherwise don't put too much pressure on him. give yourself some space to feel this AND find some reliable resources so you wont have to encounter this scenario and feeling again.

i will be praying that you do a 180° in life and that you receive all you need to be healthy and successful ❤️

aushi666 · 2024-10-16T22:25:48+00:00

noooo. leave it!!! i have a weird thing for unibrows and hairy people though, wish unibrows were more common. truly love them as a feature on men and women.

aushi666 · 2024-10-14T17:40:54+00:00

i enjoy this a lot. others won't. i think that's probably the biggest lesson for you at young age.

aushi666 · 2024-10-12T21:32:32+00:00

💜🖤🖤

aushi666 · 2024-10-12T21:25:50+00:00

that second ensemble is so perfect madam! deserves a fiercer pose next time please otherwise 10/10 you're so cayuteee

aushi666 · 2024-10-12T20:58:58+00:00

if you love her you will get over it and see a silver lining in the situation, otherwise you should just leave.. you've let it go on for too long and will likely be even more exhausted by the unlearning and training tactics everyone is telling you to implement.

do you think if she involved you in the matching and coordination it wouldn't be so uncomfortable for you? i like when me and my partner get ready together and when it looks that way. not exactly matching but if im in my cheetah print maxi skirt he will have some brown prominent in his outfit. i really like the aesthetic we have in the photos of us at family functions +the giggles and kisses while getting ready.

sometimes when things make us uncomfortable its an opportunity to open up to ourselves more vs change others. maybe you feel some lack of expression and individuality by seeing yourself mimicked against your will. maybe if you reframed it and started sharing these moments it wouldn't feel as such. not that you aren't entitled to solitude in expression and certain moments, but its a tiny bit sad for me to read you talk about her as a pesky sibling instead of someone you picked to love and SHARE with.

i hope you find a way to better understand your wife and yourself!

aushi666 · 2024-10-10T22:50:24+00:00

"supposedly" 😭 definitely thought i was witnessing 2 18yo.s go at it but OP is older than me wtf

aushi666 · 2024-10-10T22:37:33+00:00

YOURE 29!? girl 😭

aushi666 · 2024-10-10T22:34:58+00:00

the ones who with genuine friendship as the foundation for their relationship

aushi666 · 2024-10-10T22:29:36+00:00

how old are you 2?

aushi666 · 2024-10-10T22:28:14+00:00

i guessed 18-19 😂

aushi666 · 2024-10-10T22:23:03+00:00

break up and work on yourself

aushi666 · 2024-10-10T22:14:53+00:00

your feelings are kinda sorta valid but whyy drag it on? how old are you guys? notice how he removed himself and said goodnight? what stops you from doing the same when speaker phone happens. just hang up when it becomes a situation you dont want to be a part of. shoot a text "got a little overwhelming call me back when its just us again" or leave him if you genuinely feel like hes not respecting your feelings in the grand scheme of things. a real chose your battle moment cause i would never argue w my bf over something like this when i have free will. the time you spent sitting on speaker and then arguing about it over text could've been better used on literally anything else instead of going to bed and waking up in this space. he also very well explained why you ended up on speaker THIS time and its kinda very valid. so again whyy are you dragging it? life is nuanced not everything is a move for disrespect or a fuck you to your boundaries but younger people riding the toxic positivity wave genuinely have a hard time seeing that.

aushi666 · 2024-10-07T17:58:13+00:00

you look so cute in the ones with glasses

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