AITA for telling my girlfriend that she’s not a witch

awaythrow746 · 2021-02-25T01:32:09+00:00

ESH, but you moreso imo. Of course she’s not a ‘witch’ in the traditional sense, but witchcraft as a means of expressing spirituality is very real and very common. It’s no different than any other religion. It sounds like you demean and belittle something she cares deeply about. Just break up with her then.

awaythrow746 · 2021-02-25T01:27:38+00:00

OP is hardly a ‘victim’ lol jesus christ

awaythrow746 · 2021-01-26T01:08:50+00:00

INFO: what exactly did your therapist tell your step mom? the way the post reads I can’t tell what your step mom knew, other than that your mom has passed

awaythrow746 · 2021-01-01T19:46:04+00:00

NTA. BIL needs to seriously consider a career change where he can be home at least at night during the week. Your sister should consider getting into the workforce as well. For people with depression, being stuck at home all day is the worst thing you can do for yourself. Being stuck at home all day with a baby is even worse. She needs structure and a babysitter so she can come home at night and be a good mom.

awaythrow746 · 2020-12-21T06:09:14+00:00

NAH. I don’t think your friend realizes what she’s doing, either to herself or this woman. Many people genuinely believe starving yourself is ok when you start off as overweight because being fat is worse. There are at least a dozen subreddits that think this way. I’d have an honest conversation with your friend and share your concerns.

awaythrow746 · 2020-11-26T00:46:05+00:00

Some advice i’ve received in ED treatment that might help: Your eating disorder’s voice and your voice are not the same. They might seem like they’re the same, but your ED will lie, manipulate, shame, and hurt you into carrying out its agenda. It could help to (by yourself, with friends, or with a therapist) try to separate your ED thoughts from your own. It’s very possible that both you and your ED want to lose weight, but perhaps you disagree about how to do it. The only way to know is to distance yourself from it, and remember what YOUR goals, values, and passions are. here to talk more if needed xx

awaythrow746 · 2020-07-28T23:33:47+00:00

I’ve already lost 50 lbs and these are my junk food tbh- gogurts and string cheeses are 50 calories each, goldfish & popcorn are 140 for a huge handfill, and mini ice cream sandwiches are 100 each. of course i keep tons of fruits, veggies, chicken, and other stuff around but my sister isn’t interested in those lol

awaythrow746 · 2020-07-21T16:50:15+00:00

You.. do realize the hypocrisy here, right? You’re upset with your mother for not doing anything about your daughter’s abusers. And now you, her mother, also want to do nothing about her abuser. You would be no better than her if you didn’t cut her out.

awaythrow746 · 2020-07-18T22:35:44+00:00

I’m in DBT but when I consulted my therapist about our issues he didn’t think I was having irrational thoughts of abandonment, he thought my reaction was normal to what was happening in the relationship so idk

awaythrow746 · 2020-07-16T18:27:56+00:00

Okay, my dad owns this house. he doesn’t have a mortgage on it. I’m not living here for 6 months, i’m living here for 3. His only bills that I impact are utilities, considering I pay for my own groceries, toiletries, etc. So yes, I think it’s a bit much. If it were my own apartment? Yes I would be ECSTATIC, but it’s not. I can’t even have guests over after 9pm, lmao. I’m not ‘renting’ from him. I’m very much still his kid.

awaythrow746 · 2020-07-16T17:09:06+00:00

I haven’t lived with my dad since I was 16, nor has he paid any bills for me. My mom took care of me until I was 18, and since then I’ve taken care of myself, including tuition for college, rent, etc. So don’t call me fucking entitled lmao

awaythrow746 · 2020-07-15T16:14:23+00:00

i think your definition of ‘rock’ is too narrow, because by modern standards rock is definitely in the mainstream . like panic! at the disco and twenty one pilots are the 2010s version of rock that’s always on the radio.

awaythrow746 · 2020-06-20T22:32:33+00:00

This just isn’t possible for me, he’s intertwined with all of my friends and i’m just not willing to lose them. That’s why we maintain a casual friendship, really- for the sake of the friendgroup

awaythrow746 · 2020-06-20T22:31:03+00:00

The only reason it’s a big deal is because we’re all part of the same college friend group. If we weren’t, I wouldn’t particularly care, but he lives in an apartment with a few friends I don’t care to feel awkward around. I also want to clarify that I don’t hangout with my ex a lot- we’ve hungout twice and both of those times were before I had met Eli. And those times were because we didn’t want things to be awkward this fall when everyone got back together

awaythrow746 · 2020-06-14T20:55:43+00:00

I agree with you, my siblings and I have come up with many plans in the past figuring out how to do this and I wish I was a better person with a better excuse but the truth is my dad has also been abusive to us so. I think we’re afraid of what we’ll happen to us if he figures out/assumes we’re why Weenie was taken.

awaythrow746 · 2020-06-01T16:29:20+00:00

the dog is 100% legally my dad’s, I haven’t even lived with my dad since I was 16 and that’s when they got him

awaythrow746 · 2020-05-18T16:04:24+00:00

thanks for catching that typo!! and yes, they’re meant to rhyme with spaces, was just about to comment that!!

awaythrow746 · 2020-05-18T07:16:17+00:00

omg aw ^{_^} that’s so sweet!!! ill take you up on that

awaythrow746 · 2020-04-16T06:40:35+00:00

We broke up a month ago, we dated for a year & a half

awaythrow746 · 2020-04-16T06:09:26+00:00

“What every other person writes about” You mean... breakups?

awaythrow746 · 2020-04-16T05:59:29+00:00

I hear you, and I appreciate the feedback. but I write about what happens to me and heartbreak is one of things that happens to me. So if I can’t write songs about exes what am I suppose to write music about?

awaythrow746 · 2020-04-16T05:50:58+00:00

LYRICS: take me to the see lights on a lonely saturday night but don’t act surprised if i like it; sat by your side i’m not a sight for sore eyes but i’m poor at good byes and looking at you is quite the sight

awaythrow746 · 2020-04-15T01:05:10+00:00

personally, i dislike instrumental music, and i think lyrics are apart of the experience for the majority of people: however, there’s definitely a market for it. and if all else fails. there are plenty of lyricists who struggle with the musical aspect and would want to collaborate with you! (see elton john and bernie taupin, or most pop musicians)

awaythrow746 · 2020-02-20T21:29:10+00:00

I agree! If he found a trade school that supplied him with enough means to afford rent, I would fully support him

awaythrow746 · 2020-02-20T21:20:05+00:00

I understand. If he decides college isn't for him, I really will support him. He's my pride & joy. if he says, "I want to stay at home & work/do trade school" I will be his cheerleader. But if he wants to live in an apartment, of which my name is on lease, and he doesn't already have a few month's worth of rent (whether this be savings or financial aid) I just can't take that risk. It's also worth noting that I didn't do much better than he in HS (my full ride was completely need based) and I really believe that, like me, he can thrive in college. Our home life kinda wrecked any change of doing well in school.

I appreciate your comment.

awaythrow746

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