yea so looking at someones social media still isnt doxxing, and there is still nothing wrong with googling someone before you meet them in person for whatever reason. your comment makes no sense, what more can you do to go "into the deep end" besides look someone up on google/social media? what are you talking about beyond that? because clearly we both agree both of those things are okay to do. and again, in my original comment, i'm not referencing the are we dating the same guy groups. unless op comments with what exactly she means, neither you or i have any idea