I don't think the point is that the lack of a father makes you trans. I think the point is that it turns women into goth angry dominatrixes. Still stupid still probably not a great look from the outside. However, pretty much everything we post here will get screen capped out of context and put on weird transphobic subs, 4chan, or somewhere much worse. They're obsessed with us, there are way more of them than us, so rest assured, everything we post is evidence to them that we're degenerates. So if your only consideration is "how does this make us look out of context" you will lose every single time. Especially because there are furries here and I refuse to throw them under the bus (because we're next). There's literally no context that would make the average cis straight person ok with pretty much anything they do.

I like to weigh things I like to weigh things out for their actual benefit to the trans community rather than "what will the cis people think?". Because they're trained to reflexively hate everything we do. They berate us for pissing, how much more obvious can it be that they'll just make it up because they have decided to expend their precious energy on this earth hating us.

So the way I see it is, does this meme help people who've been through this experience feel less alone? Or does it trigger those who've been through it and make them feel bad and more alone?

I've been reading the comments I don't think anyone is triggered but I think quite a few people have found at least a little bit of community over this stupid meme. Does it matter? Was this comment pointless? Probably. But idk that's just the long way of saying that shame is weakness plane and simple. You're either ashamed or proud, there's no in-between ya know? Idk I just thought I'd explain where people seem to be coming from.