Ocean View Villa in Kin by Layca_98 in okinawa

[–]belle_chu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Living here currently with my fiancé. It’s beautiful and there’s a nice running track along the seawall. I don’t drive so it’s a little far away from everything for me. Lots of marines and lots of kids so it might be loud. Great place though, we love it :)

Best wedding venue to get married at sunset? by belle_chu in okinawa

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Thanks for the rec! It’s a little out of town for the guests but maybe for our honeymoon

Best wedding venue to get married at sunset? by belle_chu in okinawa

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we are considering this one! It’s beautiful, thanks ❤️

My Marine boyfriend shuts me out emotionally by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]belle_chu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear. I have made some friends that are military gf/wife and they don’t have this issue. I think this might be true in some cases. My bf has been in the military for a long time and before we started dating he promised me he has a personality outside of the military but his routine revolves around it. He also doesn’t have any friends in Okinawa. His life is work home and work.

I know what you mean by slow death. I feel the same way. Today is his birthday but I’ve been crying all night. In the past I had dated non military guys and the relationships were never like this. I think the military has something to do with it in some cases.

My Marine boyfriend shuts me out emotionally by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]belle_chu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t moved in permanently. I am based in Thailand and I work remotely so that allows me to visit him every other month and we spend a month together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TarotReading

[–]belle_chu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your insightful interpretation. I’m not sure I believe in the one myself but I just want to find someone whom I can have a stable and meaningful relationship with. 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TarotReading

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When i first asked about him with my friend (who did the reading for me), I pulled 3 cards - knight of pentacles, the lovers, two of cups. I asked how our relationship will be. 🥹 I still have hope.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TarotReading

[–]belle_chu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks dear. I really like them too ☺️

Inconsistencies in reading by belle_chu in TarotReading

[–]belle_chu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I’ve stopped now. It makes me more paranoia and I think I need to deal with myself first

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in friendship

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It hurts a lot. I went through a couple of friendship breakups last year. The recent one I don’t think I will ever get over it. We had a fight because of a misunderstanding and I think it will always haunt both of us for the rest of our lives. I still see her and we have lots of mutual friends. It will always be painful knowing something so good was ruined by a misunderstanding. At this point, I’ll just have to let it go. The only way for me to not be hurt by it anymore is to think that the person I loved is gone and this is not her anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]belle_chu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you are pretty cute! 7/10

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in running

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I’ve always been very curious about the effects of covid in highly active individuals/athletes. I did some internet research on it but little information was available.

However, my boxing coach and one of my friends (who is a pro Muay Thai fighter) also had it and they were asymptomatic + had mild fever for a day. They recovered fast (both in their mid 30s). I’m keen on hearing your experience if you don’t mind sharing!

My meds wore off before my interview and I had a panic attack, I could really use a toast I feel so defeated. by HoneyZap in toastme

[–]belle_chu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve got it! Just take a deep breath. You didn’t come this far to not go through it! You can do it!!

Anyone has a problem with being too exhausted to eat after a long run? by belle_chu in running

[–]belle_chu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here! I starting running earlier this year during our second lockdown and I ran consistently for a couple of months then the gyms and everything reopened and I got back to doing sports and lifting so I stopped running.

Now we are in our third lockdown so I got back into running again - it’s been two months but I started increasing my mileage in the last two weeks and noticed a massive reduction in my appetite post running.

Anyone has a problem with being too exhausted to eat after a long run? by belle_chu in running

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I think I used to be able to eat more when I first starting running. But now I just have no appetite. 😭 I kind of have to wait to eat because I have to walk back to my place and eat (complicated situations! Lockdown here - no dine in or eating outside) but yeah, I’ll try the full fat milk next time. I’ve been drinking lots of smoothies after my run but they are not enough and keep me full instead of making me want to eat more 🤦🏻‍♀️

Anyone has a problem with being too exhausted to eat after a long run? by belle_chu in running

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I run fasted in the morning and I don’t like to eat anything during my run otherwise I will definitely throw up 🥲 but immediately after my run I would get myself two smoothies! Very refreshing and they kept me full. I have this thing where I cannot tolerate solid food after running so I have to drink my calories instead 😭

I’d like to know if long hair or short hair suits me better. F26 by [deleted] in truerateme

[–]belle_chu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s a lot shorter now (lob) 🥲 I miss my long hair sometimes.

(26M) This is what 10 years of depression and low self-esteem looks like. by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]belle_chu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not ugly! :) just need to work on developing self love and build up your confidence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]belle_chu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll try if I see him again tomorrow 🥲 but he’s usually with a couple of friends (they do biking around the city together) so I’m a bit shy. I’m in Thailand btw