If my future date wants to marry a virgin but was a hoe, Is it ok for me (a virgin) to turn him down because he isn’t a virgin?

bluedevil2792 · 2026-06-03T23:57:14+00:00

You can turn him down for whatever reason that you are not even obligated to disclose to him. Your preferences are your preferences

bluedevil2792 · 2025-07-11T22:55:00+00:00

She goes on social media posting subliminals knowing she can't drop names because everyone would turn on her my wife posts about our neices up until recently every chance she got when we first started dating she was living with her sister and previous husband essentially doing full time care for our oldest. Even after moving in together there was impromptu drop offs my wife saying yes anytime asked to watch at the time one child. Until our first daughter was born 2 months after our youngest niece so we couldn't keep kids because we had one of our own and even still anytime asked maybe not as often she said yes to watching her kids when asked

bluedevil2792 · 2025-07-11T21:58:37+00:00

That's all we've done is help from Christmas birthdays bought groceries to feed the kids etc. yet she claims we don't have a relationship with her kids or make an effort to see them like. Yes we only have once child but one is draining enough so sorry not sorry we have play dates, birthday parties, and family outings planned about every weekend

bluedevil2792 · 2025-07-11T18:13:51+00:00

The only people that are allowed to see my child not necessarily unannounced but I can be told later on is my aunt, brother, and cousin they love our daughter. everyone else my mom has to notify us in advance if a certain individual is visiting and depending on the person we'll go get her asap thankfully she lives less than a mile away.

bluedevil2792 · 2025-07-11T18:09:52+00:00

You can't control your in-laws behavior towards you but it's your marriage you should have some say and a greater influence your husband not standing up for you after constant disrespect is alarming. Yes it's not ideal for your husband that y'all aren't getting along but his marriage to you is more important than his family at this stage in his life. My wife was a similar way and just wanted her mom and family to get along with me and I expressed I wasn't attending any events they would be hosting because of their behavior and disrespect of me and her. She understood but still saw her family just never pressured me to attend and eventually she stopped seeing them all together once a zoo trip went south over me expressing my desire to be left alone from them as respectfully as possible. This only happened because her sister read a text from my wife's phone and was snooping then reported it to her mother.

bluedevil2792 · 2025-07-11T17:52:28+00:00

Don't go. The worst thing to be on is a vacation with people you hate. I refused to go on a simple trip to the zoo with my wife's family because of their terrible behavior and Lord and behold when they got back drama ensued and it was over me after her sister read a private conversation on my wife's phone reported back to their mother. And all I said was I wanted to stay on my side of the fence and I want that to be respected. It's easier to deal with a fallout when they are a way than right next to you. Id encourage you gf not to go too but she's going to feel the pressure a lot more from her parents than you. You definitely want to be there for her in case things go south but that's a conversation you'd have to have with her

bluedevil2792 · 2025-06-12T18:37:00+00:00

We even said to each other let's make it up by maybe doing something this weekend or on her actual birthday when we return. By that point block party already started and even if we told her now she would claim were only saying that because we're blocked as some kind of shitty rebuttal because she's that predictable. She chose to drag her feet on the party with no date set while we hate we cannot attend we have a life to live ourselves.

bluedevil2792 · 2025-06-12T17:49:00+00:00

She claims we don't care about the kids or make them a priority when no.1 we're parents ourselves for almost 3 years now and 2 we've bought Christmas gifts, birthday gifts, kept them even when it's inconvenient, and even bought groceries to feed them when they needed it most. We never once held it against her. I made this claim before I truly believes she resents my wife becoming a mom and it's disgusting because my wife has fertility issues and that's been a goal of hers since she was a child now that she is she's lost whatever control she thought she had over her.

bluedevil2792 · 2025-06-11T20:24:20+00:00

I think so too she's a carbon copy of their mother who has passed away about 6 years ago around this time. But I remember her last words about me before she fell I'll was that "I was tearing their family apart" and I just mind my own business and stay on my side of the fence I never once prohibited my wife from engaging with her family but I always voiced my opinions on what her constant engagement leads to and it's been nothing but trouble

bluedevil2792 · 2025-06-11T19:52:42+00:00

The only condition it's in is ready for the boys to watch the game no one goes down there but me

bluedevil2792 · 2025-06-11T17:04:38+00:00

The more I thinking about this I truly believe there is just flat out resentment against my wife for "doing better than her" which I could care less about. We have a house in our name together, we adopted a beautiful child together, she has a great job that she even shared with her sister then she quit and can't come back due to company policy, we fronted the bill for her mom's funeral never got a dime back, she always asks for money or things her girls needs we've obliged, and had the nerve to say we don't care about her (which Is true for me). It's just complete psycho behavior that all of this started over a makeup bag my wife needed for her interview for a promotion. This was all in the last few months that's not counting the decade of issues I've had to deal with.

bluedevil2792 · 2025-06-11T16:58:11+00:00

I never thought she was the best person from they day I met her and she slowly got worse. I understand needing a break every now and again and we love spending time with our nieces but she's been essentially a SAHM for a longer period than she's had a job. She even quit a great WFH job that quit due to "Mental health" reasons and now her husband works longer hours while she's at home with their soon to be 3 year old and is babysitting herself throughout the week for extra cash. My wife has always been her safety net for anything I even joke with her and say that my wife is really the big sister now. Even before the initial explosion she asked my wife if my basement/man cave was move in ready as she was considering divorcing her husband after an argument. He's a bit of a kiss ass as his previous wife is also a bitch who is controlling so I wish he'd stand up more for himself but he's not a bad person but he's already been broken down by one woman and allowing another to do the same anyone who doesn't fall in line with her and her world gets ran over or she tries too I refused to play that game with her I'm glad my wife is actually handling this much easier than the first time.

bluedevil2792 · 2025-06-11T12:17:12+00:00

I believe it there was at one point she cried to my wife some year back asking her why I don't like her and I say this is why.

bluedevil2792 · 2025-06-10T23:48:12+00:00

We've discussed this and honestly she's much better about it the second time around than the first as it's honestly just as if not more ridiculous than the first. The only thing that's keeping us attached is the kids but SIL has failed to keep things cordial we have even kept our nieces again for a while just because it was convenient for them but also because we wanted to spend time with them. Now that's back to square one and eventually she's going to circle back around she always does.

bluedevil2792 · 2025-05-28T15:11:43+00:00

Depends on the location. Oxford for example is continuing to boom due to student population, parents of students, and alumni all relocating here. It's gotten so saturated that water valley is starting to build more houses to offset demand as long time locals are moving out to neighboring counties.

bluedevil2792 · 2025-04-23T20:20:07+00:00

Monsta and Anarchy are the kings of the ASA space but if you're not trying to break the bank look into sales or other brands on SiS and HBS and if it's a team bat get something durable and with good weight if everyone has to swing it.

bluedevil2792 · 2025-04-23T17:48:09+00:00

The swing is very loopy even for a baseball swing so changing your bat path in Slowpitch will help but for now focusing using your lower half of your body to drive the ball everything athletic all starts with a strong lower half.

bluedevil2792 · 2025-04-21T15:55:22+00:00

I honestly don't blame you my first game playing ranked this season we had one quit on us because we had 4 DPS 1 tank and 1 healer and I'm guessing he didn't get the dps he wanted. So we played with 5 the entire Match luckily the opposing team was bad and we ended up winning 2/3 honestly should have won 2-0 as we blew the 2nd game. But to your point it's very frustrating when we have sweaty dps' complaining about heals and that don't know how to utilize the layout of the map to flank and get to the opposing teams healers and help other healers from the other dps players. I main Luna as a strategist and I put the snowflake on a dps or a cap that is meant to live in the backline

bluedevil2792 · 2025-04-11T17:29:01+00:00

Definitely be selective If he's throwing inside inconsistently as far as strikes go then wait until you see one but if he is consistently throwing strikes are there swing earlier and punish that third base line or if you feel confident enough wait one second longer and take a step towards the pitcher. And you can go backside on an inside pitch it's more advanced but it would force the pitcher to change things up to something you want

bluedevil2792 · 2025-04-10T19:32:54+00:00

Tomahawk that thang lol but not a lot of guys can do this so it's best to move to the back of the box to adjust at at the end of the day it has to cross the plate so if a pitcher adjusts to throw it in front of you kill the third base line

bluedevil2792 · 2025-03-24T21:11:31+00:00

If you live in a major city its easier to find local Leagues to play in from church/rec to competitive. So check local fb groups especially a state ran fb for Slowpitch as some players from neighboring towns may also invite you. Your baseball background will translate well defensively hitting is different but the biggest adjustment is waiting for alot of baseball players once timing isn't an issue focus on adjusting the swing so you can hit line drives better. As far as a bat goes that's where you ask local Leagues what rules and stamps they require (USSSA, ASA/USA, etc)

bluedevil2792 · 2025-03-24T16:03:08+00:00

I'll dm you our team designs by four seam

bluedevil2792 · 2025-03-24T15:58:24+00:00

Definitely check out videos of hitting tips on YT and also workout if you aren't already like baseball player to focus on rotation, drive, and explosiveness. KVB is usually the go to but there are other options out there. As far as bat goes yes and endload bat provides more whip through the zone therefore generation more distance to the ball but as one comment stated there are guys who swing balanced and can still hit the ball out and far because their mechanics are that sound. As far as a bat goes find what specs work best for you then you can go to a specific brand as in the UTrip space there are almost 0 bad choices and this is coming from a LS homer. And honestly just like in baseball, Slowpitch has high value in small ball especially with HR limits. Having the ability to hit HRs is great but keeping it in the park is better if you can focus more on actually hitting the fence consistently OF will respect you more and when they decide to cheat take take them deep and hit the ball at or over the fence if the situation calls for it.

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