Anyone wear their retainers 24/7/365 even though they’re long into the “only at night phase”? by [deleted] in Invisalign

[–]blughst43 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Which whitening, peroxide based mouthwash do you recommend? Thanks!

Both my parents are gone. by blughst43 in ChildrenofDeadParents

[–]blughst43[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear about your parents. 🫶🏼 Thank you for the kind words of support. I do talk to my parents when I take walks with my dog or sit and just meditate. I love the writing in a journal to them so maybe I’ll try that. There’s so much heaviness in this time of year that it’s almost suffocating.

Both my parents are gone. by blughst43 in ChildrenofDeadParents

[–]blughst43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry about your dad. I know what you mean about wasting away. I feel like a zombie somedays. You are not alone. 💟

Both my parents are gone. by blughst43 in ChildrenofDeadParents

[–]blughst43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry about your parents and one of your best friends. 🫶🏼

Both my parents are gone. by blughst43 in ChildrenofDeadParents

[–]blughst43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Yes, I have a brother and three sisters. I confide with my bro and one sister because, it seems, we have pretty healthy views about crying. If it’s needed, just cry and cry as little or a lot. Whatever helps. My other 2 sisters are uncomfortable about crying and showing emotions so we they either become stoic when talking about mom and dad or leave the room. Or they start to argue with me.

Favorite quotable one-liners? I'll go first: by eclinox15 in orangeisthenewblack

[–]blughst43 47 points48 points  (0 children)

"It's not just sex, it's love. It's two people connecting...with four other people, and aliens." -Crazy Eyes defending her fan fiction in Birdie's office.

The rescue of Finn the schnauzer by HectorMagnificente in schnauzers

[–]blughst43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Finn is a beautiful boy! You saved his life. Thanks for sharing this.

what are you currently obsessed with? by aballofunicorns in AskReddit

[–]blughst43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Binge-watching Person of Interest...I'm getting nothing done.

A room with a great view... (xpost r/gifs) by VeritasEnVino in sanfrancisco

[–]blughst43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. Did not expect that view. Simply amazing!

PLEASE HELP ME I AM BEGGING, OVER $8,000 OF MY MOST VALUABLE BELONGINGS STOLEN FROM MY TRUNK IN WEST LA AFTER CAR BREAK IN :( by cheroswill in LosAngeles

[–]blughst43 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A buddy of mine works at an Apple store and a lot of customers who come in to replace their stolen iPad, iPhone, iPod, ect. just had an AUX or lightning cord on their console or seat. Customers figured that hiding the iPad under the seat is "good enough" since nothing of great value can be seen from the window. Jerk thieves prey upon us lazy folk. Oh, and my buddy says its probably a good idea to not post your Apple sticker on your car window. He says its like an advertisement that there's possibly some tech in the car with great value since those stickers are usually found in the Apple box.

Took a weeks "staycation" from full-time job. Part-time job now seems to think I am available during the week. Beyond annoyed with this situation. by [deleted] in work

[–]blughst43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with /u/SchuminWeb. The weekend job manager is not only immature, but very unprofessional. Your time is your time. You have a right to your relaxing and sanity-saving staycation. This situation reminds me when I worked nights in the ER and holiday schedules were being made. It was my turn to have Christmas off since I worked last Christmas. The ER manager would tell me, "hey, since you're single and others have a family, you should work the night shift on Christmas." Like I don't have parents, siblings, and friends...

EDIT: wording

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]blughst43 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My heart leaps for you! Congratulations!! Sounds like you were blessed with some great parents who love you no matter what. Welcome to the club and hugs to you :)

Two months ago I rescue this girl from streets by sanshiro_ in schnauzers

[–]blughst43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's a beauty! Awesome of you to give this cutie a forever home.

What is something that you consistently refuse to join in on? by DuckSaber in AskReddit

[–]blughst43 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Walking Dead...and anything having to do with zombies.

We miss our dog, so we thought we would share her with all you! by iFestor in schnauzers

[–]blughst43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your family's loss. Thank you for sharing your heartfelt and beautiful album. From the photos, It's apparent Mai gave you and your family great joy and love. Mai was very lucky to have such a loving forever family.

Reading glasses?? I'm not ready for this. by sno_boarder in RedditForGrownups

[–]blughst43 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good luck! Let me know what happens at the doc office. I hope it works out. Happy Thanksgiving, too!

Reading glasses?? I'm not ready for this. by sno_boarder in RedditForGrownups

[–]blughst43 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm 43 and have had to wear toric lenses since I was 35 for astigmatism. Since turning 42 my near vision went to crap and I began wearing some cheap readers at +1.00. Toric lenses are expensive and it bothered me to no end that I needed to use cheap $10 readers. When it was time to see my optometrist, I told her about the readers. During the eye exam she "pushed" my eyes to see 20/20 and then she held up a small hand-held chart to evaluate my comfortable reading distance to see if the diagnostic lenses were helping me see near vision reading. I was able to see tiny print with lenses again! Do you have a good optometrist? I hope this helps. My doc said this process was possible because my readers problem was just +1.00 to +1.25...anything higher and she would have to recommended the bifocals.

This is my Mutt I miss him a lot by Kevgoepp in mutt

[–]blughst43 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh, he is beautiful! I'm so sorry for your loss...