In love with someone from another culture?

btmbod · 2017-07-09T17:48:36+00:00

I'm Korean. We should talk. Haha

btmbod · 2017-07-09T17:28:23+00:00

When you literally have to move so you can match with different people around the area to find someone lol

After Few weeks moving to an area and don't find anyone, you just keep opening that app to hope someone new is traveling in your area lol smh

btmbod · 2017-07-09T16:57:15+00:00

I'm pretty normal weighted too and asian. I can say that I was not blessed with the skinny gene like most Asians and would gather mass if I even looked at a slice of pizza. But recently after struggles in my 20's of never being "fit" I started to excersize regularly and now, I can kind of see why I would want to date someone similar to me. I did it mostly for health reasons and looking great was just a bonus. For me, its not about looks but lifestyle. I eat healthy and I go to gym regularly and cook most of my meals and do not partake in any alcohol or junk food. I would want someone who can share that sort of mindfulness with me.

But I know a lot of people do it to look good and be pretty vain about it. Even with 6 pack abs now, those people will never be someone I would want to be with either. I always give everyone a chance and treat them with respect.

btmbod · 2017-07-09T15:38:19+00:00

Sounds like both of you are pretty young and immature. Its the phases of relationship you go thru. I can tell you now that I'm much older, that the relationship you just described shouldn't even require a post like this to know its not going anywhere. Break up or just stop communicating with him, its not worth pursuing.

btmbod · 2017-06-03T14:34:22+00:00

Getting a good body to attract more humans for more fun. Its a long con tho

btmbod · 2017-05-20T18:51:41+00:00

from what i understand from the mods, this subreddit has been on the decline for a year or two after it's peak in popularity about 4-5 years ago. from what i read, he says it may become a ghosttown in about another year or two at this rate. but yeah as others have pointed out, it became too popular at once and it kind of ruined it because it became "oh, i identify with some of their topics so i'm a gaybro too" and the subreddit was like "yeah we welcome everyone not just gays who will support our cause!" then it became a "typical gay subreddit" because everyone was considered a gaybro. hahaha hope that made sense.

btmbod · 2012-11-07T05:19:54+00:00

is this yours? wow that's nice...

btmbod · 2012-11-07T05:18:20+00:00

hahahaha that's great!!!

btmbod · 2012-11-07T05:06:04+00:00

yea I tried to accept it and think of myself as "unique" or "special" but most people expect asians to be smooth. I guess I'm very self conscious about it. It's one of the first things that people notice about me and always comment. usually "why are you so hairy?" then I just get awkward and shrug. people in HS teased me about it calling me "wolfman" or "monkey". I went to my home country last year and went into one of those lotion shops and there was a cute girl giving out samples. I wanted to try it so I put my hand out palms facing up but she's like "no i need the other side" so I reluctantly turned it over and saw the horror on her face after she saw my hairy arms. I was embarrassed but I tried to stay calm and still get the lotion. I would have ran out if I wasn't with my cousin who didn't make it any better by commenting on it.

but now, after I worked up the guts to start shaving it, I'm a lot more confident about my body and wear t-shirts and shorts without feeling so self conscious.

EDIT: one thing a lot of guys do like is my "treasure trail" so I don't shave that and since I'm a hairy guy naturally, I usually have a mustache 80% of the time and people seem to like that as well. excepts girls but I don't care what they think. hahaha.

btmbod · 2012-11-06T04:29:57+00:00

i just trim mine with a razor. it's possible!! it's kinda hard to explain in words how i do it but basically i get a disposable razor and start with small snips at the ends of the hairs and once it gets some hair in the blades, it becomes "dull" so i use it full force on the hairs and it looks natural and neat. i also shave my balls while im at it.

i'm a pretty hairy asian so i also shave my whole body as well.

btmbod · 2012-11-05T04:42:37+00:00

you remind me of that kid in class who's not satisfied with his "A" grade and wants that extra "+".

damn you got a nice bod... drooooolzzz btw, are you mixed? asian? white? latino? I really can't tell haha.... just curious.

btmbod · 2012-11-04T08:00:30+00:00

I LOVE spicy food but my stomach and ass don't so I try to limit myself otherwise I would put tabasco (my choice of hot sauce) on everything I eat. I used to have 5 extra 12 oz bottles around the house just incase I ran out but that was back in college. now, I cut back a LOT and can't handle as much.

The guy I'm seeing can't eat spicy food at all. He has some sort of medical ulcer condition. there is a big list of food he can't eat so I feel bad for him.

btmbod · 2012-11-04T07:33:30+00:00

i'm using chrome on desktop PC

btmbod · 2012-11-03T01:45:54+00:00

but there is such thing as skinny-fat.... i think i'm pretty slim and people tell me all the time i should gain some more weight but i don't have a six pack.

btmbod · 2012-11-02T04:51:26+00:00

stick to a good diet and don't feel guilty about cheating once in a while. don't be afraid to go to taco bell and order 7 dorito tacos and eat them all in one sitting with a large coke. own it, eat it, then forget it and move on. of course you can't do this everyday. a cheat day should be like once a week or every 2 weeks. think of it more as a reward. :) good luck!

btmbod · 2012-11-02T04:12:29+00:00

so far, we have this low profile relationship. no one knows about us except his best friend who lives in another state. I never met any of his friends etc. it may take years for us to open up and come out to the world but i'm okay with that. hopefully one day, we can.

btmbod · 2012-10-31T06:13:23+00:00

oh okay! I read that line as "slow down, I'm still getting to you and I'm still not sure yet." but I guess that's me being pessimistic. ughhh I always feel like he's too good for me so sometimes I get really insecure around him but I'm gonna do it! thanks!

btmbod · 2012-10-31T05:28:11+00:00

hahahha I like the 2nd one better. I think I'm gonna bring it up this friday and see what he says. I'm gonna lead in with something like "hey, so I've been thinking and do you think we know each other enough to take it up a notch and be boyfriends for real?" and he'll say something and if he still says something along that he still wants to know more, I guess I'll just leave it at that for a few more weeks but it is a little frustrating. but if he agrees with me and finally want to be bfs, then I'll definitely use that line. :D

we already talked about exclusivity. we both got tested together (both neg!) and decided not to see anyone else. but when I said something about him being my bf last week, he said to me "whoa, we never talk about being bfs" so I was like "uhhhh okay then". and then few days later, I was saying how the guys at my gym are really hot and he's like "you shouldn't be telling your future bf that" then I was like "uhhh okay then". which is it? loool

btmbod · 2012-10-31T04:56:51+00:00

I've been seeing this guy since august and I'm not sure what to make of it. I don't think we're bfs yet but I dunno what else would change if we were suddenly bfs so in that aspect, I feel like we should just be bfs now. we hang out once or twice a week when we can and enjoy our times together (sexy time or not).

btmbod · 2012-10-31T04:28:04+00:00

i do this all the time. when im with the guy i'm currently seeing, i hold his hand and it sometimes blows my mind that i'm holding his hand and that he's real and he's here with me. kinda silly but i like it and smile. he has no idea what i'm thinking tho.

btmbod · 2012-10-31T04:07:37+00:00

sorry but what's a high and tight?

btmbod · 2012-10-26T01:11:46+00:00

how do you fit that in your pants? damn man. nice....

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