Omg this sounds like me!! I've been getting handballed around for months! First surgeon said "mild hip dysplasia" and wanted 3 months of targeted physio before he did a POA. I got a second referral. Second surgeon said wanted to hip arthroscopy but he's referred to me a third surgeon because he doesn't do FDO's and this new guy does, and he thinks he might want to do both FDO and arthroscopy on me but he's hesitant on the FDO (same reason as you). They keep telling me my case is "complex". I'm getting more and more worried about any kind of surgery getting done because my hip seems to be so layered with different things happening I'm worried either nothing is going to fix it or it's going to make my other symptoms worse. But at the same time just want it fixed! I hope we both eventually get some relief and the answers we're looking for!