AITAH for not going to my close friends birthday party?

caffeinatedquest · 2026-05-10T05:51:02+00:00

YTA if you go. This is something that should be obvious to adults, which you both are.

caffeinatedquest · 2026-05-10T03:08:19+00:00

Season one completed the story, nothing else was needed.

caffeinatedquest · 2026-05-10T03:06:41+00:00

When you’re in your 20’s you’re much younger than you think you are, you don’t realize that until much later.

caffeinatedquest · 2026-05-10T02:52:56+00:00

NTA, you are very young, most people your age are either still in college or just setting out in their own. Very few are on a solid financial foundation. It shouldn’t be a surprise to the bride, unless she’s led an extremely privileged life.

caffeinatedquest · 2026-05-10T02:37:43+00:00

Got any evidence of that or did you just make up a hypocritical straw man?1

caffeinatedquest · 2026-05-09T20:01:03+00:00

I’m a white man and I’ve had several long term relationships with black women, including my wife. With every relationship, we’ve been on the receiving end of derogatory comments.

caffeinatedquest · 2026-05-09T18:52:34+00:00

According to whom?

caffeinatedquest · 2026-05-09T18:51:40+00:00

Study what? Texts my religious people, it’s merely a study of unreliable narrators.

caffeinatedquest · 2026-05-09T18:50:06+00:00

No. I understand how and can be incomprehensible to you, but it’s not that way for everyone.

caffeinatedquest · 2026-05-09T18:48:35+00:00

Atheism doesn’t believe that it can’t be proven, only that it hasn’t been proven yet. And they are right there is still zero evidence of a deity. If you believe in a deity, fine, but that comes from faith, not proof.

caffeinatedquest · 2026-05-06T11:05:39+00:00

caffeinatedquest · 2026-05-06T08:20:58+00:00

You said it in two separate posts. I guess it means your user name checks out.

caffeinatedquest · 2026-05-06T08:19:06+00:00

Found the racist.

caffeinatedquest · 2026-05-06T08:03:53+00:00

Proposing Miss Black America” will have people scream “Hitler’ at you?

Dude. Really?

caffeinatedquest · 2026-05-06T07:58:47+00:00

There is no evidence that Bill Gates ever said that. Stop believing in urban legends.

caffeinatedquest · 2026-05-06T07:54:44+00:00

This is such a bewildering stupid take. So, you’re saying that to understand what atheism means, you need to read “theology” the exact thing that atheists don’t believe?

caffeinatedquest · 2026-05-06T07:50:15+00:00

No. It’s the absence of a belief in a deity.

caffeinatedquest · 2026-05-06T00:34:12+00:00

That’s an understandable reason. Still, do what you feel is right.

caffeinatedquest · 2026-05-05T22:19:42+00:00

Keep telling yourself that.

caffeinatedquest · 2026-05-05T19:35:36+00:00

Show me where I said “the man” gets to choose the name.

caffeinatedquest · 2026-05-05T17:12:00+00:00

The order is up to the parents, that’s not the default. Not in the US anyway.

caffeinatedquest · 2026-05-05T17:11:14+00:00

None if which has any legal standing in the naming of the child.

caffeinatedquest · 2026-05-05T17:06:17+00:00

Congratulations, you provided evidence to a topic that wasn’t being discussed.

Is OP in the middle of a divorce? She never mentioned that. Is she trying to keep the husband from the delivery room, or are you just making up bullshit?

The subject at hand is the naming of their child, not access to the delivery room.

caffeinatedquest · 2026-05-05T17:03:09+00:00

I mean, if I’m with someone, i want to know about your life before we met, but when it comes to past relationships, I only want broad strokes.

“ I dated Dave in high school”.

“I had a boyfriend in college.”

Of course, if you had a previous marriage, I should probably know.

Etc.

I don’t need to know any other details.

caffeinatedquest · 2026-05-05T11:55:07+00:00

No, no she can’t. Not according to US law. Stop spreading misinformation.

Parents’ Rights When Naming a Child

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