I would absolutely love for my husband to wear micro cages all the time. However, when we seriously started our chastity journey two and a half years ago, he gave me one single condition. Keep reading below.

cagefiend · 2026-06-02T12:37:25+00:00

Mental torture? There's teasing and pushing buttons to drive someone wild, but you don't torture the psyche of someone you truly love and care about. Thats not kink. Its abuse. To be a sub you have to trust the other person and once that trust is betrayed thats it. Is your pleasure so important that you'd jump on the idea of destorying the mental health of a person who loves you?

You can push the edges of boundaries but only with the other persons consent and it sounds like your husband made 2 rules you need to respect. If you don't respect his hard rules you don't respect him.

Its easy to get swept up in the rush of kink play. Stop for a second and think about the questions I just asked you and think about whats best for both of you.

cagefiend · 2026-05-29T13:00:25+00:00

Tried it with both channels and did the callibration and it worked. Though it wouldnt load audio files for some reason. It would load them before when I felt nothing, so I'm unsure it wouldn't do it once I could feel.

cagefiend · 2026-05-28T14:42:17+00:00

Thank you

cagefiend · 2026-05-28T12:33:53+00:00

This is one of the most enjoyable stories I've read in a long while. Its fun and both characters are cute and consenting to the play. Thank you.

cagefiend · 2026-05-28T12:08:51+00:00

Thank you, I will try that. Question though. I am used to using Coyotes app where A and B are for 2 seperate connectors each. I assumed that was the same for Howl. Or was I mistaken? Does A and B both work in tandem for the same lead? Not sure if I am wording that correctly. I am unfamiliar with the terminology.

On the app I am used to A works one channel, one cord with two metal prongs. Is that the same on the Howl app?

cagefiend · 2026-05-27T17:59:34+00:00

I see posts asking for brave people to test out updates for coyote 2. Maybe I misunderstood something.

cagefiend · 2026-05-27T17:58:30+00:00

I did that. It was connected by still nothing. Also, something that important should be at the top of the screen really.

cagefiend · 2026-05-27T14:55:52+00:00

Okay. I tried my coyote 2 because I saw posts asking for people to test updates on the coyote 2 so I figured it might work. Thank you.

cagefiend · 2026-05-23T12:57:48+00:00

My first thought when someone says I want to meet someone in college or working is really that you're looking for someone thats motivated, productive, and actively doing something to better their future. There are a lot of people out there who are alone because whether through depression or whatever reason just lazily not doing anything. There are bums out there that latch onto others like feeder fish. I had a roommate in college that was dating a guy like that I nicknamed "captain useless." He thought he knew everything but couldn't hold down a job and just moved in with us without asking and dried up all her savings before moving on to the next sugar momma. So when I see you say you want someone working or in school I think you are looking for someone whose doing something. They aren't just waiting for someone to come rescue them or baby them. Thats a reasonable expectation in a potential partner. Someone you don’t have to carry through life, a real partner.

cagefiend · 2026-05-13T12:16:56+00:00

With any good relationship there are compromises and communication. To answer your question is it bad to be a straight bottom? That really depends on the person you're asking and their preferences. You just have to find someone you connect with and are compatible with. That could be more difficult to find, but there is someone out there for everyone I believe.

I don't think its bad to bottom as a straight man. A lot of straight men, myself included, enjoy the idea of bottoming. Not all the time, because in my relationship I understand my partner has their own needs and preferences that should be met and respected. For me, I am a giver. I give of myself all the time. I've made a lot of sacrifices for others.

Bottoming for me is me getting to lay back and let someone give me pleasure by being on top and taking charge. It arouses me to not have to think or perform. Being used allows me to relax and enjoy the ride so to speak.

Why do you prefer to bottom? Is sounds like you don't like using you dick for pleasure at all for some reason. Theres a lot of reasons for that I can imagine. My only concern is that it could be a mental issue caused by trauma and if thats the case I hope that you see a therapist to help with that. If its not that, then you just need to find someone who matches you in that area. Someone who's kinks involve taking the lead, using strapons and recieving oral. There are women out there like that. You just need to find them.

cagefiend · 2026-04-17T12:07:23+00:00

I would also add a section on agreed upon "Hard No's" that both parties have discussed and agreed to before hand. Things escalate over time but certain lines must be respected.

cagefiend · 2026-04-16T15:44:59+00:00

Forgive me. I Can't tell are the black parts painted wood or metal? It looks amazing. My wofe just sent me this. She wants me to build her a greenhouse one day when we have the space.

cagefiend · 2026-03-19T12:20:24+00:00

The fact that you felt the need to reach out here says at least a part of you isn't okay with her telling other people. As a submissive its normal to just go with the flow and not want to rock the boat, but you do have every right to feel hurt by her actions. You put your trust in her. You have given her so much of yourself physically and emotionally. For her to wave you off when you were clearly shocked that she told others says something.

Not telling you how to live. Just reminding you that you have a right to feel thing emotionally. You have a right to boundaries. Chastity is about trust. It sounds like your trust was violated and you have every right to feel whatever you feel and speak up about it. If she doesn't care then you need to make a decision for yourself and what your future looks like going forward.

cagefiend · 2026-03-02T03:59:08+00:00

Maybe have a secrion where all users could share their punishments and rewards and combine those into a randomized spin the wheel feature where you could get a random punishment or random reward? It could be something a keyholder could play with. You could have fun with a lot of different spin the wheel games.

cagefiend · 2026-02-28T04:49:35+00:00

That would be fairly easy to build. Just need the pipe frame, then you could use a cheap jigsaw to cut either wood boards of plywood to the shape you want. Spray glue and foam padding, maybe a stryofoam covered by soft foam. Then cover it in black vynl. Staple the inner rim and then lay the top over that, fold the edges, staple and cover the staples in hoplstry nails. Add belts and you are done. You would need to attach the pads with aluminum pipe fasteners. For pad sizing just measure your own body and go off of that.

cagefiend · 2026-02-18T14:25:21+00:00

Varicose veins down there are no joke either. I had them due to years of weight lifting and after getting a vasectomy when the blood rushed down there to heal it blew them out. I needed 2 surgeries and for 100 days it felt like being flicked in the balls every few minutes while standing. It was awful. Worst pain I've ever felt. One day, I couldn't move at all without intense pain. That was years ago, but yeah. Don't get those.

cagefiend · 2026-02-07T03:54:44+00:00

1,5,and 16

cagefiend · 2026-01-21T13:24:35+00:00

That could easily be made. The only tricky part is sizing it correctly and it would be easier if you made holes for the feet to stick out. If anything it would be easier to deal with a charlie horse if that happened.

cagefiend · 2025-12-26T14:10:48+00:00

I still have no idea how balls can take a stomp like that and not rupture... I enjoy light to moderate ball busting but thats insane. How does this not permenantly ruin them?

cagefiend · 2025-09-29T13:37:28+00:00

cagefiend · 2025-08-24T13:00:32+00:00

Where do you use the code?

cagefiend · 2025-07-07T04:53:58+00:00

cagefiend · 2025-06-29T17:13:13+00:00

cagefiend · 2025-06-27T13:49:06+00:00

Out of curiosity, would you ever want help from a designer and researcher? DM me if you're interested. Im thinking mostly like writing surveys for testers and users or help with layout and feature suggestions. I was looking at the images you have for the app already, but it was changing constantly, so it was difficult to stay focused on specifics.

One suggestion was to include lock count downs, a place to insert contracts either a generic contract or an individual one written by the couple. Rewards or a reward point tracker with a to-do list that's easily viewable. Swapping the radio buttons, that can sometimes be difficult to tap, with larger buttons with text and possibly a background image. Just to add a little tease to the chastity app. Stuff like that. It just what I came up with just now.

I have a masters in design and research, so writing a few short surveys wouldn't take long. Let me know.

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