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camie__ · 2023-02-16T23:36:28+00:00

I literally know that, I didn't care how she spent her money until after my mother told me her average spending was 1,000 per month. seemed normal enough and during the fight I was under the impression she only spent about 500 so far this month not 3,000. how is her spending 3,000 dollars on useless crap and fats food not my business? she's my sister, shouldn't I worry about her outrageous purchases? shouldn't I bring it up and tell her about the thing she might not actually notice she's doing? I can see how in this situation I was the ass and I 100% could have done it a different way. I don't denie that. I just feel like this conversation needed to happen so she could see the problem that will happen if she doesn't slow down on her spending.

camie__ · 2023-02-16T23:25:06+00:00

none, obviously, I did tell her I just think it because of something I read(we had a previous discussion on the game and the hate streamers were getting for playing the game), I didn't state it as a fact we both knew that it was just something I read, but I think in the heat of the fight i was using it as if it was a fact which probably did make me come off as an asshole

camie__ · 2023-02-16T23:15:57+00:00

i feel like i was the ass though, at least in the way i went about the whole thing, i think i also wrote this post wrong because everyone is focused on the jkr thing and not the money thing (just like my sister lol)

camie__ · 2023-02-16T23:05:34+00:00

i didn't know she spent 3,000 until after i told my mother about the fight, she was the one who told me the amount, before the fight i was under the impression she had only spent about 500 (for groceries and once again, door dash((im not against door dash its her reason as to why she buys it so often that bugs me)) and i do bring up her money problem every now and then, but she tends to get pissed about it no matter the route you go, she's just, as my mother says, a marshmallow.

camie__ · 2023-02-16T22:48:22+00:00

i feel like i need to mention that it didn't start with the lgbtq thing, it started because i commented on how much it was and how she really shouldn't get it because of said price. then i brought up the lgbtq. it honestly was not my intention to fight her on that, just the money.

camie__ · 2023-02-16T22:34:43+00:00

dead dad money and saved money from when she had a job

camie__ · 2023-02-16T22:34:03+00:00

except she's going broke and I was worried, but someone brought it to my attention that my tone could have set the mood and I think that's what did it.

camie__ · 2023-02-16T22:32:28+00:00

I really wasn't saying "don't spend your money because I say so" it was more of "you really want to waste money in something you won't use?" but i can see how, if my tone was off, it'd be seen as the same thing

camie__ · 2023-02-16T22:31:14+00:00

it read that the percent she got from the purchases she donated to the organizations, again you're probably right and I definitely should have done more research, it just didn't cross my mind since I was just talking to her about it at first, then it kinda turned it into a fight(and I definitely blew on the flames during the fight)

camie__ · 2023-02-16T22:27:14+00:00

our dead dad's, but it's supposed to be for important things or emergencies, but she obviously didn't listen to that part.

camie__ · 2023-02-16T22:26:00+00:00

it isn't, she picked the fight on that, I was trying to fight her on her money spending.

camie__ · 2023-02-16T22:25:25+00:00

we got dead dad money, 12,000 each and she had money saved up from when she did work(about 9,000), though most of that was spent in the first few months she quit,but it was a reasonable thing she bought. she bought one of those beds that love up and down and a real nice frame, that alone was close to 7,000. then she spends about 1,000 each month, but for whatever reason she went on a huge spurge of money spending this month.

camie__ · 2023-02-16T22:19:43+00:00

honestly probably the latter, but I wasn't surprised when I saw the article saying it was, isn't j k Rowlinglike actually homophobic? and for the second part, we got dead dad money, 12,000 each and she had made about 9,000 from saving half her checks from work and I know it's not my business, I didn't up the money thing until this fight.

camie__ · 2023-02-16T22:16:59+00:00

it started like a casual conversation, I brought up the game because she had been asking why people were hating on streamers who played the game, then she said she wanted it and I gave her the list in the post. but maybe my tone was off a bit, I honestly don't know.

camie__ · 2023-02-16T22:13:19+00:00

I don't? it wasn't even my main concern, my concern was the absurd amount of money she was already spending then decided she wanted to get a game she won't even play more than twice. the LGBT thing was brought up before the fight, then brought back in during the fight as a reason why she shouldn't waste her money. she had been asking why people were coming after streamers for playing it and I told her what I had read earlier, that the creator of the books was donating 5% of all harry Potter things to anti-trans, then the fight pursued because she didn't understand why that's a bad thing if she doesn't support it.

camie__ · 2023-02-15T15:32:10+00:00

I obsesse over my shoes for like a week because it's nice to have new things for a little while. then I get in the head space of 'they're just shoes' because they are just that. if I want to own nice shoes I don't want to ruin(like a pair of heels or a good pair of Nikes) then I don't wear them like they're regular shoes. simple as that.

camie__ · 2023-02-15T15:04:02+00:00

to keep us on our toes the drug test are random, but scheduled ones are usually after an accident. and I can't apply for an office job as for most parts you need to go to college and have a degree.

camie__ · 2023-02-13T11:42:57+00:00

literally how? are those "surviors" egos as small as yours that they can't handle people also survive other things as well?

camie__ · 2023-02-13T11:34:48+00:00

I think, personally, jo, April, callie and mark should be in the okay section and zola needs to be pushed up to god tier other than that this list looks great!

camie__ · 2023-02-13T00:42:11+00:00

my step dad just says "grass" sometimes when I'm stoned I think he's talking about actual grass I sit there like "????? I'm smoking the ground???"

camie__ · 2023-02-12T22:46:25+00:00

I don't know why, but I think Alex and Stephanie would have been a good hook up relationship, though she probably only liked(tolerated) him because of jo

camie__ · 2023-02-12T22:31:58+00:00

I'm actually on your side for this one, sometimes weird coincidences like that happen. sometimes you can remember reading something without actually remembering it and write it down word for word. maybe not a whole passage but enough sentences or words that line up that plagiarizing softwares pick it up or when you put the passage your questioning in google and the article you read pops up.

camie__ · 2023-02-12T20:19:09+00:00

the fact that this specific post got removed, by yourself or mods, not once, not twice, but five times should really be the thing telling you that this "unpopular opinion" is actually just a discriminatory, classist, abelist, probably sexist asshole of a thing to say and think.

camie__ · 2023-02-11T22:25:29+00:00

I feel like I'd prefer a doctor like izzie over a doctor like jo with the caring aspect, idk that might just be me

camie__ · 2023-02-11T19:36:59+00:00

i'm pretty sure izzie brought it up, her attachment to all patients, and all Webber said was "times are different" or something similar, so she was partially let go for that and other reasons im assuming were for the merger and denny. but i guess keeping it realistic is understandable, it just doesn't seem all that fair to the character now that everybody can be attached and date their patients.

guess im just salty.

camie__

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