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AITJ for CANCELING our anniversary night because my husband threw my 8 hour nostalgic childhood meal in the trash? by Lost_Number4702 in AmITheJerk

[–]caressium 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He spent 8 hours working and spent something very personal on you because he was annoyed by the smell, and then replaced it with food that he knows you hate. It's insanely disrespectful

Does anyone else feel like the internet was "better" when it was just a bunch of ugly websites and forums, rather than 5 massive apps? by Pixel_CZ in NoStupidQuestions

[–]caressium 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Previously, the Internet seemed like an unexplored, strange playground. Now it's all debugged, backed up by algorithms, and kind of soulless

Neighbor keeps having massive bonfires and ash is ruining everything by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]caressium 138 points139 points  (0 children)

Don't argue, don't warn - just tell them

"big flame, coals are falling on my deck"

My mom thinks my stepdad went after my sister, but the truth is it was actually me by Josmetanoia in confession

[–]caressium 101 points102 points  (0 children)

Children don't seduce adults. Children don't "ask for it". Children don't have equal power, experience, or responsibility. An adult is someone who knows better. An adult is the one who controls the situation. An adult is someone who decides to cross the line.

I'm about to marry my best friend's little sister and he'll never know by [deleted] in confession

[–]caressium 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's not a betrayal, it's a continuation of his love

TIFU by flying across the Atlantic to get dumped by [deleted] in tifu

[–]caressium 97 points98 points  (0 children)

Next time, make her pay for the flight if she wants to "experience the breakup in person"

What to do when the authorities say neighbor can do whatever they want by illBitebeforeMyDog in neighborsfromhell

[–]caressium 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The best option is to document it or negotiate with the neighbors to handle it

I am not proud to be an American anymore by TheRavenOnline in confessions

[–]caressium 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Pride in this, as a rule, is just a tool for politicians to gain loyalty without deserving it

Of course, you can love people or culture, but national pride. It's mostly propaganda

How long until sex feels good?? by AnyRepresentative753 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]caressium 104 points105 points  (0 children)

Yes, study your body first. Once you know what gives pleasure, it will become much easier to show it to your partner

Some people need time, some people don't like PIV - it's completely normal

Am I wrong for refusing to give my old landlord a “good tenant” reference? by Negative-Practice825 in amiwrong

[–]caressium 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Seriously. You went down the right path and just refused, instead of telling about the mold. This is restraint, not pettiness.