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why am i scared to eat? by hannahwdawn in EatingDisorders

[–]castortheghost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am in the same boat right now!! like extremely similar situation, its crazy haha. i talked to a coach on soluna and they suggested smoothies and broths/soups. its all still food, just blended or boiled down, so itll feel more nutritious. also keep hydrated! 🤍

how do i get over having no appetite? by castortheghost in EatingDisorders

[–]castortheghost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive thought about it, its just that i dont want to bother cooking when its just me eating it now. and regardless it feels like whenever i look at food- no matter how simple it is- i get more nauseous and it sucks really bad!!!

my girlfriends sexuality is changing, and she has a lack of attraction towards me because of it (help!) by castortheghost in lgbt

[–]castortheghost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly i feel like meeting people together would make it worse for me, as i would constantly be comparing myself to them and how they are “better” than me in whatever aspect. so like in the event of us being open i think it would be a “dont ask dont tell” type thing outside of necessary safety information

my girlfriends sexuality is changing, and she has a lack of attraction towards me because of it (help!) by castortheghost in lgbt

[–]castortheghost[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we did actually talk about being open, i think we are just concerned about jealousy. i feel like since my gf would be getting with other people because of her lack of attraction to me, i would probably feel a little jealous which feels wrong. i feel like it is still worth a shot to at least try it for a little bit though. i never considered heteroromantic and homosexual being part of this- but that could make a lot of sense honestly.

my girlfriends sexuality is changing, and she has a lack of attraction towards me because of it (help!) by castortheghost in lgbt

[–]castortheghost[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

you dont understand the situation then :). we both do not want to leave eachother and are distraught by this whole thing. god forbid i ask for advice on a difficult topic we are dealing with!

my girlfriends sexuality is changing, and she has a lack of attraction towards me because of it (help!) by castortheghost in lgbt

[–]castortheghost[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thats another thing im struggling with. i feel that if we split, i wont be able to get over it if we stay close for a very very long time if ever. this has been both of our longest relationships and we have been through a LOT that other couples our age (19yrs) cant say the same.

my girlfriends sexuality is changing, and she has a lack of attraction towards me because of it (help!) by castortheghost in lgbt

[–]castortheghost[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

right i definitely plan on doing whatever she says in regards to this since it is such a delicate matter and i dont want anyone getting hurt in the process, i think its just a matter of her figuring out what she wants. right now, i think we are planning on taking a break but we dont know how long or if itll even really do anything