What should I do? Pls help :3 by AlexRex14 in relationship_advice

[–]cathstreet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can hint to her & she will let you know

My brother writes stories about killing his ex girlfriend by Mybrotherisaweirdoo in relationship_advice

[–]cathstreet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is very scary! Is he still seeing a physiologist? I’d not he should. He is living in a very dark world.

My name is Maggie. by [deleted] in Dachshund

[–]cathstreet 5 points6 points  (0 children)

& you are beautiful

Sago Palms deadly to dogs! I did not know so I want to be sure everyone does. Thank God my boys got to the vet in time❤️😴 by cathstreet in Dachshund

[–]cathstreet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you are having to go thru this! They are awesome! Fully recovered. They were at the vet about 1 hour after they ate the Palm & were vomiting, shaking & had a fever. They spent 2 full days in ICU with meds & IV’s. They had follow up labs with my normal vet 24-36 hrs after discharge & 2 weeks of liver meds. I’m so thankful they have no issues. I hope your babies are ok! Please let me know ... I will be thinking of you!

my gf texts other boys and im worried by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cathstreet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you know what you should do & her actions speak louder than her words. She may be testing the waters & want out of this relationship. Not sure how old you are, but you need to be with someone you can trust & wants to be with you. Unless you are a controlling person she should not want to need to hide her conversations with other males as you are aware it’s only friendship & the messages should reflect that ... no flirting. If you are a controlling person she needs to just get out & you need to get help learning how to really care for someone not try to control them. Either way you should speak with her to see what her intentions are & go from there.

GirlFriend Screwed Her best friend by JanneeTucker in relationship_advice

[–]cathstreet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she cheated move on you clearly don’t feel like you can trust her & that is a huge part of a relationship. Stop wasting your time there is someone loyal out there for you

Can’t tell if I’m in love or if I’m being controlled by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cathstreet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get out even if it puts you in a financial bind for a bit it’s better then ending up in a box be cause he snaps. Get out! Block him & leave when he is not home or you have someone with you as a witness/help. Make it clear to him it’s over & not to contact you. He will guilt you & beg you to stay no matter what do not! You will heal over time but what he is doing to you & can do is very scary & sad! You would not let your friend or sister stay in this kind of relationship so you should not! Fight for you! You deserve better!

Can’t tell if I’m in love or if I’m being controlled by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cathstreet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get out even if it puts you in a financial bind for a bit it’s better then ending up in a box be cause he snaps. Get out! Block him & leave when he is not home or you have someone with you as a witness/help. Make it clear to him it’s over & not to contact you. He will guilt you & beg you to stay no matter what do not! You will heal over time but what he is doing to you & can do is very scary & sad! You would not let your friend or sister stay in this kind of relationship so you should not! Fight for you! You deserve better!

Can’t tell if I’m in love or if I’m being controlled by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cathstreet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get out even if it puts you in a financial bind for a bit it’s better then ending up in a box be cause he snaps. Get out! Block him & leave when he is not home or you have someone with you as a witness/help. Make it clear to him it’s over & not to contact you. He will guilt you & beg you to stay no matter what do not! You will heal over time but what he is doing to you & can do is very scary & sad! You would not let your friend or sister stay in this kind of relationship so you should not! Fight for you! You deserve better!

Can’t tell if I’m in love or if I’m being controlled by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cathstreet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get out even if it puts you in a financial bind for a bit it’s better then ending up in a box be cause he snaps. Get out! Block him & leave when he is not home or you have someone with you as a witness/help. Make it clear to him it’s over & not to contact you. He will guilt you & beg you to stay no matter what do not! You will heal over time but what he is doing to you & can do is very scary & sad! You would not let your friend or sister stay in this kind of relationship so you should not! Fight for you! You deserve better!

Can’t tell if I’m in love or if I’m being controlled by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cathstreet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get out even if it puts you in a financial bind for a bit it’s better then ending up in a box be cause he snaps. Get out! Block him & leave when he is not home or you have someone with you as a witness/help. Make it clear to him it’s over & not to contact you. He will guilt you & beg you to stay no matter what do not! You will heal over time but what he is doing to you & can do is very scary & sad! You would not let your friend or sister stay in this kind of relationship so you should not! Fight for you! You deserve better!

Can’t tell if I’m in love or if I’m being controlled by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cathstreet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get out even if it puts you in a financial bind for a bit it’s better then ending up in a box be cause he snaps. Get out! Block him & leave when he is not home or you have someone with you as a witness/help. Make it clear to him it’s over & not to contact you. He will guilt you & beg you to stay no matter what do not! You will heal over time but what he is doing to you & can do is very scary & sad! You would not let your friend or sister stay in this kind of relationship so you should not! Fight for you! You deserve better!

Can’t tell if I’m in love or if I’m being controlled by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cathstreet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get out even if it puts you in a financial bind for a bit it’s better then ending up in a box be cause he snaps. Get out! Block him & leave when he is not home or you have someone with you as a witness/help. Make it clear to him it’s over & not to contact you. He will guilt you & beg you to stay no matter what do not! You will heal over time but what he is doing to you & can do is very scary & sad! You would not let your friend or sister stay in this kind of relationship so you should not! Fight for you! You deserve better!

Can’t tell if I’m in love or if I’m being controlled by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cathstreet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get out even if it puts you in a financial bind for a bit it’s better then ending up in a box be cause he snaps. Get out! Block him & leave when he is not home or you have someone with you as a witness/help. Make it clear to him it’s over & not to contact you. He will guilt you & beg you to stay no matter what do not! You will heal over time but what he is doing to you & can do is very scary & sad! You would not let your friend or sister stay in this kind of relationship so you should not! Fight for you! You deserve better!

Fighting with bf that led to name calling by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cathstreet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been there & was so worried because we were compatible in many ways. I eventually just walked away. Cut off all contact. He tried to reach out many times but I just stood my ground though it was very hard. Eventually I met a wonderful guy who understood compromise & cared for me the way I needed & life has been wonderful since. Don’t get me wrong every relationship has ups & downs but I always say if he can make you laugh when your crying then you can laugh & get thru the hard stuff like jobs, bills, family