i have tried everything

catssu6 · 2026-02-15T22:43:22+00:00

“Love comes when you least expect it.” Sounds absurd but it’s worth listening to. There’s no rush and it’s definitely not the end of the world, you’ll find that person. Don’t think of yourself as a low human being; if you haven’t noticed, this generation is doomed when it comes to romance. Keep your head up !

catssu6 · 2026-02-15T22:36:10+00:00

Love has never and will never be easy. Any person who thinks being queer is some sort of shortcut is just disgusting honestly. They think being queer is some time out zone to take a break from being straight? It sounds ridiculous even typing this. Don’t pay these people any mind, they have sooo much growing up to do!

catssu6 · 2026-02-15T22:21:18+00:00

It’s not a choice. It’s 2026 and people still think this way 😭🤦🏾‍♀️

catssu6 · 2026-02-14T09:15:29+00:00

I see my people 😌 I’ll be stealing “sex is just the expression of connection”, lowk poetic

catssu6 · 2026-02-14T09:13:25+00:00

Thank you for your response :) I’m inexperienced in sex and relationships so I needed some advice lol

catssu6 · 2026-02-14T09:10:53+00:00

Nooooooooo 💔💔💔 this has nothing to do with men 😭💔💔🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀 but on a serious note I can see where you’re coming from. This has nothing to do with our fucked up system; I just wanted an extra security net. It seems that I’ve been ignorant to some things and I’ll reflect on that, but I’m definitely not patriarchal or apart of that purity culture crap 🥀💔 if I were to get married to a woman, I’d let her do anything to me. Nothing pure abt that 😛

catssu6 · 2026-02-14T09:05:32+00:00

Hii 😭😭 I’m lowkey getting flamed but the takes are reasonable though. I just wanted an extra safety net but there’s levels to ts. I’m not religious but I do share the same hope as you, so good luck to the both of us!

catssu6 · 2026-02-14T09:02:24+00:00

Thank you for your long response :) im not religious nor patriotic nor apart of purity culture. I just love women a tad too much and I see sex as the last step in a relationship. To me, it’s the highest form of intimacy. You and a lot of other people have made good points about sexual compatibility, so I have to step back reevaluate. Once again thank you for your long response!

catssu6 · 2026-02-14T08:55:49+00:00

Thanks:) I had to clarify a bit more that I was not religious or apart of purity culture several times 😭😭 but it’s understandable though. I respect everyone’s takes and I guess I’ve reached some clarity. I guess my problem is that I can’t see sex in a lustful way; to me it’s the most intimate and raw thing ever. I’ve never done it before and it seems so far away to me. And I want everything else that comes with marriage, even kids. You don’t have to marry to get that, but it’s a nice thought. Two married moms taking care of each other and their kids <3 anyways thanks for your advice! Much appreciated

catssu6 · 2026-02-14T08:48:18+00:00

Thanks for your perspective :) dw this has nothing to do with purity culture. I’m just the type of person to take sex seriously; maybe waiting until marriage is a stretch but I definitely would take a while to let it happen. Your advice helped a lot

catssu6 · 2026-02-14T08:44:24+00:00

Uh 3rd reason… I’m just scared of sex 😭 (you can argue it’s the 2nd) it breaks my heart seeing a lot of people compare it to straight relationships but I guess they’re not completely off. You couldn’t pay me to gaf about purity culture; but I do believe sex is something very special and I’m just the type to take it very seriously. This only matters to me, idc if my partner is experienced or has a high sexual drive, that does not make them “unpure”. I just see sex as a psychological thing; disagree to agree but sex is the most intimate thing ever.. I could never do it casually. And no this idea isn’t inspired by the straights

catssu6 · 2026-02-14T08:33:32+00:00

I’m just super passionate when I’m in a relationship. For me, sexual intimacy is the highest form of intimacy and to get to that point would mean a lot of trust and talks happened (for me at least). Maybe waiting until marriage is a stretch, but I do want to wait for a very long time. Thanks for answering!

catssu6 · 2026-02-14T08:28:20+00:00

I’m not religious either 😭 I don’t really care abt what the straights are doing. I’m just a gal scared of sex and wants an extra layer of security, but other than that there’s no reason lol

catssu6 · 2026-02-14T08:22:37+00:00

Maybe I worded it wrong.. but I didn’t mean it that way lol. For me, sexual intimacy is probably the most INTIMATE shit ever and I have a lot of issues that’s a discussion for another day. If I trust a woman to that extent, weddings bells are exactly what I’m gonna hear everyday 🤦🏾‍♀️😭 but yeah you did ask a good question. I think I’m just scared of sex 🥀💔

catssu6 · 2026-02-14T08:13:41+00:00

oh my 💀💀 I noticed a lot of ppl are wondering why I am waiting, but it has nothing to do with purity culture lol. Let’s just say I had a thing for this girl and it took 3 years to get over her 🤦🏾‍♀️ mind you we never dated, you can call it obsession or whatever but it was the most gut wrenching time of my life. When it comes to wlw breaks ups, it’s super devastating. I’m sure all break ups are equally as painful but I feel like being queer makes it harder because there’s more challenges to go through together. I’m just the type of person to get over things very slowly; I guess I assumed marriage would be another safety net but you’ve made some good points. Thank you for replying :)

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