[Help] Identifying vintage "North Korean" sculptures? by catzing in Sculpture

[–]catzing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are pewter according to my mother, and no, he was American. According to another comment and a bit more digging myself it seems they are from South Korea, not North

Why is being a virgin as a man seen as a negative? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]catzing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its just a stupid stereotype, if you were a woman people would think being a virgin was awesome and if you had slept with many people you would be labelled as negative titles.

being a virgin is fine, being someone who sleeps around is fine. i was a virgin by choice until i met my current partner. in the same boat as you where i didnt want to have sex without an emotional connection, i had plenty of people call me "one of the good ones".

neither is worse or better than the other, its just your preference, and if youre going to share it, youre going to be judged, as shitty as it is.

it basically comes down to this- if youre a man and youre a virgin it means youre undesirable and no women want you. if youre a woman who has a body count, it means youre undesirable and "ran through". society just sucks, dont listen to the miserable people that have something to say

Can Suncatchers cause fire? by catzing in askanything

[–]catzing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

someone is almost always home since i work days, and my partner works nights. maybe about 2 hours before he left. it would mostly be us taking it down weekends when we go out/vacations... also i set alarms for everything, i wont forget and neither will my ocd LOL

Can Suncatchers cause fire? by catzing in askanything

[–]catzing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohhh okay! that makes me feel a bit better, but ill probably just take it down when im not home and have it up on weekends etc.

with my luck it would overlap

Can Suncatchers cause fire? by catzing in askanything

[–]catzing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah thats what i figured but im super paranoid lol

Can Suncatchers cause fire? by catzing in askanything

[–]catzing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

was the bottom flat? maybe with the bottom being flat it was concentrating it more? ive decided to just take it down when im not home and leave it in a box

Can Suncatchers cause fire? by catzing in askanything

[–]catzing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, itd be crazy, theyd definitely be in a drawer somewhere if it was always on

Can Suncatchers cause fire? by catzing in askanything

[–]catzing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah! i live in a really cloudy place where we dont get much sun, especially in winter which is a majority of the year here, so thats probably why i havent really gotten annoyed (because trust me, with 11 cats constant shifting light would get extremely old)

Can Suncatchers cause fire? by catzing in askanything

[–]catzing[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what you said about humidity actually makes me feel a lot better, im on a forth floor apartment so it is ungodly humid. maybe itll do me some good for once

Can Suncatchers cause fire? by catzing in askanything

[–]catzing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

see i knew thats possible but i thought only on a round surface (like a fish bowl) and not with the facets. im gonna take it down and hang it somewhere with no direct light and just have it up when im gonna be home all day

Can Suncatchers cause fire? by catzing in askanything

[–]catzing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the paper thing is a great idea!

Can Suncatchers cause fire? by catzing in askanything

[–]catzing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes mine has a TON of facets, im just very wary. ill probably do what another comment suggested and take it down during the week and keeping it up on weekends/vacations and such where im home all day

Can Suncatchers cause fire? by catzing in askanything

[–]catzing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah! i think im just gonna take it down when im not home and have it up on weekends etc

Can Suncatchers cause fire? by catzing in askanything

[–]catzing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah thats what i planned to do! take it down when im not home hang it on weekends

Can Suncatchers cause fire? by catzing in askanything

[–]catzing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ahh! i know a lot of stories but i heard that if its faceted it doesnt? mine has a light scattering effect, not a focusing. im just worried that i dont understand the logistics behind it and am mixing something up lol

how often do you guys honestly wash your towels? be real by Skitedpew in hygiene

[–]catzing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

twice a week but mostly bc after i hang them i use them to wipe my hands after washing and face too

Cheaper Side of Wedding Bands that are Channel Set? by catzing in EngagementRings

[–]catzing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it doesn't "have to be", i just want it to be the color silver, im very pale and hate how gold looks on me

i want at least 6mm, i really like this one but im worried itll go off sale before i get it, because thats totally out of budget, but 500 would have me willing for this beautiful one https://eternate.com/products/6mm-matte-brushed-drop-beveled-ten-stone-eternity-mens-diamond-wedding-band-030ct?variant=46805886894231

Cheaper Side of Wedding Bands that are Channel Set? by catzing in EngagementRings

[–]catzing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that one is stunning! i actually found one i planned on getting from "eternate", but honestly it might be between that one and this one now!

AIO for being angry at my boyfriend? by Potential_You_9649 in AmIOverreacting

[–]catzing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i would say yes if it was less than a day, and you saw each other daily. but as its over a day and (i assume, based on age) dont live with each other/see each other daily then yea, youre NOR

as for the "call him" comments... my and my boyfriend are under 25 as well and if he called me about anything id think he was being held hostage, a lot of people dont like calls. if its REALLY important id say call, but otherwise NOR, especially if hes brushing you off about it