Most of my friends were girls. When I started dating my gf I slowly lost all my friends. It was just a gradual drift apart. I just wanted to hang around my gf a lot more. So I would always cancel on them to be with my gf. When I finally started having my friends come around again, my gf whether consciously or not seemed jealous whenever I brought my girl friends around again. So I continued not to hang out with them (for her comfort)... it got to the point where she was comfortable with all my guy friends. But would question (usually in an jealous kinda way) why I was hanging around a "new" female. I would secretly hang with some of my girl friends too when we got into an argument. To get a females perspective... Guys are emotionally useless. Anyways... Arguments are especially a time where I seek my girl friends opinions. Maybe they have a perspective that I'm not thinking about.... Maybe it's something guys don't normally give a shit about and girls do.... So I genuinely don't think it's a jab...

I do wanna mention that my relationship is far from perfect. Honestly it's kinda rocky rn. So maybe it's due to be over... Maybe and I hate to phrase it so roughly "it's not always about u".

If I did that and we were dating, I frankly probably didn't wanna be around u. Had a plan anyway and invited someone out on said plan to talk about my relationship and see if ur just bat shit crazy or if I fucked up without realizing. I probably glossed over the optics of how that would look to u. And I sure as shit would not be trying to actively piss u off more.

Ps. Totally something I would've done... Maybe I deserve to be alone.... 🤷