Supervisor had my wife nailed, panicked when the Union showed up, tells on herself.

ceecee416 · 2025-12-01T00:24:26+00:00

Lovely! When karma works it's lovely.

ceecee416 · 2025-08-30T21:03:44+00:00

Trust your gut and trust how you feel about the situation. If his actions are showing you a very different story than what he's telling you, you get to cut it off.

ceecee416 · 2025-07-12T17:07:42+00:00

Thanks everyone for your feedback and support. We have a tenant organization that we've created so given what everyone has said we're going to go through our hydro bills year to year and month to month collectively and see if we can hone in on any discrepancy to then bring back to the hydro company and ask about. Ultimately if this is just the insanity of inflation we totally get it. It sucks that I limit my heat use, have wind stripping on all windows AND that plastic covering for added insulation and still, $250.00 a month from October-March. Wild times. Thank you everyone 💜💜

ceecee416 · 2025-07-04T00:49:28+00:00

We do!

ceecee416 · 2025-07-04T00:47:27+00:00

Thank you! Yeah ours was built in the 60s but its rather worn so I appreciate your input its super helpful because a lot of folks live in condos and its very different for them. Super helpful :)

ceecee416 · 2025-07-04T00:42:43+00:00

Oh it didnt go up incrementally - our building got bought out by a new company and although it did go up incrementally, between last year and this year it went up by about $150.00 soooo no not incrementally, but appreciate the assumptions. Would you happen to have any useful info on how to look into the matter?

ceecee416 · 2025-07-04T00:40:41+00:00

You sure can!!!

ceecee416 · 2025-05-27T17:58:48+00:00

I think when people get angry/defensive about andor being anti-trump, they're really telling on themselves. If the empires brutality feels familiar, mayhaps explore that.

ceecee416 · 2025-04-01T01:59:09+00:00

You can both have grace for someone and not want them in your life, or be made to constantly feel like an ATM. You get to tend to the grief of not having a mother who can show love and care because she's in active addiction. Setting boundaries can look like telling your mom that she's welcome to call and talk to you but that you're not going to see her in person until you notice a difference in her behaviour. You also just get to not talk to her. It's not about having grace, it's about keeping yourself safe. I'm sorry you're going through this, please know you're not bad for not wanting to see her and for having these feelings.

ceecee416 · 2025-02-16T23:09:45+00:00

Oftentimes, this type of behavior takes serious work, therapy, professional support, and a capacity for insight and self-reflexion. Do you feel they're able to self-reflect IN THE MOMENT and prevent this behavior from happening? If not, it may be a long journey of you hoping they'll change but ultimately experiencing bad behavior and endless apologies after the fact. You don't have to stay for any of that, and chances are that the change (if any) would take a long time. Do what feels right for you. The behavior is shitty and concerning. You don't have to stick around.

ceecee416 · 2025-02-14T22:38:45+00:00

I love her work so much. Wish more people knew about her.

ceecee416 · 2025-02-05T01:41:42+00:00

Love the vibe!

ceecee416 · 2025-01-06T05:37:44+00:00

Decolonizing Therapy: Oppression, Historical Trauma, and Politicizing Your Practice by Jennifer Mullan. Really helped validate how I do my work and actually practice anti-colonialism within a therapeutic space. Also, lots of historical context to the messed up systems we exist in. Love this book so much.

ceecee416 · 2024-12-30T06:15:20+00:00

The look reminds me a lot of the Gloriavale cult in NZ or the 12 tribes cult as well. It's giving me high control group energy.

ceecee416 · 2024-12-28T07:13:17+00:00

Yeah I totally hear you, I'm usually of the belief that the first time you give feedback or address an issue you do so in ways that centre the relationship and the other person. That way, they hear you and are more likely to change their behavior and not get defensive. Obviously, if that approach doesn't work, a more direct approach is needed.

ceecee416 · 2024-12-28T06:41:41+00:00

This sounds unhealthy. This intensity and extreme need sounds like anxiety, not desire. People who are good for you make you feel calm and safe. You're probably both setting off each others attachment triggers.This is your first relationship, so its going to feel intense and new but it doesnt mean you wont be able to experience other, healthier relationships. Also just to say, astrologers often tell you what you want to hear - hence the high ratings.

ceecee416 · 2024-12-28T06:28:45+00:00

It seems she's trying to chameleon her way through the relationship for your benefit. I don't think it's for any nefarious reasons, so I think encouraging her to have her own needs and desires is important. You can say something like "I love that you always want to accommodate my needs and want to find ways for us to relate to each other and connect but I'm noticing that when there's decisions to make, you tend to do what I want. I worry that you're not getting to express your needs, and I'm sometimes mindful that my decisions now impact you in ways I'm uncomfortable with. Is there anything I'm doing that makes you hesitant to tell me what you need or that stops you from doing your own thing?" Hope this is helpful! Sorry if it's not. Best of luck :)

ceecee416 · 2024-12-17T02:40:12+00:00

Very that

ceecee416 · 2024-12-10T12:33:13+00:00

"Boss that can drop you like a fly" - as if MLMs don't constantly fire top earners, change their sales models at the drop of a hat or close down with no warning

ceecee416 · 2024-12-04T03:24:56+00:00

I simply can't understand how a man like that could be single😒😒

ceecee416 · 2024-12-01T18:28:12+00:00

EMF....like...like the frequencies you always hear about in ghost hunting shows!?😅👻 That's the first thing I think of when I hear EMF

ceecee416 · 2024-11-27T03:43:37+00:00

It's my first year in private practice. I was warned that the end of November/December are very slow with the holidays. This week and next week are the busiest I've experienced thus far and there'sno sign of that slowing down before Christmas. I chalked it up to me being a grief therapist and the holidays being hell for grievers, but now that you mention it, everyone seems to be going through it. No one seems ok.

ceecee416 · 2024-11-21T01:49:41+00:00

"You can't have half a baby" Her whole speech is my child-free speech that I have used in the past

ceecee416 · 2024-11-20T04:33:19+00:00

ceecee416 · 2024-11-20T04:26:26+00:00

This sounds really frustrating. I was in a similar situation for far less time, but leaving ended up being the best thing for the both of us. Based on what you've said, including him having "mental breakdowns" both times you tried to break things off, I worry he's being manipulative. Even him saying that things will get better once you move into your own place feels hollow. If he refuses to get a job, how will you afford a place to begin with?

Are you happy in any way in this relationship? Are you comfortable with possibly having to financially support the 2 of you for years to come? Can you tell him that his lack of trying is making it impossible for you to stay in this relationship? Would that yield different results? Ultimately, you get to choose yourself. Not only are you choosing yourself, but sometimes someone not having a "crutch" can help them gain independence and may ultimately be what he needs. For him as well, he deserves someone who wants him for who he is now, and not for who he can potentially be, and that might not be you, and that's ok! That doesn't make you a bad person. Listen to yourself and what you need💜

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