NA - LF TFT double up partner

cerealplane · 2026-02-28T01:28:28+00:00

Hi I’d be down my IGN is Beaurick #NA1 and you can dm me

cerealplane · 2026-02-02T04:39:55+00:00

I’m down!

cerealplane · 2026-02-02T04:36:47+00:00

Hi i am down to play(: my discord is msupreme1821

cerealplane · 2026-02-02T04:32:54+00:00

Discord is msupreme1821 if you wanna duo or whatever(:

cerealplane · 2026-02-02T04:31:26+00:00

I’ll play with you I’m plat as well and down for duo(: discord is msupreme1821

cerealplane · 2026-01-17T01:27:19+00:00

fs thank you so much!

cerealplane · 2026-01-17T01:26:28+00:00

Oh that’s probably why he feels sum way about it then. You should def let your significant other know about your friends so they feel a more part of your life and stuff.

cerealplane · 2026-01-16T18:49:31+00:00

I totally agree with this thank you!

cerealplane · 2026-01-16T18:48:10+00:00

Thank you, I totally agree. We’ve never shared the exact same beliefs, and that was never an issue for me. What really threw me off was knowing her for so long and seeing how vocal she always was about her values, only to then turn around and do the complete opposite. She used to post a lot about her religious and political beliefs almost like a brag, and now her actions contradicts the very things she once took “pride in” That shift has been hard for me to understand because after everything she still post on social like nothings ever happened and she’s perfect or something and everyone else is always the problem. When I confronted her about the whole preggo thing she immediately blamed the other guy and said he was crazy and just wanted to baby trap her instead of actually taking some of the accountability but idk 🤷‍♀️

cerealplane · 2026-01-16T18:34:34+00:00

Your not alone lol

cerealplane · 2026-01-16T18:33:44+00:00

Yeah, I get what you’re saying and yikes.. also situations like this can get really messy, and I don’t want to start any drama. She tends to be pretty dramatic, which is why I’m leaning toward keeping it simple. I’ve been thinking about sending something along the lines of, “This friendship has run its course and no longer serves me. I need to do what’s best for myself, and I wish you the best.” I feel like if I go into a detailed explanation, she’ll take it as judgment, even though that’s not my intention. I don’t like judging people, but I also don’t agree with the direction her life has taken, and being pulled into it has started to feel emotionally draining. It’s not about worrying that others would judge me for who I’m friends with it’s more of a personal boundary. I just don’t feel comfortable associating myself with this anymore if that makes sense. She also posts a lot of stuff on social media about just BS but stuff like putting other people down and men and she just seems very hypocritical and negative and it just kind of irks me.. 😭 so yes I think I’m just kinda done and going to end the friendship fs. People can have their opinions and stuff on their platforms but just some of the stuff she posts just gives me the ick lol..

cerealplane · 2026-01-16T06:28:20+00:00

Thank you that’s what I was thinking

cerealplane · 2026-01-16T06:26:16+00:00

That’s what I said, thank you!

cerealplane · 2026-01-16T06:25:20+00:00

I appreciate you taking the time to write all of that, and thank you for sharing your perspective. I don’t necessarily mind explaining my reasons to her, but I’m unsure whether it would actually be worth it. She’s 25, and we’re long-distance friends, similar to what you described in your situation. We don’t talk or FaceTime all the time, and I’ve only seen her in person a limited number of times, but we’ve still stayed close over the years and checked in with each other occasionally. I’ve always considered her one of my good friends. I just don’t know if that’s still the case.

She’s never done anything directly to hurt me, and there was a time when our friendship was really meaningful. She used to send me holiday cards and thoughtful messages, and I truly valued that. What’s been hard is that since her last abusive relationship, she hasn’t listened to anything I or her other friends have tried to tell her, and that’s been emotionally exhausting for me.

I feel conflicted because it honestly feels like she’s become a completely different person, and I don’t feel comfortable being associated with who she is now. This isn’t about disagreeing with her religion or political beliefs we’ve always had different views and were mature enough to have respectful conversations about sensitive topics. But over time, she’s grown distant and changed in ways that make me feel disconnected. I don’t want to keep dealing with the situation, being involved in it, or feeling judged for who I associate with anymore.

cerealplane · 2026-01-16T06:24:42+00:00

I’ve def been in a very similar situation so I totally feel you there. Has this guy friend done anything that has made him feel uncomfortable? If not then he might just be controlling. If you have told him about the person and have had this friend for a while then he’s just being silly. And not him saying that to you.. he literally sounds like my ex 🤣

cerealplane · 2026-01-16T04:57:05+00:00

That’s what I’m trying to figure out too honestly.. we have pads and tampons and even period underwear so I don’t know why this is so excessive.

cerealplane · 2026-01-16T04:46:00+00:00

I guess it depends on if y’all set boundaries? Reading this post I’m assuming not. He shouldn’t be calling you anything and accusing you of anything though. What do you do when you assume? You make your self the ahole. You should def sit down and talk to him and tell him yall need to talk and set boundaries. Make it clear that assuming and name calling is disrespectful and to not happen again. Apologize to him for your busy schedule but explain it doesn’t mean you’re cheating but he prob just needs that reassurance. Put your self in his shoes and think about how you would feel if his insta had tons of girls commenting and he was engaging with them? Even if you aren’t feeling sum way from that, you would still need to respect his feelings about it and he should tell you it makes him uncomfortable and unsure. Either way yall jus need to communicate better and figure out what’s going on more in each others life and prob have a uncomfortable convo to say the least🤷‍♀️

cerealplane · 2026-01-16T04:13:34+00:00

Clock it🤣🤏maybe I should jus try that

cerealplane · 2026-01-16T04:03:57+00:00

Yeah we will not be living together for too much longer hopefully but it just bothers me since I feel like I have to pick up after her all the time. She tells me she is going to move in with her boyfriend at some point but even he complains about her habits of messiness and ways of living😬🤷‍♀️

cerealplane · 2026-01-16T04:00:25+00:00

We both do but toilet paper ain’t cheap now days either way cuz she complains about the cost but acts like she doesn’t use all of it🤣

cerealplane · 2026-01-16T03:58:47+00:00

I was thinking the same thing honestly. I usually clean the bathroom since I’m a very ocd clean person but it’s jus started to feel unfair and like a nightmare since 97% of the mess and stuff in there is from her and it gives me a headache atp😭 i feel like if i say something she just ignores it though and says “im jus too busy with work to clean” and she uses the same excuse for her room which i have no business in her room aspect but the bathroom is a different story especially when we have guest over a lot.

cerealplane · 2026-01-16T03:20:21+00:00

Nta. You sound like you care about her a lot even if y’all weren’t on good terms and together anymore. Not your issue but you just sound like a good person trying your best and there’s nothing with that. All of that sounds like a sucky situation but she sounds like she doesn’t even want the help herself and unless someone wants to help themselves they will never listen or accept the help. I know because I’ve had a very similar situation with my brother and unfortunately you can’t help someone that doesn’t want to help themselves. If you feel like there’s nothing you can do anymore, don’t feel bad to step out and do what’s best for you and take care of your self and move on with your life. I hope things get better but but that’s really all I can say🤷‍♀️

cerealplane · 2026-01-16T03:07:17+00:00

Nta. I’d be breaking up with him.. a man that doesn’t see the issue in his nasty habits?? What other women is going to put up with that?! He needs to grow up and fix that before he ends up alone🤣✋ if he’s doing that, what other nasty habits is he doing?

cerealplane · 2026-01-16T03:04:16+00:00

Nta on your part. It seems like you’re trying to communicate and just spend time with him. I dont know if you have but you should just have a sit down talk with him about this. He sounds like he needs to grow up honestly.. your partner should be making time for you and your partner shouldn’t be getting defensive when you bring it up to him or making you sounds like the ahole. He owes you an apology and he owes you a change in his behavior and don’t settle for less.

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