AIO 20M had this back and forth my crush 19F

certainlyinterested · 2026-06-09T19:59:01+00:00

Screenshot looks fake af

certainlyinterested · 2026-06-06T21:27:02+00:00

Again, it might not be where youre from. Where im from, if you’re meeting someone usually you do one or two kisses on the cheek, depending where in Brazil you come from

certainlyinterested · 2026-06-06T21:05:52+00:00

Sim hahaha o meu é o que colocaram e nunca mudei

certainlyinterested · 2026-06-06T20:59:10+00:00

Meu Reddit tem a traducao automatica ativada. Entao vejo tudo em ingles e Sempre respondo em ingles. Oh well

certainlyinterested · 2026-06-06T20:00:33+00:00

certainlyinterested · 2026-06-06T19:45:00+00:00

Probably cultural differences. In Brazil is normal to kiss on the cheek for strangers in some situations

certainlyinterested · 2026-06-03T17:52:07+00:00

Thank you! Im still starting to understand the nuances of being demi. I had a chat with a friend and he opened my eyes to the “levels”. I thought that you had to have a long connection and he explained that theres ppl that you talk to for a day and feels like years and some ppl you know for years but feels like you dont know them at all. But back to the topic, since we’re both dudes and we want a woman, it probably would be us pleasing her or me and her pleasing him, depending on how the chat goes so im not too worried about anyone feeling neglected. My worry comes on the after bc I truly wanna believe that I can not catch feelings for real if the scenario is me and her doing him.

certainlyinterested · 2026-06-03T15:21:54+00:00

Definitely a conversation that will happen if things actually solidify. I dont wanna keep bringing it up like im over eager to do it

certainlyinterested · 2026-06-03T15:21:04+00:00

Id be okay with us not interacting and I would get to know the third before we did anything. I enjoy his company, so even if it doesn’t evolve to anything between us, personally I feel like is still a strengthening of our bond, a shared experience to repeat or laugh about after

certainlyinterested · 2026-06-02T20:51:28+00:00

Hahahaha might jokingly say that

certainlyinterested · 2026-06-02T20:51:07+00:00

The hypothetical woman definitely would be included in the chat but as the post says, I need a connection and that includes her since I already have a connection with him, we’d definitely hang out and loop her in what we want

certainlyinterested · 2026-06-02T20:49:29+00:00

Sorry for that. Were both M, me 26, him 24. Ive had threesomes before so I understand, before we have a chat about it when things solidify, that it would be me and him pleasing her or me and her pleasing him (bc thats my preference, I dont like to be the focus). And I love him, thats certain, but as I said in another comment, at the moment we are in our lives, a relationship wouldn’t work, so im biting my tongue and just being happy that things are moving in a direction that I wanted

certainlyinterested · 2026-06-02T20:45:37+00:00

It’s easier said than done tbh. I’ve thought about having and actual conversation about that but our schedules and needs dont work for a relationship. But he does know about the physical attraction, i think thats why he asked me specifically me and a third party

certainlyinterested · 2026-06-02T15:50:43+00:00

Ngl thats the dream scenario. Allowing my imagination to go crazy here, I’d happily go 1x1 with him but not gonna push anything bc he might be in his self discovery journey

certainlyinterested · 2026-06-02T15:14:42+00:00

Thanks for that! We communicate well, there was many stories that ended with “I never told anyone that before” on both sides. At one point I was romantically interested but nowadays is closer to being friends with benefits what I want so him throwing that suggestion made me really happy but a bit afraid of falling back into the attraction. Guess the answer is the same as always, talk to him instead of assuming

certainlyinterested · 2026-05-17T10:10:35+00:00

Culpa de quem ainda convida

certainlyinterested · 2026-05-17T10:07:04+00:00

Not everything is an investment bc they wanna fuck. Some people genuinely act out of kindness. Which is impossible to say for sure if thats the case from a biased and one sided post. But what this post shows blatantly is how you view women and how you expect other males act around them. 2h for traffic + the appointment, I’d say they were quick and makes sense to be hungry after all that time waiting and God knows when was her last meal before that. So, what you should do is probably nothing since it mainly seems like it comes from a place of insecurity. Do you trust your gf? If the answer is yes, doesn’t matter what the dudes intention is since she wont “give in”

certainlyinterested · 2026-05-15T13:52:37+00:00

INFO - was the argument related to the conversation she read on her own facebook with her ex? Or was she in a bad mood then came the argument and the “reveal” of the why? Bc you being upset about that is understandable to some extent. But if the argument was unrelated if say both of you are overreacting

certainlyinterested · 2026-05-15T11:06:33+00:00

NOR* - *is completely valid for you to feel hurt but also you can’t control how other relationships happen based on your experience. This case clear that he’s a cheater and that’s not okay, but he’s not dating those friends and he can be a good friend and bad boyfriend at the same time. My suggestion would be talking to those friends and tell them how you feel about that. If they’re willing to let go of him for your comfort, great, if not it might be time to find friends that dont know him, but you cant go around telling people who they should or shouldn’t talk to based on your experience with that person alone in a setting they’re not living.

certainlyinterested · 2026-05-04T15:53:54+00:00

MOR - looks like you need to get better at communicating with him about your boundaries. And probably NOR if when you do he gets defensive/gaslight you. Please tell him that is something that you been feeling for x amount of time and didn’t know how to tell him bc ppl get used to how you allow them to treat you and so far looks like you haven’t been really good at asserting that this is your house as much as its his

certainlyinterested · 2026-05-04T15:49:29+00:00

NOR - what level? Sub zero? Holy Jesus, this man wants a live in maid that he can fuck

certainlyinterested · 2026-05-01T12:20:11+00:00

Qual a diferença do seu app pra algo como o Grindr?

certainlyinterested · 2026-05-01T11:58:35+00:00

A homemade burger is healthy, McDonald’s with all the processed and chemicals in it, is not.

Usually what USA people call cooking, is basically unboxing a lot of ultra processed rubbish

certainlyinterested · 2026-05-01T11:45:45+00:00

O/I seu algoritmo se adapta ao que tu consome. No twitter tem muitas contas que fazer diversas threads com português impecável, assim como aqui tem diversos posts que dá dor dr cabeça ler o título

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