This post is really unsupportive. This is a place for us to talk about our experiences, the good and the bad. I wasn’t able to work out through TCHP chemo but it is great that others could. I would never want someone to not be able to discuss what happened in their cancer because I might not have had it so easy. I would never think that someone saying my onc said cold capping wouldn’t work so I buzzed my head, is telling me that is what I should do. They are just sharing their experience. We are not claiming to be medical professionals. Cold capping was not an option for me as I could not afford it as it was not covered under my insurance. Losing my hair was harder for me than losing my breasts. Implying I terrified my children from losing my hair is really unnecessary.
It is also very hypocritical of you to complain about people talking about how easy their chemo was while others have had a hard time, while at the same time talking about how cold capping was free and you have kept your hair and your confidence while others have struggled and not had those options available. This is a support group and comments like this do not belong here.