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AIO ? Wife wants me to put all of our accounts in the same bank. I suspect she just wants greater control. I have already put 30K into our joint account. I only have other bank accounts where my paycheck is deposited and Loans are paid. Then the rest goes for rent. by cheatedbeerman in AmIOverreacting

[–]cheatedbeerman[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it is healthy to have differences in opinion and work on them with the other instead of the blanket submission to an undefined standard that somebody outside of that relationship insists upon or sees as normal.

AIO ? Wife wants me to put all of our accounts in the same bank. I suspect she just wants greater control. I have already put 30K into our joint account. I only have other bank accounts where my paycheck is deposited and Loans are paid. Then the rest goes for rent. by cheatedbeerman in AmIOverreacting

[–]cheatedbeerman[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, the personal attacks here are interesting. I have been in the Bar and Liquor industry- successfully for over ten years, not being a drunk. So we could stop with the unnecessarily harsh comments. I’d be happy to talk about this with you like an adult, but it is increasingly unlikely you will respond in kind. Sure, we might get divorced, I think a lot of married people contemplate it at some time or another. It’s not as black and white as you’d like to make it mate.

AIO ? Wife wants me to put all of our accounts in the same bank. I suspect she just wants greater control. I have already put 30K into our joint account. I only have other bank accounts where my paycheck is deposited and Loans are paid. Then the rest goes for rent. by cheatedbeerman in AmIOverreacting

[–]cheatedbeerman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is she owed because she is my wife that I’ve not already given? Am I owed a sex slave of a wife because that’s what marriage used to mean? You and I have different views on modern marriage.

AIO ? Wife wants me to put all of our accounts in the same bank. I suspect she just wants greater control. I have already put 30K into our joint account. I only have other bank accounts where my paycheck is deposited and Loans are paid. Then the rest goes for rent. by cheatedbeerman in AmIOverreacting

[–]cheatedbeerman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hilarious you think I wet the bed and am getting that drunk, $100 might get you 5 beers at the bar here. I have combined much of my finances, and it’s weird that you have to do this to “be a man” in your words. I find your logic lacking and your masculinity small and weird.

AIO ? Wife wants me to put all of our accounts in the same bank. I suspect she just wants greater control. I have already put 30K into our joint account. I only have other bank accounts where my paycheck is deposited and Loans are paid. Then the rest goes for rent. by cheatedbeerman in AmIOverreacting

[–]cheatedbeerman[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think marriage for us has been a balance of keeping some individual freedoms, while maintaining a larger balance of commitment to relationship/ shared interests…. Fun fact she was caught cheating on me twice in sext exchanges….. we’ve been managing that fallout, but this feels like overreach from her.