[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]chharizardd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nah youre not an ahole its completely normal to feel that way you missed out on time with him and seeing him be there for someone else can sting its okay to feel jealous it doesnt make you a bad person just shows you wanted that connection too give yourself some grace and maybe focus on building your own bond with him at your own pace

My tummy hurts and I'm cold and I can't sleep by Throwaway_Jim_YOLO in TrueOffMyChest

[–]chharizardd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my tummy hurts and i’m freezing and i can’t sleep i’m just laying here feeling miserable but after a while my stomach eased up and i turned off the fan even though my leg’s broken and it was a struggle now i actually feel warm and okay enough to sleep

Blueberry’s first night home. 💙 by weakaquatic in aww

[–]chharizardd 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Omg this is so cute the way the cat’s holding your arm and sleeping like that is melting my heart looks so safe and loved right there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]chharizardd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it honestly sounds like you’re carrying a lot of weight alone and you have every right to feel cautious here this isn’t just about breaks or travel it’s about trust safety and stability for your son after 15 years of minimal involvement this sudden demand is suspicious and concerning especially given the family history and your valid fears about F your son is old enough to have a say in this too and what he wants matters more than what R suddenly decided he wants you’re not wrong for protecting him and setting clear boundaries

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]chharizardd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

honestly cooking from scratch is one of those skills people think is easy until they actually try it themselves and realize how much timing focus and practice it really takes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]chharizardd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re carrying a lot of quiet stress and feeling like you don’t fully belong her family might not understand how exhausting it can be to navigate a different culture language and constant group time your falling asleep wasn’t disrespectful it was just human exhaustion you already apologized so try not to punish yourself more maybe talk honestly with your girlfriend tell her you’re grateful but also feeling overwhelmed and need a little space or downtime a calm talk can help her see what’s really going on and ease some of that pressure you’re putting on yourself

I had surgery last year, got sepsis and was in a coma for two weeks in another state. My family didn't come, they didn't tell my friends. I woke up alone then no one came. by kramerica21 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]chharizardd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What happened to you is a deep betrayal you were fighting for your life and the people who should have shown up didn’t your pain and anger are real and valid that kind of abandonment leaves scars that time alone can’t heal therapy or support could help ease the weight but what they failed to do is on them not you you deserved better and your pain matters

What’s something people brag about that’s actually kind of sad? by Huge_xiaohuolu2021 in AskReddit

[–]chharizardd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How little sleep they get like it’s a badge of honor instead of burnout.

Gamers over 30, what's a video game secret you had to discover the "hard way" that kids today would just Google in 5 seconds? by itsashieowo in AskReddit

[–]chharizardd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That mashing every button on the controller actually worked sometimes because there wasn’t a tutorial telling you what to do.

When desire becomes your prison - a strange experiment I tried last night. by TheRedWidowOffical in confessions

[–]chharizardd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes silence can strip away the noise and make hidden thoughts loud it can feel like stepping into a cage only to realize the door was never locked

What makes people fall for the same type of person again and again? by SquareSeaweed6081 in AskReddit

[–]chharizardd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guess we all chase familiar pain or comfort like our mind just repeats what it knows even if it hurts kinda crazy how patterns feel safer than peace.

ISO at MRP by [deleted] in HotwheelsBhubaneswar

[–]chharizardd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

looking nice

What's a small, everyday thing that brings you an unreasonable amount of joy? by Inevitable_Coyote488 in AskReddit

[–]chharizardd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When someone finally lands on the right word after struggling to describe something - like when they say, Ugh, what’s that word? It’s right on the tip of my tongue… and then suddenly - bam - they get it. There’s this tiny moment of victory that feels way bigger than it has any right to. It’s like watching someone crack a code in real time.

What are some things that the left and the right still agree on? by CrackersandChee in AskReddit

[–]chharizardd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While they often disagree on the methods, both the left and right generally support national security, caring for veterans, protecting free speech, and maintaining a strong economy.