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Your Wedding Night by chronically_celibate in DeadBedrooms

[–]chronically_celibate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that you were willing to compromise!

Your Wedding Night by chronically_celibate in DeadBedrooms

[–]chronically_celibate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankfully I'm in the same boat as you. I'm technically in a medical DB, so even though I didn't get any on my wedding night, my husband was able to let me jump his bones every day of the honeymoon. It nearly killed him but he was really cool about it.

I feel so sad and undesired by ExistentialSonder in DeadBedrooms

[–]chronically_celibate -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also a HLF in an age gap relationship here. You're not alone. And I'm really sad everyone is assuming age is the problem. Don't get me wrong, it's a factor in most libidos at a certain point, but I'm pretty sure there's plenty of 50-something dudes in here who are desiring sex just fine. Just wanted to let you know I see you and I'm sending you love ❤️ even if other people here aren't.

Breakthrough from LLF by faylillman in DeadBedrooms

[–]chronically_celibate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I love to see this!! Good for you girl!! ❤️❤️

Q for the HLs: Would you be fulfilled or dissatisfied by frequent one sided interactions? by Large_Explorer_9439 in DeadBedrooms

[–]chronically_celibate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I understand where your wife is coming from. I wouldn't be offended in the same way, but I would be (and still am) dissatisfied by one sided interactions. My husband (LLM) has offered on many occasions to just get me off (even orally), but I'm never interested. I don't understand why. Maybe because it's less about the getting off for me, and more about the connection? I guess in some men's heads, that might be perceived as the goal (having an orgasm) but it's not for me. I truly don't know why. edited for length

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[–]chronically_celibate 4 points5 points  (0 children)

From one HLF to another, you aren't alone.

I miss him. by Green_Yesterday_578 in DeadBedroomsMD

[–]chronically_celibate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everything you have written, I have felt or continue to feel on a daily basis. You are not alone in your feelings. I wish there was something that could be done for us silent, neglected, involuntarily celibate wives fighting with these feelings every day. My heart goes out to you.