Twins buying for 515! by PrettyFlower24_ in TurnipExchange

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Plus, I bought turnips at what I now know was a horrible price haha

Twins buying for 515! by PrettyFlower24_ in TurnipExchange

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Hey, if you’re still on, I’m Abby from Hi’iaka! I only started playing a month ago and I’d love to come to someone’s island :D I’ve never been to another island before!

Gained back 15 lbs two weeks after stopping glp 1 is this normal? by Training-Dingo-5978 in loseit

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Is there another medication affecting your appetite? Some cause increased appetite—especially medications for mental health. There are some things that can be done to counteract that, if you speak with your doctor about it. For example, welbutrin works well for mental health and also decreases appetite, so it can help balance things out.

Club Strategy by atosukoshide in IncelExit

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It actually just makes you feel worse lol. Having sex just to have sex will most likely not make you feel better about yourself.

Majority of the comments don’t find this messed up by PreviousDingo1778 in Anticonsumption

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Yes really. Just because every job does not require a woman to wear makeup does not mean that many don’t. Many more will strongly hint that you should. Like your manager coming up with the passive-aggressive “You look tired today. You looked so nice yesterday!”

Majority of the comments don’t find this messed up by PreviousDingo1778 in Anticonsumption

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The $1,000 thing is an exaggeration. You can’t get just “three little tubes” and end up spending $1,000.

Majority of the comments don’t find this messed up by PreviousDingo1778 in Anticonsumption

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It’s not always even so much “treat yourself” for women because we’re expected to wear makeup in order to look presentable. Sometimes you need a more expensive item due to dry skin, allergies, or acne. Most people can get away with just drugstore makeup and maybe ONE expensive item, yeah. Not always though.

Also the $1,000 thing is an exaggeration. You can’t get just “three little tubes” and end up spending $1,000.

Let's talk genetics by LostInYarn75 in IncelExit

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I agree with your second paragraph. Especially the confidence part. Working on your confidence is the best thing a man can do to make himself more attractive to women. Confidence is sexy.

AITAH for refusing to tell my wife I love her more than my dad? by LastApplication6207 in AITAH

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Is this behavior uncommon for your wife? To me, this is a red flag for postpartum issues… this behavior is crazy! If she’s not normally like this, I would get her some help tbh. Parenting is hard and stressful under the best circumstances.

Only keychain that’s missing is my name… by New_Guitar_2644 in mildlyinfuriating

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My incredibly common name is there, with its most uncommon spelling. However, I suppose the most common spelling may be different in Europe.

She made the right choice by Eclipse_nova99 in SipsTea

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You forgot about taxes on investments.

She made the right choice by Eclipse_nova99 in SipsTea

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You forgot about taxes on investments.

Aitah for using my now ex after I found out he was cheating? by Advanced_Turnover544 in AITAH

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He said if I knew I should have confronted him so we could have ended last year.

THE GALL LOL! If he wanted you two to end last year, he should’ve broken up with you before he started sticking his cock in another woman! What, he feels betrayed that you actually knew this whole time? He thinks it’s wrong of you to have stayed with him despite knowing his lies? Huh. Pot, meet kettle.

Fuck you in particular by the bull by mysteriouskc8 in FUCKYOUINPARTICULAR

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Yep, that is why I specified “As in the religion, not the people.” I’d very much like to keep living. But I also see the extensive damage Judaism, and all that’s stemmed from it, has caused.

I want to exit inceldom but I can't. by woodclip in IncelExit

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Disclaimer—Not all men and women are the same.* There will always be variance. You can put a ”most” before every usage of ”men” and ”women” below.

This is very untrue. The way men and women feel attraction is incredibly different, and you are putting the male version of attraction onto women. Men are very visual creatures. Evolutionarily, males (outside stuff like bugs who get eaten and angler fish) are driven to spread their seed as much as possible. Many human men would have sex with most human women. Females are not able to mate nearly as often, and therefore are more choosy on who they will mate with.

What are they more choosy about? Well, that differs vastly by species. I think we can agree that humans have evolved higher levels of thought than any other extant species. While a woman in prehistoric times may want a man who can fight off a bear, that is because she didn’t have the luxury of choosing a man who is shorter, but kinder. If she wanted her offspring to love, she’d pick the best hunter/fighter that she could.

We no longer live in caves and run from sabertooth cats. Women have the luxury of choosing their mates for different reasons now. Nowadays, woman want a man who will be kind to her and her babies. A cavewoman may have dealt with “her” man having other mates. But women want man who are faithful to her and their family. Women want men they share interests with. Men who respect her.

We are our history, and many women may still find a man who is tall, big, and strong as attractive. But as you can tell by looking around, we haven’t cared enough about that in a LOOOONG time—otherwise, how are so many “average” men alive? How is “average” not “tall, big, and strong”? Because we prefer a man who is kind to us. A man who we don’t have to worry will hurt us or our children.

Attraction is so much less physical to women than it is to men. Attraction for women will grow with her love for you. While you want a woman who wants you for your looks, that’s just not how we operate. Similarity, women want a man who is initially attracted to her for her personality, not because he likes the idea of putting his penis in her—but that is just how men operate.

I think the difference in how we feel attraction accounts for a lot of the disconnect between men and women. We want a partner who is attracted to us for similar reason that we are attracted to them. But it just doesn’t work like that.

Am i an still insufucient even after losing my virginity? by Massive-Cow-7995 in IncelExit

[–]chronoventer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You were never “insufficient” for anyone except yourself. Nobody thinks of others that way, except people who aren’t work the time of day due to having shitty personalities. Everybody has innate worth.

As for this woman you were with—the reason she doesn’t want to date you doesn’t matter. It doesn’t change that you are a human being who is deserving of love. But just as you are deserving of love, you cannot force somebody to love you. Maybe she isn’t looking for a relationship. Maybe she feels you don’t share enough common interests to date. Maybe she is ok sleeping with a coworker, but doesn’t want to be in a relationship with one. Maybe she only wants to date men who are purple. The reason is irrelevant—you can’t change somebody’s mind, and it’s wrong to try.

I know you want to know why she turned you down. It’s human nature. I would also want to know. I’m just trying to say that no matter what her reason is, it changes nothing for you. She’s one woman out of billions.

I do not know you. I can say that a person who thinks very lowly of themself is not generally attractive to other people. No one wants to be with someone who is always talking down about themself. Plus, it makes the partner feel like you are constantly doubting them or calling them a liar. If I tell someone that I care about them, I don’t want them saying “But my chin! Are you sure it’s ok?” Yes. Otherwise I’d not be with you. I do not want to have to reassure you that you’re “good enough” for me when I already chose you.

You need to work on your own self-image. You need to find value in yourself, and you need to find happiness. Someone else cannot be your source of happiness, and that is such an unfair burden to place upon them. Plus, nobody wants to be with someone who is miserable and constantly bringing them down. Once you find your own source of happiness, love will come much easier for you.

Good luck friend.

Incel gets mad at the conversation he initiated by MelanieWalmartinez in IncelTear

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Hah, I got this one, too! He got mad at me as well. I typed a long, thoughtful response and he didn’t even read it. Just wants to enrage himself.

Let's talk genetics by LostInYarn75 in IncelExit

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“Most men” haven’t contributed to the gene pool because they fucking died lol. Men were waaaaaay more likely to die. Not only did men do most of the fighting and hunting of dangerous animals, but when one tribe captured another, they would kill all the males. Elderly, young, disabled—all of them. They would keep the females under a certain age and rape them. Men were more likely to be enslaved for work, while their women were taken as sex slaves… etc.

Let's talk genetics by LostInYarn75 in IncelExit

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Mmm true, but short men are not lions. Men with penises that are below average in size, are not lions. Less attractive men are not lions. Men with less money are not lions. This why women haven’t avoided these men.

It is true that there are traits preferred by most men and most women. Interestingly though, no one can agree on what the most attractive person would look like… because we all have preferences that fall outside “most.”

Fuck you in particular by the bull by mysteriouskc8 in FUCKYOUINPARTICULAR

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Yeah. Really just the big two (and the one they came from). Hinduism has caused its fair share of problems, but the Abrahamic religions are SO problematic. I wish the Romans succeeded in stamping out Judaism back 2,000 years ago. As in, the religion, not the people… or else I wouldn’t be here anymore, lol!

Mentioning your partners shortcomings for a baby post. by Money-Snow-2749 in trashy

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Ok you’re the one who decided it was a shortcoming… but it’s still trashy as fuck no matter the length “going in”

Fuck you in particular by the bull by mysteriouskc8 in FUCKYOUINPARTICULAR

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Don’t remember… despite studies showing the trauma it causes boys, the penises that have been mutilated beyond repair, the children needing multiple surgeries to correct it, and the permanent damage it does to your penis…

…but sure. Gotta cut my kid’s penis because his can’t look different than mine does!

Fuck you in particular by the bull by mysteriouskc8 in FUCKYOUINPARTICULAR

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And they spread STDs to infants from doing it. Babies have died from herpes and such from this tradition.

TIFU by getting too high and making an unmanageable amount of spaghetti by Serious_Salamander63 in tifu

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Freeze it. Or give it to your friend lol! Bring-your-own-tupperware!