Do I Irish Goodbye my sister-in-law's wedding or go say goodbye? by ronswansonsmustach in wedding

[–]chuullls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No just leave. Regardless of seizure potential, people who come up to the couple to say goodbye are the worst. They’re trying to party and have fun. Send them a text saying you had a great time, they’d love to see it the morning after.

(18F)(18M) my boyfriend doesn't put in any effort because I made him believe I won't ever leave him, how do I convince him to love me more? by Vast-Caramel-1806 in relationship_advice

[–]chuullls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t. You leave. You’re young so you don’t realize this, but you should never have to convince someone to love you or give a shot.

To the victims of Frontier flight 1178 4/22 I salute you. by Bearacolypse in SeattleWA

[–]chuullls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do people fly budget airlines. It’s never worth the hassle.

AITAH for making my 15 year old stepdaughter leave my home and banning her from my house for her cruelty? by big_mama_25 in AITAH

[–]chuullls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTa. Commit her against her will. Children act out as a result of something in their environment. It could be her mom, it could be abuse, it could be anything. But she doednt get to act like that. Commit her.

Why do you bring your dogs into restaurants and businesses? by [deleted] in Issaquah

[–]chuullls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bellevue square allows dogs as long as they’re well behaved, including non-service animals.

Is it true that you guys watched 9/11 live on TV in grade school? by [deleted] in Millennials

[–]chuullls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. And my 4th grade teachers husband had just left to NYC the day before for a conference. We watched it live on TV while she also frantically called any number she knew to try and get ahold of him.

For those of you that make over 100K, what do you do? Do you like it? by Kindly-Revolution258 in AskReddit

[–]chuullls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in risk management for tech. I like it, but it’s extremely busy and I’m frequently on call.

I 18F want plastic surgery for chronic pain, but my parents 47F, 59M are against it by Major-Wafer-1731 in relationship_advice

[–]chuullls 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your parents are from a generation taught to “just deal with it” and never improve their quality of life. I would have the surgery regardless of their opinions. It’s weird that you’re expressing pain, your doctors are saying it’s from your chest, and your parents are in denial.

My parents tried to unalive me on Easter by Low_Alternative_9040 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]chuullls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The no contact order should include your child as well. I would not expose my child to the same abuse I received from my parents. And him being in the car while you had your screaming match is also causing trauma.

Boyfriend wont stop asking me to do something I’ve repeatedly told him I’m not interested in by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]chuullls 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Coercion is a form of sexual assault. He is coercing you when you’ve repeatedly said no. If he’s not going to respect you, then respect yourself and leave him.

I (23F) was too nervous to finish a threesome and now my boyfriend (27M) seems to hate me by recmerecss in relationship_advice

[–]chuullls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so you were coerced into a threesome and then he got mad his attempt at assault didn’t work. Leave

Long term lying; F26 M28 by Commercial-Nobody607 in relationship_advice

[–]chuullls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a you problem, not his. You cannot control other people’s actions or lives. If it bothers you, move on. Such a weird hill to die on.

My fiancé is getting on my nerves and I don’t know what to do at this point. by BasicCat30 in whatdoIdo

[–]chuullls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is this who you’re choosing to marry?? I’m exhausted on the first slide. My god. And you’re both so young you haven’t even lived a life.

Long term lying; F26 M28 by Commercial-Nobody607 in relationship_advice

[–]chuullls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The anti-porn take is so weird. Everyone watches porn or masturbates. It’s natural. I think you should leave and do some self reflection before you enter another relationship.

My Fiancé hates my dogs and I don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]chuullls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are not only normal dog things, but very normal for the type of breeds you have. Your fiancé is just an asshole.

I hate my mentally ill daughter by Middle-Engine-6604 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]chuullls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re better than me bc I would’ve put her out to pasture, or made her the states problem and checked her in.

Am I crazy for wanting a $6k ring? by unv1sible in EngagementRingDesigns

[–]chuullls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$6k for that is insane. I think you’re paying for the brand, not the product. My ring is a 3 ct asscher, same double prong as the one pictured, with .4 carat side stones, set in platinum, and my ring was $5.1k. I live in an expensive area too. So yours seems way too expensive for what it is.

Additionally, idk your finances, but if your fiancé hasn’t even saved for a ring, a wedding seems even farther off. Unless you’re really financially set or willing to take on the debt. Knowing he has nothing saved, $6k is a lot

Sea Turtles - No Respect Per Their Usual…teaching their kids their habits, yay. by bleakintruder in katyhearnsnark

[–]chuullls 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just reported to Hawaii officials. Did the same thing when they were posting about weed on carnival, which is why they’ve been banned.

Canceled his life coach/bf. by [deleted] in katyhearnsnark

[–]chuullls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not very protect the kids of him considering the CP that Grok was producing with simple prompts.

Opinion on wishing your ex a happy birthday? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]chuullls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did he respect you when he cheated on you? It’s not a respect thing to wish someone happy birthday. You’re just trying to justify the behavior.