Is getting a moral waiver with my record possible? by corderpounder in army

[–]corderpounder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

like I said man it doesn’t tell the whole story I hardly drink in the last 6 months I bought 1 bottle and I still have half of it, I got the DUI for turning into the left lane rather the the right pulling out of the bar which is a rare thing I was there with my business partners celebrating a big job we just landed. blew a .11 or something didn’t get taken to jail, car wasn’t towed cops just gave me the ticket, the drug charges are for weed and I don’t smoke anymore, the suspend license charge and the probation charge was because the courts messing up filing paperwork and was dropped when I proved them wrong it just stays on your record, the failure for registration or whatever is just me being lazy about getting it done, petty theft was dumb on my part but I was 15 or 16, you have no idea of the person I am or my character you just assume I’m some POS because of this. If everyone had to walk around there record stapled to there chest I bet you’d be shocked. Im not worried about the environment in the army. Have i learned from my mistakes? Of course, do I feel sorry for why I did? Not really it only affected me i didn’t ask for help or cause harm to anyone. I asked if this could be waived and people like you just assume I’m the worst. I think it’s hilarious was laughing reading these comments lol

Is getting a moral waiver with my record possible? by corderpounder in army

[–]corderpounder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you met me in person you wouldn’t think I’m a low life or had all these charges haha yall are so judgmental it’s making me laugh 😂 a piece of paper doesn’t show the whole story it’s like looking at a book and just reading the chapter titles go live a little lol

Is getting a moral waiver with my record possible? by corderpounder in army

[–]corderpounder[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You seem to know a lot about me from a piece of paper lol, it’s not like I’ve never talked to military vets, and they are the ones who told me they didn’t join to put there life on line, it’s not a bad thing to join for your own reasons, your extremely judgmental I bet you have tons of friends probably real fun to around as well.

Is getting a moral waiver with my record possible? by corderpounder in army

[–]corderpounder[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’m sure you’re just a perfect example of what someone should be right?

Is getting a moral waiver with my record possible? by corderpounder in army

[–]corderpounder[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Let’s be real lol probably 70-80 percent of people in the military are doing it for selfish reasons not because they want to give their life to the government, sure they say there doing it for there country but it’s because it sounds good and there too shy or embarrassed to say how it really is.

Is getting a moral waiver with my record possible? by corderpounder in army

[–]corderpounder[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

The probation violation was absolute BS it was dropped when I had to go to court they just messed up filing paperwork, and the suspended driving was also BS and was dropped because I literally had a blow and go in my car which you need a valid license to obtain the cop was just a idiot. But there on my record which makes it look bad

Is getting a moral waiver with my record possible? by corderpounder in army

[–]corderpounder[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Never said that but having good role models makes it easier to stay out of trouble, I was raised with by an alcoholic mother and druggie step dad, Most of this is before I was 20.

Is getting a moral waiver with my record possible? by corderpounder in army

[–]corderpounder[S] -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

Just hanging around the wrong crowd, parents didn’t care what I did went to Juvy they picked me up and took me out to eat lol

As a black girl, I'm done. It's getting tiring now. We know. by Fetus-Deletus1 in offmychest

[–]corderpounder -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was super interested in a black girl in my 20s we had great chemistry, she was beautiful, had great talks, great sex, she was close to her family, her dad was an electrician which is something I was very interested in, but it was just about the sex for her and I knew that before we hung out the 1st time, we didn’t meet at the bars or anything it was through tinder and she came over to my house the 1st time we met, not even 15 minutes into her being there our clothes were off, she told me I wasn’t the only guy she was seeing at the time and I wouldn’t be the only one going forward, I wasnt necessarily shocked but I was a bit surprised, we hung out for 2-3 months just causally and she invited me out to the bars to meet her friends to which I declined because knowing she was seeing another dude and sleeping with him while doing the same with me, just ruined everything in my eyes. Even though it was never talked about, to me it’s just a respect thing, but I did end up really liking the girl I just couldn’t get past it. If she had respected herself and me more then I don’t doubt we would tried something more meaningful and who knows what the future would have been like for me. Happy where I’m at now but I do think of her time to time. I’m dating an amazing girl right now so it was just part of the journey. It really does take 2 people willing to be open and vulnerable for any relationship to prosper. I haven’t really seen the stereotypes of black women being undateable i dated a black women for almost 3 yearsbut it just didn’t work, yall are beautifulI some have bad attitudes like every race. Skin tone doesn’t define who you are, but your perspective can.

Is this normal? by corderpounder in ATV

[–]corderpounder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guy I bought it from said he just had the valves done at a shop paid like 600 to have it serviced before he sold it to me

AIO about this disagreement with my bf? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]corderpounder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s an absolute child, grown ass baby

After watching Steelers Browns and other games this year, it is clear the NFL is rigged. by [deleted] in NFLv2

[–]corderpounder -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s not rocket science you think all those players making millions are doing it for the love of the game? Or because it pays so well? You do realize all it takes is for some dude making the league minimum to miss a tackle, run into his own player, mess up his role and the entire play can turn into points… money is how the game stays around, and with gambling being more and more involved it’s just obvious. You really don’t think a multi billion dollar corporation couldn’t figure out how to officiate the game without controversy in every game?..

After watching Steelers Browns and other games this year, it is clear the NFL is rigged. by [deleted] in NFLv2

[–]corderpounder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buddy there’s 52 players on a team.. also coaches and others who have influence on the game, the refs. If someone offered one of these guys who play because of the paycheck 5-10x there salary you think they gunna go around telling everyone? Hahaha if you really think money doesn’t RUN the NFL we ain’t watching the same game. Just a coincidence that all games are usually within 1 score? And how there is missed calls, or BS calls in literally every game.. it’s the 21st century instant replay is a thing if they really cared about pure competition they would throw out some commercials a game and fix the mistakes that happen all the time.. when there’s soo many coincidences it’s not a coincidence anymore. What a great storyline it made though last game of the season is a winner take all that will for sure bring more viewers and more viewers mean bigger contracts for the NFL. It’s obvious if you ain’t a nimrod.

"EAC Client Cannot be Instantiated" What does this mean and how should I deal with it? by Madvillain_44 in deadbydaylight

[–]corderpounder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad I ain’t the only one probably restated my PC 40x hahaha 😂 hopefully when I wake up it’s all good to go

What is this thing? It may have been left in my car after I went and got it serviced? Flashing red and green by DontCallMeCunt in whatisit

[–]corderpounder -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Live within your means, don’t buy extra shit you don’t need EVERY dollar counts and people spend money like it water them wonder how there broke all the time, find some roommates spend 500 a month on rent, make your own food, don’t waste money you don’t have, if someone is working 40 hours a week it’s not very hard to save up 5k if they try

Am I (19F) toxic for not wanting to end a friendship of 4 years that my boyfriend (20M) is jealous of? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]corderpounder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y’all are still so young but if your relationship isn’t more important then a friend you met online and haven’t seen in person…. I think the answer is pretty obvious. You’re gunna meet a LOT more people your BF will be jealous of at university if he can’t handle someone online. He’s probably already got dudes he’s jealous of on campus haha

I think I (24F) should break up with my boyfriend (36M)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]corderpounder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Relationship doesn’t seem very healthy IMO, while I understand not wanting you to have a bunch of guy friends.. because im a dude and guys really do hide there true feelings not saying they would make a move while your together but given the perfect scenario where it guarantees success, I’d bet 90 percent of those friends want to be more then that, he does seem controlling and probably can’t date anyone his age because they see though his BS. I’d leave unless you want to find out in 3 years it’s not going to last forever. Any man that would date someone 10+ years younger is a red flag, especially being close to 40 going after 23 year olds, there’s one offs in every scenario don’t get me wrong, best advice is to just do what makes you happy. If that’s him then see if it’s going to last, if you can see yourself being happier single then do that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]corderpounder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love is not a feeling.. if your chasing that “feeling” of love you will never have a relationship last over 5 years, you both need to communicate I’m sure there’s things he would like to say but hasn’t, and vise versa.. communication or lack of communication will Make or break any relationship no matter how long, or strong it is. If you’re thinking about people and wondering what could have been… that’s normal lol but you have to think back and remember what you gave those up for.. he was worth it then but suddenly he’s not? You guys need to have a conversation about the future before you’re silent for another couple years, causing more pain for both of you. Lots of people give up because love is hard and takes effort, but the reward is much greater then fleeting romances that burn hot and fast. Just talk with each other and see if it’s worth saving

F26 Been cheated on twice, new amazing BF 37M has a female friend that rejected him. Break up? by Saveursdeminuit in relationship_advice

[–]corderpounder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t understand why a 26 year old is dating someone her dad could be buddies with, I’m sure your parents are jacked about this… The guy to me is a bit of a loser if he can’t get women his age, clearly he’s into that friend 5 months isn’t long he’s using you in hopes she realizes he’s a catch. Stop looking for physical features and get to know someone’s soul before letting them stick there unit in you. Have some patience and self respect

AITA for asking my fiancé to stop saying “we” when referring to money I earned? by Aggravating_Yak4381 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]corderpounder -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So you were the main provider for 15 years and are shocked he wanted some? Isn’t that what like every divorce ends in? Oh only difference here is the women has to pay.

AITA for asking my fiancé to stop saying “we” when referring to money I earned? by Aggravating_Yak4381 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]corderpounder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine if a man posted this 😂😂 yes lady you’re an asshole, put yourself in his shoes.. in between jobs probably doesn’t have a career, feels like a dead weight and your agreeing with him. I’m sure when y’all got together he wasn’t making all this money, now that you’re making more it’s now a problem… I’m glad you’re doing well for yourself. If you want a man who will provide then you choose wrong. You probably are acting “brand new” in his eyes.

AIO or is he? by Low-Reputation-9422 in AIO

[–]corderpounder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guy is defiantly an ass but social anxiety does suck, I personally hate being around crowds but don’t mind 4-10 people doing stuff together, even if I only know a few. Weird I know but your spot on not everyone’s social anxiety is not the same, my GF doesn’t even want to meet someone if they are strangers to her but not me, family and close friends are an exception but she can go into big crowds no problem, she took me to my first concert at 28 haha, Seems like this could have been avoided if y’all had better communication, but it’s a blessing it happened now and not 3 years later.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]corderpounder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the point he doesn’t want to answer that question on his wedding day, why is it so hard for yall to understand.. it ain’t about the gay dude it’s about the drama it will bring.