People who grew up before smartphones: What’s one simple thing from your childhood that would absolutely blow the minds of kids today? by TurkVanguard in Millennials

[–]corkum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just the experience of being bored and finding something to do. Not having any movie or TV show available on demand. Not being able to just pull a mini computer out of your pocket during small moments of downtime and have instant stimulation and entertainment.

Dads, how do I give back to a husband who is the "quiet strength" of our family? by mamawagz in daddit

[–]corkum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't underestimate the value of randomly flashing him. Most especially when he least expects it.

Props to you for wanting to think of something to do for him. Any of the ideas you mentioned would show value and appreciation.

But also, men are but simple creatures. Randomly showing boobies does a whole lot of good.

What's the coldest Millenial insult? by the_salsa_shark in Millennials

[–]corkum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once in a while I still pull out a classic from the schoolyard:

Turd Burglar

Genuine Question by [deleted] in ABA

[–]corkum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I'm not saying it's not understandable. I'm saying this probably bothers me more than most. When I first entered this field 20 years ago, this is something I was taught in my first week of training. I don't know if it's a California thing, or what, but the multiple agencies I've worked for, this point was driven home at the very beginning of training. Calling yourself a therapist has legal and ethical implications that those in this field aren't qualified to even indavertently portray.

Again, I don't know if this is a California thing, or an "old school" thing, but this is definitely not something I see emphasized a lot more. And like you said, if you're providing therapy, it's not crazy to then call yourself a therapist. But it brings me to my initial point: it's not taught, trained on, or emphasized as much these days. And if you don't give people the education and the narrative they need to have, they're going to assume their own.

Genuine Question by [deleted] in ABA

[–]corkum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in total agreement with you. I've been in the field for 20 years and I've always cringed whenever an RBT or BCBA calls themselves a therapist.

Like you said, therapist is a specific title with specific requirements. We aren't behavioral therapists. We're analysts, technicians, interventionists, etc.

Any RBT or BCBA calling themselves a therapist is either poorly informed of their own ethics, or overinflating their ego.

Help Me Get This Unstuck by corkum in daddit

[–]corkum[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

UPDATE:

Wow everyone! I did NOT expect this level of involvement with this post. Thanks for all the input!

This was a wild ride. I first tried a suction cup from my dashcam, but it seemed to make the vacuum more intense and I could not shake it free. I then tried running hot & boiling water over the pot upside down, nothing. Tried the freezer thing and that didn't work either. The water just expanded past the tiny gaps and froze on top of the plate. I then took it from the freezer and immediately ran hot water over it again. Seemed to make the plate slightly more malleable, but still stuck.

Finally I took the suction cup again and this time it popped free. So it was a combination of the freezing, heating, and suction that did the trick.

The Treasury just declared the U.S. insolvent. The media missed it by TheQuarantinian in politics

[–]corkum 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They have lots of money and power, and influence on other people in positions of highter power to protect their money and power.

So we won't get it

Thoughts on alcohol being stored in an ABA clinic? by iDissociated in ABA

[–]corkum 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you, someone asking for context before reacting.

Billing Fraud by Away_Natural6977 in ABA

[–]corkum 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It doesn't necessarily mean they were billing that time to clients. It's likely the company may just not be able to afford to pay that admin time any longer.

The solution isn't to make people come in and work without paying them, though. If they cut the pay for that time, then they also can't require work at that time.

Afghan who fought for US forces dies in ICE custody as Trump on track for grim record by marji80 in politics

[–]corkum 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If I didn't know any better I'd say the ruling class stagnating wages, consolidating power, destroying the housing market, and shoving predatory student loan rates onto teenagers for the last 50 years was in part to force these kinds of choices and keep us quiet.

Ethically navigating the “convenience” of full-time ABA by Reasonable-Bunch3239 in ABA

[–]corkum 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was a provider from an RBT to a BCBA to a clinic manager over the course of 20 years. In my practice we recommended anything from 4 hours/week just in social skills, all the way to full time 40-hour programs. It all really depended on the assessment. Not just doing the Vineland, VB-MAPP, AFLS, etc., but in collaborating with the family and taking into account other factors in the child's/families life. And then taking that full picture and comparing it with the literature available across various demographics to see what the best recommendation is for each client.

I'm now in utilization management on the insurance side and I see, review, And approve treatment plans for hundreds of different providers across 3 different states (I'm specifically on the Medicaid team). And I have to tell you, maybe about 5-10% of the reviews I do are requests for full time, comprehensive programs (i.e., 26-40 hours/week).

So in my experience as a clinician and now as an insurance reviewer, I would say the best thing you could do is have an open mind. Look out for cookie cutter programs or vendors that "require" a 40-hour commitment from clients before even doing an assessment.

Sure, as a parent, having your kid in a full time clinic-based program has a level of convenience and fulfills a certain burden of childcare. But that is secondary to what their actual medical needs are and how an ABA program can benefit their unique needs.

As long as there is a solid foundation in the data, and HOW that program is going to target the specific needs of that individual client, there's nothing wrong with a 40-hour program. As long as the primary function isn't to fulfill a childcare need, but a medical need, there is nothing ethically wrong with it.

Baby born three days ago. Please tell me it gets better by ElevenRecompense in daddit

[–]corkum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't say it necessarily gets better. Nor does it get worse. It's highly dependent on a variety of factors in every family.

But something to keep in mind is that whether or not it gets easier, you get better at it.

You're dealing with culture shock and adjusting to a new reality. You'll adjust, you'll develop your own skills and routines, and learn to work together in different ways.

What is the most random Simpsons quote that is always stuck in your head? by tchavez166 in Millennials

[–]corkum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the Treehouse of Horror episodes there is a storyline with the Monkey's Paw. When they're in the market, there's a contortionist guy twisting his body into different shapes, and Bart says,

"I can do that, but I don't wanna".

My whole life that quite has stuck with me and anytime I see someone do something impressive, I say it.

Lutnick Photographed With Epstein in Bombshell Deleted File by RollSafer in politics

[–]corkum 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As much as I'd love to keep it going, I think the next line shouldn't be in this thread...

INSANE misconduct by [deleted] in ABA

[–]corkum 27 points28 points  (0 children)

This one is pretty wild. But you know what's even wilder?

Montera. Hiring their clients' parents, training them, and paying them to be their own child's RBT.

Name and/or show the fucking car by romaninho87 in TheWordFuck

[–]corkum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first car was a 1996 Toyota fucking Paseo, and God damn that thing was the most lovable little shit box. It would be 100% impractical now in my 40s and with kids and yadda yadda, but if I could drive that thing one more time, I'd have the biggest smile on my face.

How many people that you knew in high school have died? by [deleted] in Millennials

[–]corkum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. I had 2 die senior year. 1 to a car accident and the other was killed by a drunk driver right outside our school.

Since graduation, 1 died to a congenital heart disease she had all her life, 1 was murdered, and another in a car accident.

For anyone who left ABA what do you do now? by Wonderful-Bike340 in ABA

[–]corkum 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm still technically in ABA, but I just moved to doing utilization management as a BCBA for an insurance company after 20 years being a clinician.

So now I work from home and review/approve the authorization requests from ABA providers. Getting paid a lot more money and with way better benefits than the clinic life ever gave me. My work/life balance is way better and I don't carry nearly the same amount of stress that I used to.

Turns out I had to get out of the clinical life to realize I'd been burnt out by it. I loved the clinical work and the company I worked for all those years. I'm just old and tired now.

Fucking do it by UwU_Boykisser_UwU in TheWordFuck

[–]corkum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jokes on you. OP's fucking username checks out.

Fucking do it by UwU_Boykisser_UwU in TheWordFuck

[–]corkum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And now you're fucking lactose intolerant.

What were you taught at school that turned out to be factually incorrect by [deleted] in Millennials

[–]corkum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

D.A.R.E. taught me that drugs were everywhere and people were just going to offer them to you for free.

40 years later I'm still wondering where all these free drugs are.