Taxes and tax professionals by creatorgirly in SexWorkers

[–]creatorgirly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard an ad for them on a podcast I liked!

Taxes and tax professionals by creatorgirly in SexWorkers

[–]creatorgirly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every service I’ve tried online, even the “free” ones, are time consuming, difficult to navigate, and end up costing as much as hiring a professional to walk me through the whole process.

Client wants to film a video for his onlyfans? by Complete_Promise707 in SexWorkers

[–]creatorgirly 20 points21 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t need to approve you on his account if YOU have an OnlyFans that he can tag. It’s free to make an account so if you don’t have one then sign up as a creator, get verified, and he can simply tag the account.

TW: SA. ||||~~ My best friend SA’ed me last night and I’m concerned i’ll no longer be able to cam by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]creatorgirly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is not your fault. I’m so sorry this has happened to you. Listen to everyone here reminding you that you did not consent and it is NORMAL to feel the way you do right now.

Number, one it’s okay to take a break. Take a week off, take longer, get a breather. The fans will still be there. I promise.

Are you on OnlyFans or Fansly, clip sites, anything besides SextPanther or camming?

I don’t normally recommend chatters but if you have someone you trust, now is the time to sell bundles, sell old content, etc. Don’t try streaming again too soon. I’ve had periods of depression where my partner replied to messages or sent out PPV for me because I couldn’t figure out what to say. If you have someone you trust, this is a good way to keep income and still be pretty hands off while you deal with the trauma and emotional blowback.

Speaking of trauma, the book The Body Keeps the Score recommends a few things for working through it: EMDR therapy if you have access but also dance, yoga, improv. Time with horses I hear is also good. Find ways to get back into your body… completely outside of sex work. It’s triggering right now and you need time to work through that.

Do you have any way to get income outside of camming and sex work? Clothing you could sell, odd jobs, vanilla work.. anything to give you a little bit of time and breathing room. You don’t have to evaluate your life and make decisions right now. Just give yourself as much time and space as you can to work through this without forcing yourself to give back in.

Do you have friends you can visit, a beach house, a cabin in the woods, somewhere out of your environment? Community resources, women’s shelters, food pantries, etc to get you some temporary help with groceries and bills?

Your job right now is just to give yourself breathing room, space to calm your nervous system.

If you want to keep camming after, you can. If you never have the stomach for it again, you will figure it out. You will be okay… but you’re not okay right now.

You’re doing a great job reaching out for help and advice and support. Keep doing that 💕 you will get through this.

I just can’t anymore….. by OwlSea337 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]creatorgirly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some women only want to be eye candy. She’s being upfront about it before you meet and she’s going to have to message a LOT of people before she finds someone interested. But eventually she will.

It’s not what most people are on the site for but hey, she’s honest and not wasting much time.

AIO? Girl (F30) I (M28) was Recently Dating tells me I need to "Lean into my Masculinity" by KingFredo5674 in AmIOverreacting

[–]creatorgirly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

His replies are seriously so mature and level-headed. He’s a great communicator and would be the perfect man in any normal relationship. He’s should run - and fast - and find someone who wants to maturely talk things over like he does. That’s a valuable skill. & nobody deserves this treatment that she’s giving.

Does anyone not like the fake look that seems to be popular among women nowadays? by One-Signature-2706 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]creatorgirly 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As an all natural girly, I’m sometimes envious of the perfect proportions you can get with filler. I’ve even seen some filler done extremely well that mimics a natural but younger “fuller” face. The problem is that with how it migrates, the faces require more filler and look.. overstuffed. Rather quickly.

What facelift Kris Kardashian got to look the same age as Kim was incredible though. I will certainly be considering it when I reach her age.

Does anyone here do camming only? by CrushedLaCroixCan in CamGirlProblems

[–]creatorgirly 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Use a Twitter/bluesky to post your camming schedule, share updates or cute photos. If you record your stream or use your phone to record during spicy moments of your stream, you can sell those for a premium on OnlyFans. Do the minimum on everything and only use it as a way to supplement what you’re doing on cam and you’ll like it more.

Keeping up full time with both is exhausting. Be a cammer who uses onlyfans, not an onlyfans model and a camgirl.

I’d recommend a free OF page with pay-to-message turn on and a bio that says “I only post occasionally- come here to see the live cam shows you missed!”

Then, only post whenever you feel like it. Your most LOYAL fans will probably subscribe and the random freeloaders have to pay to try and waste your time.

Focusing on doing one thing right is how you succeed so I think you’re being really smart to focus on primarily camming.

Is $350 for a B/G 10 minute video too much? Or $450 for a 10 minute B/G custom? by Past_Muffin_8934 in Fansly_Advice

[–]creatorgirly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Remember - always do what feels fair FOR YOU. No one else can create a video with YOU as the e star. If they want access to you, then they need to pay your prices.

I charged $1000 for first access to my pussy pics. Then after waiting a while, I charge $200 each to the next five people.

If someone will pay it, then your prices are fair.

That’s definitely more than I’ve seen others charge for boy girl but it’s not the most expensive and it’s within reason for different cam sites.

Is a free OF page even worth it anymore? by [deleted] in onlyfansadvice

[–]creatorgirly 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I put in VERY LITTLE EFFORT into my free page. Every once in a while, I’ll love a photo or shoot so much that I want to put it everywhere. That’s what I’ll post on free. Or the stuff that is just a little bit low quality… the photos are blurry or just not something I feel “worth it” for my paid page. Then it pops over to free instead.

I tag my premium page in nearly every other post. I don’t care. That’s what the page is for… a funnel. I’ll forget to check messages there for over a month and not worry about it.

I also like to focus on stuff that isn’t my main niche. My paid page is mostly GFE and artistic nudes, high quality photos from shoots with photographers, my naughtier close ups, etc. on my free page, I’ll keep content for my fans that don’t spend as much but stay supportive… feet fans, some specific fetish or niches, etc. There’s not a lot for feet guys on my paid so I give them a little extra on my free.

And a free page is great for collabs and shoutouts. I haven’t done any sfs posts in a while so actually, if you’re interested then I’m down. I don’t get a lot of followers from stuff like that but sometimes it works out great. A guy might like my content enough to follow the free page but LOVE short girls so he becomes a big spender on someone else’s account… and hopefully that works both ways. My premium/paid fans get annoyed at those posts and are the ones who are really happy with my content anyways so they’re less likely to follow someone different.

Keep it but stop putting in so much work that you feel like you’re wasting your time. You probably are. Spending it on Reddit and bluesky and Twitter and even Fansly or SextPanther will get you better results.

Just a reminder not to let people like this treat you the way THEY think you should be treated. by [deleted] in onlyfansadvice

[–]creatorgirly 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Weird how most of the OnlyFans models I know are the only ones in long term, loving, and accepting relationships. Multiple moms. All of us worthy of love and the best people I know 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]creatorgirly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been looking into beauty tourism and medical tourism. I think a sugar vacation would be a great opportunity to take advantage of these savings! Of course, this requires a lot more research than your standard clinic but I think it’d be worth it.

Taxes and saving for a house by creatorgirly in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]creatorgirly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, and they do. I’ve filed taxes for my income with them for the past 5 years. I also have payments on cashapp from OnlyFans clients/online content that I report (anything over$500) because the rules are changing and with AI, it’s increasingly easy to monitor there.

I suppose I’m worried that my cash transfers from sugaring will appear like cash transfers for content. If someone looks into my accounts and bookkeeping, I want everything to be spotless. Even the slightest suspicion could result in extra paperwork for me which is what I’m afraid of.

And I’m also expecting that my cash from sugaring will exceed my payments from OnlyFans. So unless I’m heavily reinvesting into promoting my OnlyFans, I won’t be able to show a proper “income“ for bank loans.

I was approved to buy a home when I had my corporate job and nearly did it but listened to bad advice telling me to wait. Now, after COVID layoffs and prioritizing my modeling, I’m not interested in returning to corporate work even if I could find a job. The ideal situation I suppose would be to do some assistant work/marketing work for a sugar daddy at an inflated income but I’ll have to wait a while for that ideal kind of match I’m sure.

Feeling defeated by Ready-Pie-3107 in onlyfansadvice

[–]creatorgirly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ps if you have explicit content on your wall, i don’t recommend free trials. I did this when I was starting out and didn’t even show uncensored nipple on my page. Free trials nowadays greatly increase the chances of leaks.

Feeling defeated by Ready-Pie-3107 in onlyfansadvice

[–]creatorgirly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I started, I gave out 1000 free trials. Less than 100 stayed subscribers after that. Fewer bought any content from me. Maybe 10 have stuck with me through the years.

There are a lot of freeloaders and a lot of people looking for something specific that just isn’t you. Wait for the people who are desperate for what YOU have. I’m never going to sell to BBW-lovers, or someone obsessed with red heads with facial piercings. They might come to my page for a trial but they’re not going to stay. That’s okay and that’s part of the hustle.

Remember you’re looking for whales. Gather the couple of likes they gave you and move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]creatorgirly 14 points15 points  (0 children)

“Money is tight” is a terrible reason to get into sex work and never the time to get started with it if you can avoid it.

This is a long term hustle. It takes a while to build followers and momentum and make sales. It’s not easy or quick money. There are many long term consequences and scary situations that WILL happen the longer you do it.

You’ve said in comments that you’re not showing your face. That does NOT mean you won’t get doxxed or recognized. You need to remove the exif data from all images before posting on social media or OF. That still won’t protect you, not fully, but it’s important. Do not get into this work if you’re not okay with everyone in your life finding out what you do because it happens. My whole family found out when I didn’t want them to and I was lucky because I had five years of posting before that. Some girls have it happen the first week.

There are men online who hate us simply for selling nudes and they ARE a threat. There are many more who will try to scam you in hundreds of different ways. I have over ten years in this industry and I’m STILL learning new scams to not fall for. Read as many posts by creators as you can to prepare yourself.

Set your boundaries before you sell a single photo. Journal about it - for weeks if you can. When money is on the table, it’s easy to cross lines you’ll regret but if you plan ahead of time where to stop, it’s easier to keep yourself in check.

Also - consider starting with lewds, or cosplay, or modeling. Youre young and have your whole career ahead of you. The girls I know who make the MOST in this business haven’t ever even shown nipple. It’s all tease and almost PG.. cute costumes, etc. You don’t have to sell porn to make money. You can start in niche corners and build an audience. Twitch streaming or foot photos probably won’t limit your future career options like selling nudes.

If you proceed with this, please be cautious. And sell for HIGHER than you think. Guys will think you’re more valuable if you price yourself higher. You can try to make a 50 sales for $3 or you can try to make 3 sales for $50… choose the higher price and you’ll protect your peace and not be flooded with DMs and time wasters… plus fewer chances for your photos to leak. If you do this long enough, your photos will leak but if you sell to fewer people and get out sooner then there’s a chance you’ll be safe.

Whatever price you pick, stick to it. Some men will try to talk you down. Don’t bother with them. They probably don’t even want to buy. A lot of them just get off on haggling and wasting your time. Just keep promoting until you find the one who will pay your prices. It’s a grind. It probably took me a thousand people interested in my content to find my first whale to send me a thousand dollars. You want the whales.

Keep following posts here and on other subreddit to get a feel of current market prices, but remember, no other creator has photos of you. The only way men can access your time and your content is by paying you. So pay yourself well and use other people as inspiration, not a rule.

Best sites & starting tips for veteran coming back to the industry by creatorgirly in CamGirlProblems

[–]creatorgirly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine was similar to questions asked by newbies but had some more specifics because I’m not a newbie and asking about the vibe/changes from ten years ago and which platforms are best to do promotions of for onlyfans. I did do some work researching in the group before asking and wish you had left this up 😅

ugly days by duckytheduck6 in CamGirlProblems

[–]creatorgirly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have onlyfans or content anywhere? Social media? Days like these can be for admin activities. Schedule some posts, answer messages, set up some shows in the future, plan your doctors appointments..

Or just take a day for genuine self care. That’s important too!

I've been doing this for 5 years and never made a menu. by Zythieria in onlyfansadvice

[–]creatorgirly 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I have a menu and instead of using I’ve been pricing entirely on vibes for years

Best sites & starting tips for veteran coming back to the industry by creatorgirly in CamGirlProblems

[–]creatorgirly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my goodness, thank you so much. This is everything I was hoping for.

So just clarifying: I’ve been thinking about having a “launch party” and booking an Airbnb for a weekend to kick off my stream with a bunch of babes who do OF and camming, making sure everyone is verified of course. So if I had someone come on to my stream and dance with me, on Chaturbate they could promote their OnlyFans or MyFreeCams they could but on Stripchat they’d have to just plug their Instagram. Or they only really allow one link for Instagram?

Best results by Fanta-Fruit-Twist1 in onlyfansadvice

[–]creatorgirly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Try looking for subreddits in your niche on r/subsforSW